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names... and do they help form impressions?

23rdDjin Negulesco
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04-09-2009 09:00
From: Naz Fride
I chose my first name for reasons that are too complicated to go into, but that involved David Bowie, Todd Rundgren and the Damned.



not that you should feel the need, but, if you wish, you can also add Alice Cooper and Lord Buckley to that list.
Damien1 Thorne
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04-09-2009 09:02
From: 23rdDjin Negulesco
not that you should feel the need, but, if you wish, you can also add Alice Cooper and Lord Buckley to that list.

and Mott the Hopple. :p
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Clarissa Lowell
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04-09-2009 09:10
/me doesn't get the naz talk (does it mean fried nose in some other language?)

Damien1 I have always wanted to ask you (clears throat gathers courage) did you have to reregister and so put a 1 behind your first name? I have done that before if the signup page hit a glitch/I lost my password.

Ya don't have to answer, of course.
Damien1 Thorne
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04-09-2009 09:17
From: Clarissa Lowell
/me doesn't get the naz talk (does it mean fried nose in some other language?)

Damien1 I have always wanted to ask you (clears throat gathers courage) did you have to reregister and so put a 1 behind your first name? I have done that before if the signup page hit a glitch/I lost my password.

Ya don't have to answer, of course.

The name without any numbers wasn't available. But I wanted the name due to the reason I originally started in sl, so I just added the 1. I had not ever tried any online stuff so I didn't really know the difference. But now I have way too much invested in me to even switch to my alt.
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Brenda Connolly
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04-09-2009 09:20
From: Damien1 Thorne
The name without any numbers wasn't available. But I wanted the name due to the reason I originally started in sl, so I just added the 1. I had not ever tried any online stuff so I didn't really know the difference. But now I have way too much invested in me to even switch to my alt.


I'd like to meet the original SL Damien Thorne.

*maybe he looks like Sam Neill :)
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Marianne McCann
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04-09-2009 09:20
From: Rhaorth Antonelli
For me, names do play a part in my impression of someone.
(positive and negative)


Me as well.

Of course, an obvious grief name is going to get treated appropriately, but I like to see names where someone put a little time into it. JOHNNY3290 is not as creative as other names, IMO, and implies that Johnny may well not be here for the long haul.

It's likely a bad way to look at things, and there are *plenty* of exceptions (Damien1, above, for example) -- but seems to be the way I look at it all.
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Brenda Connolly
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04-09-2009 09:20
From: Damien1 Thorne
and Mott the Hopple. :p

Are you a young dude?
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Damien1 Thorne
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04-09-2009 09:21
From: Brenda Connolly
Are you a young dude?

No, are you?
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Clarissa Lowell
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04-09-2009 09:22
From: Brenda Connolly
I'd like to meet the original SL Damien Thorne.

*maybe he looks like Sam Neill :)


If so let me know. Always had a bit of a crush on that actor (he could chop my pinky off anytime!)
Brenda Connolly
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04-09-2009 09:31
From: Damien1 Thorne
No, are you?


Not according to my OB/Gyn.
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Brenda Connolly
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04-09-2009 09:32
From: Clarissa Lowell
If so let me know. Always had a bit of a crush on that actor (he could chop my pinky off anytime!)


A bit of a crush? How about a "Rip off my clothes and throw myself at him" crush.
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Clarissa Lowell
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04-09-2009 09:34
From: Brenda Connolly
A bit of a crush? How about a "Rip off my clothes and throw myself at him" crush.


Okay, guilty. :)
Bradley Bracken
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04-09-2009 09:48
From: Brenda Connolly
A bit of a crush? How about a "Rip off my clothes and throw myself at him" crush.


Are you claiming to have standards?
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Brenda Connolly
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04-09-2009 09:51
From: Bradley Bracken
Are you claiming to have standards?


Looks at your ass......Always. :)
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Whimsycallie Pegler
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04-09-2009 10:40
My name is long, but like many here I had used it other places on the web and it shortens to Whims easily enough. I definately think our names like our avs make impressions. We make the choices (even if last names are somewhat forced).

I have to admit I did go so far as to make one alt just so I could snatch up a name I particularly liked. Too bad I have never done much with her, but someday I might.
Indoorsman Dagger
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04-09-2009 11:34
For some odd reason I feel like my name describes something used to hunt lost Cheetos.
Rhaorth Antonelli
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04-09-2009 11:50
From: Kyllie Wylie
Picked my name to rhyme as in 10+ years of playing on line games I have always found that people with short easy to remember names always have more friends than someone with random letters as a name.



hehe
my name actually is/was random letters
prior to SL, I was signing up for a game elsewhere, and every name I tried was taken, I got frustrated and started hitting random letters and rhaorth was a part of the sequence of letters and I liked it (not sure why LOL)

now...about 6 years later (3 of which are SL) I am still Rhaorth (and almost changed it to my RL name)
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Scott Savira
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04-09-2009 12:14
Scott is my RL middle name and I thought Scott Savira had a bit of a rockstar ring to it.

Now... I don't get too bent out of shape when I see people with dumb names, although I might snicker at them. If their name is Joesixpack3413 I usually assume they aren't very interesting... then again, I make an effort to give them a chance first.
Amity Slade
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04-09-2009 12:17
I used to have a bad reaction to seeing SL names with AOL-style screen names. I'm snotty that way.

Recently though I became a part-owner of a SL club. It is not so busy yet that I can afford to be snotty about whose money I accept. So as a survival skill, I have changed my attitude toward people with such names, so that I can be happy and friendly to them when they walk in the door.

Plus, I have to be a little sympathetic about the fact that (a) there is no real choice when it comes to surname, and (b) common, normal names are snatched up so quickly that there is virtual no chance at them.

Still, I wish there was some warning on the sign-up page that encouraged people to select their names carefully. One's name makes a first impression, and there are no second chances at first impressions. Choosing one's name is the single most important act of expression than one makes in Second Life.
Ponsonby Low
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04-09-2009 12:43
From: Chris Norse
Pussy Galore was a man?!?!?!?!?

James Bond is gonna be pretty upset.



I suppose he would be, but then again he was broadminded (!) enough to give Plenty O'Toole the benefit of the doubt....
Taire Ubble
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04-09-2009 12:57
From: Cristalle Karami
There is a way around it, by using slnamewatch.com.


Yes. And some of the sites that offer names exclusively are very easy to use---registration is simply 'first name you want, last name you want, and birthdate'---just type those things in and you're done.

This was true of the French site from which I got this name.
Jumpman Lane
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04-09-2009 13:02
i'm rally michael jordon rl
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Briana Dawson
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04-09-2009 13:14
When i chose my SL name, i was in a foul mood.

I chose "Briana" because it was a name i really disliked, and I chose "Dawson" from the list because i really hated that show "Dawsons Creek".

1 week later i was in love with SL and loving my name.

Then i proceeded to try all kinds of things i hated in RL. Stripping, Tattoo's, Pierces....wow was i wrong about all that stuff...mostly. :p
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Skylee Jinx
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04-09-2009 13:20
From: Rhaorth Antonelli


Does someone's name help form your impression of them?

Or does the name not play a part at all?



Yes, it gives me an instant impression of the person. Although not always negative, I tend not to socialize with people who have numbers in their names as often. If it's an AOL looking name, I generally feel sorry for them, as they likely didn't understand that it was a login name, and not an avatar's name for in world.

Sexual names generally get ignored completely. But no matter what, the name gives me an impression(right or wrong) of the personality of the person.

For me, I spent a long time choosing a name when I switched avvies. Just ask some of my friends, I'm sure they got tired of hearing about it. *wink*

Skylee Jinx waves to Naz. "Hiya sweetie!"
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TundraFire Nightfire
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04-09-2009 13:23
I get junk mail, mainly baby-related coupons, addressed to my avatar once in a while. I must have signed up for something sometime in the past associated with SL, but not part of LL. It amuses me.
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