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Sindy Tsure
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07-19-2008 13:31
From: Trout Recreant
I predict this will end poorly.

Only because the usual suspects are going to try to derail it..
Ghosty Kips
Elora's Llama
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07-19-2008 13:39
From: RandyChris Nightfire
If a male person in RL makes a female AV in SL, does this mean that the male person in RL is a closet gay or a crossdresser???


Troll.
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Brenda Connolly
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07-19-2008 13:40
From: Sindy Tsure
Only because the usual suspects are going to try to derail it..

It doesn't deserve to be on the rails in the first place.
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Bree Giffen
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07-19-2008 13:47
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8772014

"Homophobia is apparently associated with homosexual arousal that the homophobic individual is either unaware of or denies."
Ghosty Kips
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07-19-2008 13:53
From: RandyChris Nightfire
Would be interested on your thoughts...


It's against the TOS for me to quote what's on the 2nd Life tab of your profile.

But ... I'm glad you found that special SL man in your life, RandyChris. Sure hope the fiancee doesn't find out. :rolleyes:


/taunt
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Ee Maculate
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07-19-2008 13:54
From: Zaphod Kotobide
I believe this thread ended at post #10.


I believe this thread ended when Trout didn't take the bait.....
LittleMe Jewell
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07-19-2008 13:54
From: Ghosty Kips
It's against the TOS for me to quote what's on the 2nd Life tab of your profile.

But ... I'm glad you found that special SL man in your life, RandyChris. Sure hope the fiancee doesn't find out. :rolleyes:


/taunt
haha - nice one.
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Rioko Bamaisin
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07-19-2008 13:56
/me runs screaming from thread.
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Chris Norse
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07-19-2008 13:59
/me walks in, considers a comment. Shakes my head and walks out.
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Zaphod Kotobide
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07-19-2008 14:13
Information provided in profiles is fair game. The ToS deal with disclosing real life information NOT provided in the 1st life profile tab.

From: Ghosty Kips
It's against the TOS for me to quote what's on the 2nd Life tab of your profile.

But ... I'm glad you found that special SL man in your life, RandyChris. Sure hope the fiancee doesn't find out. :rolleyes:


/taunt
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Sindy Tsure
Will script for shoes
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07-19-2008 15:07
From: Brenda Connolly
It doesn't deserve to be on the rails in the first place.

Thanks for being the morality police, Brenda.

It's good to know that you're keeping us all safe. Really.
Morgaine Alter
dreamer
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07-19-2008 15:24
I am just sick of ppl who think that having an opposite gender character in SL means anything more than what it is, a character.

No I have no male alts and I am female but who cares and why even bother to make more out of it.
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Osgeld Barmy
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07-19-2008 15:28
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Zaphod Kotobide
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07-19-2008 15:33
No, this is Second Life. WoW is the next building over, C wing.

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Conifer Dada
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07-19-2008 15:43
From: someone
If a male person in RL makes a female AV in SL, does this mean that the male person in RL is a closet gay or a crossdresser???
Does someone who dresses as a gory mutilated living-dead av. want to self-harm in RL? Does someone who dresses as a fat, bald purple dwarf in SL want to be like that in RL (assuming the av isn't meant to be a real likeness!)?
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Beverly Ultsch
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07-19-2008 15:43
/me wonders how many Dragons aren't really Dragons :)
Conifer Dada
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07-19-2008 15:46
From: someone
/me wonders how many Dragons aren't really Dragons
But the issue is whether a male RL dragon should be playing a female dragon in SL:D

I heard that men aren't allowed to play women in HiPiHi, the Chinese copycat SL, although women ARE alowed to play men.
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Victorria Paine
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07-19-2008 15:50
I don't think you can conclude that they are gay or trans. I would guess that a good number of them are simply curious about what life might be like as the other gender. Another slice of this demographic that I have come across in the lesbian circles I tend to run in has been guys who are very intrigued by lesbian sex -- not something that relates to either being a gay male or a transgendered male (in most cases). So I don't think you can draw any general conclusions about why some people gender bend.
Beverly Ultsch
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07-19-2008 15:57
From: Conifer Dada
But the issue is whether a male RL dragon should be playing a female dragon in SL:D


I don't think iI want to go close enough to check.
Asher Bertrand
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07-19-2008 16:30
I think this discussion is ROFLtastic.

All this obsessing over men playing women, but so little over women playing men. Why?

Also, transgenderism is not the same thing as homosexuality. A transgender person can identify as straight, gay, bi or whatever else. The two aren't the same.
Joseph Abel
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07-19-2008 17:13
From: RandyChris Nightfire
Hi there, Having been on SL for some time, and having read all the comments that "most female AV's on SL are male."
I have this thought in my head...
If a male person in RL makes a female AV in SL, does this mean that the male person in RL is a closet gay or a crossdresser???

I have only once worn my fiancee's panties, and she lost her anal virginity by daring me to do it...

Would be interested on your thoughts...

Randy - all it took was for you to put on her panties? Wow! Uhmmm...I would say her asking price was rather low!!!
(I'm certain it's because you're one hell of a guy - or she really likes it that way)

As for the issue of female AV's by males?
Go for it dude...you've already put on the panties, so now suck it up, go for broke, and get yourself some good man-lovin'...
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Ciaran Laval
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07-19-2008 17:22
He cuts down trees. He skips and jumps.
He likes to press wild flowers.
He puts on women's clothing
And hangs around in bars?!
He's a lumberjack, and he's okay.
He sleeps all night and he works all day.
Victorria Paine
Sleepless in Wherever
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07-19-2008 17:30
From: Asher Bertrand
I think this discussion is ROFLtastic.

All this obsessing over men playing women, but so little over women playing men. Why?


Oh I have often thought about this as well. I think it's primarily because of male homophobia. I mean in the lesbian community, we also don't appreciate men who are masquerading as women, but the irritation/annoyance doesn't even begin to approach the outright horror that straight men seem to have at the same phenomenon -- it seems to be a very deep-seated, visceral revulsion in many straight men. I think it must have to do with male homophobia -- only thing that makes sense.
Lear Cale
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07-19-2008 18:11
From: Beverly Ultsch
/me wonders how many Dragons aren't really Dragons :)


OMG! This can't be -- you mean that wasn't really a dragon I slept with??
OMG, now I feel so ... dirty! Used! Abused! Cheated! Ashamed!

... can we do that again? I think I liked it ...
Lear Cale
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07-19-2008 18:15
From: Victorria Paine
Oh I have often thought about this as well. I think it's primarily because of male homophobia. I mean in the lesbian community, we also don't appreciate men who are masquerading as women, but the irritation/annoyance doesn't even begin to approach the outright horror that straight men seem to have at the same phenomenon -- it seems to be a very deep-seated, visceral revulsion in many straight men. I think it must have to do with male homophobia -- only thing that makes sense.


I suspect you're right.

I suspect the reaction in the lesbian community is more one of being annoyed at being 'played'. I doubt most lesbians would mind members of their community who are seriously playing a female character, regardless of their RL gender. But I know they rile at the guy who puts on a female av, has sex, and then says "haha, that was fun, but guess what, I'm a guy!" Gee, I wonder why that would upset them? ;)
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