For the forum members to decide...
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Victorria Paine
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07-19-2008 18:23
From: Lear Cale I suspect you're right. I suspect the reaction in the lesbian community is more one of being annoyed at being 'played'. I doubt most lesbians would mind members of their community who are seriously playing a female character, regardless of their RL gender. But I know they rile at the guy who puts on a female av, has sex, and then says "haha, that was fun, but guess what, I'm a guy!" Gee, I wonder why that would upset them?  Yes, that's about right. Honestly I generally think they are pretty easy to pick out, especially after conversing with them .. but if they are so feminine that they are convincingly female in a pretty in-depth conversation, I don't honestly care much about what their RL gender is. If they present convincingly as female, I don't press further than that. Sure, I would not have appreciated being played, but that's never happened to me (such that someone disclosed they were playing me, as you describe).
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Eveline Nixdorf
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07-19-2008 18:40
/me breaks into guilty sobs.. "I confess! I can't take it any more! I gotta tell the truth! Vinnie... c'mere! We gotta tell 'em" "WHAT? TELL 'em? No way! Ralphie, are you nuts?!" "Vinnie, I tell ya, I can't stand it no more! I'm gonna tell!!" I'm actually an avatar being controlled by TWO men - Vinne and Ralphie, from Bayonne, NJ. (That's exit 14A...  ) Sometimes you just gotta tell...
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3Ring Binder
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07-19-2008 18:51
From: RandyChris Nightfire I have only once worn my fiancee's panties, and she lost her anal virginity by daring me to do it... i predict it was shortly after she revealed she was really a man, and you lost your anal virginity by him first. but whatever you need to go on about to 1) troll this forum or 2) rationalize your secret fantasies. carry on. IBTL!
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ArchTx Edo
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07-19-2008 18:53
From: Zaphod Kotobide This one was so bad, it's possible that the thread might implode, creating a black hole so powerful it consumes the entire western united states. OMG there goes Alaska, it has started already!!!
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3Ring Binder
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07-19-2008 18:57
From: Zaphod Kotobide This one was so bad, it's possible that the thread might implode, creating a black hole so powerful it consumes the entire western united states. actually, i think it's pretty safe. that hole was plugged with the OP's special friend from down under. still IBTL.
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Monalisa Robbiani
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07-19-2008 19:06
From: RandyChris Nightfire If a male person in RL makes a female AV in SL, does this mean that the male person in RL is a closet gay or a crossdresser??? It usually means that this male is very straight and enjoys staring at a female body more than staring at a male one while using SL. Signs for that kind of user are usually the use of sexual nicknames ("Sexybaby20"  or by their avatar showing exaggerated features like huge breasts. That's called the "Lara Croft syndrome" - men enjoying to control a barbie doll like female walking in front of them wiggling her behind. You can never be sure, but as soon as they start to type (they never speak) about PC games or computer hardware parts (which can easily be triggered) it is 99% clear to me that they are in fact guys. Sometimes I even heard them talk about "women". ROFL. It is so pathetic, and it makes us real women look suspicious as soon as our voice chat fails for technical reasons :/ If you can rely on the statistics about other virtual worlds, about 20% of females are in fact guys. edit: typo
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AfroduckFromPC Brim
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07-19-2008 19:07
I lol'd.
Also, I have a female alt I use for the majority of my building. As it tends to be a long, sometimes frustrating process it helps having something pleasant to look at.
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Tegg Bode
FrootLoop Roo Overlord
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07-19-2008 19:40
From: RandyChris Nightfire Just to avoid any confusion....I ONLY LIVE, TALK AND KNOW SL...... Hmm, so what is this RL thing you talk of?
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Czari Zenovka
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07-19-2008 20:24
From: Phoenix Psaltery Thanks for sharing, but that was waaaaaay the hell TMI. QFT and IBTL! (Doncha just love acronyms?  )
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Keira Wells
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07-19-2008 20:26
From: Czari Zenovka QFT and IBTL! (Doncha just love acronyms?  ) They sound like restaurants. QFT would be subs I think, and IBTL is like TGIF.
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Sylvia Rubble
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07-20-2008 01:16
On reading the answers to this thread, I have one comment. Does this mean i will not be accused of being a male, when i am infact female. This is happening to me a lot, and i am fed up with it
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moe Jenkins
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07-20-2008 01:18
From: Calveen Kline Not at all. One thing is not related to the other. I've met many straight married cross-dressers who have never been interested in another male. IMO, male cross-dressing is akin to women who would never wear a skirt or dress, just a preference and/or fetish. Regarding SL, I treat it the way it is, a fantasy world where anyone can be anything. I do this with my main account (yes on alt) I am straight male and am female here in world. I have no attaction to another male and I do not have any fetishes about wearing womens clothing. and it is a fantasy world and I am what ever I want to be.
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RandyChris Nightfire
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07-20-2008 02:07
From: Joseph Abel Randy - all it took was for you to put on her panties? Wow! Uhmmm...I would say her asking price was rather low!!! (I'm certain it's because you're one hell of a guy - or she really likes it that way)
As for the issue of female AV's by males? Go for it dude...you've already put on the panties, so now suck it up, go for broke, and get yourself some good man-lovin'... I did put the panties on back to front first time, which made her laugh as they were a red heart thong...
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RandyChris Nightfire
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07-20-2008 02:08
From: Ciaran Laval He cuts down trees. He skips and jumps. He likes to press wild flowers. He puts on women's clothing And hangs around in bars?! He's a lumberjack, and he's okay. He sleeps all night and he works all day. Love the humour, and the song...
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Cristalle Karami
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07-20-2008 02:08
Ibtl.
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RandyChris Nightfire
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07-20-2008 02:14
and a good-looking, egotistical, smug, arrogant one at that...
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RandyChris Nightfire
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07-20-2008 02:17
From: Brenda Connolly It doesn't deserve to be on the rails in the first place. But who put the rails there, and where is the "for private use only" sign
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Ann Launay
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07-20-2008 02:26
I somehow suspect the bit about the fiancee was the real motivator for posting this...there was no actual reason to include it otherwise.
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Congratulations and shame on you! You are a bit of a slut.
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Tegg Bode
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07-20-2008 02:45
From: RandyChris Nightfire I did put the panties on back to front first time, which made her laugh as they were a red heart thong... You're lucky she didn't ring your workmates while you were at work wearing them and dob you in 
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Millie Thompson
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07-20-2008 03:27
Due to inappropriate content this thread is closed.
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