Asshat of the Year
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Korg Stygian
Curmudgeon Extraordinaire
Join date: 3 Jun 2004
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12-29-2004 11:36
From: Candy Bijoux This statement is relevant. Okay.. Now I willl say it. YOU are irrelevant... you should not be assimilated.... just dismissed with prejudice (as they say in the court system). Your entire post attempting to deconstruct my own was pointless as it is solely from YOUR perspective. Every statement you made was completely predictable based on your previous assertion that my post was irrelevant. Of course you would defend yourself ---- despite not having been attacked. Then again... you are probably just trying to bait me and I won't rise to it. 
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Paris Cellardoor
Jefa del Cartel
Join date: 28 Dec 2003
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12-29-2004 11:42
Korg, you must love to be so disliked and loathed by so many ppl. You my friend need to reevaluate yourself and your life and figure out why you are so hateful and bitter.
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Korg Stygian
Curmudgeon Extraordinaire
Join date: 3 Jun 2004
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12-29-2004 11:44
From: Inez Angelus Korg, now I wanna know - what IS a justifiable neg rating? If I can't neg rate someone's appearance for dressing like Hitler, then what in the name of all that's holy SHOULD I be neg rating their appearance for? An av covered in aborted fetuses? Jesus fellating Dick Clark? Teal and orange stripes together? Seriously - its a cliche, Hitler is used so interchangeably as the Worst Evil Mankind Ever Produced - what DO you find an acceptable reason for neg rating appearance?
And I'm glad you put the word "outrage" in quotes, because I didn't say I was outraged in my opening post, or in any subsequent posts.
I also never called for a mass neg rating, cats having sex with dogs, or anything else. Okay.. first... I never said you used the word "outrage". However, read your own post. If that is not an expression of outrage and indignation, what is? I also did not say that YOU called for a mass neg rating - that was Darko, tongue in cheek or not. Second, I am not sure there is a truly "universally justifiable" neg. Then again, I did say that everyone has the right to neg anyone for anything, didn't I? OTOH, if the rating system is to mean anything, then shouldn't there be rational standards for such things? There is a certain level of civility at least paid lip service to (inconsistently at least) here in the forums... somewhat moreso in the SL world itself. Personally, I have negged people's appearance pretty much only when the clothes they wore were poorly made AND they were not noobs. A noob might be trying out a new item he/she just made. A person who has been around for a while and wears something that is poorly made (white edges, for instance) is just asking for a neg. Then again, take a look at my profile and see just how many negs I have given out.... not many and most were for behavior.
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Inez Angelus
Elephant Rider
Join date: 11 Nov 2004
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12-29-2004 11:44
From: Candy Bijoux This statement: Inappropriate and unnecessary, which baits retalitory remarks. I don't see that the warning that it was unsafe for work was unnecessary. I apologize for including the "anyone that hates Nazis" part, if that is deemed inappropriate and unnecessary, and I can see how it could be considered both. My intent was to infer that the image itself would be offensive to anyone that finds the symbology and imagery offensive contained in the image. Which, apparently, it is at least to Jeska, who removed the link. Upon reflection, I should probably have omitted the word "hate" entirely from my opening post. It does cause discord, flame the fans of arguement, and wasn't condusive effectively communicating my point of view.
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Korg Stygian
Curmudgeon Extraordinaire
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12-29-2004 11:46
From: Paris Cellardoor Korg, you must love to be so disliked and loathed by so many ppl. You my friend need to reevaluate yourself and your life and figure out why you are so hateful and bitter. Uh.. don't flatter ourself and call me "your friend" in one breath and then in the next stand on a high horse and lecture me. You need to read the posts I made... not the responses which are far more incendiary. I have been extremely restrained. May I suggest you go find Darko and do something fun in real life. You obviously aren't having fun here today.
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Merwan Marker
Booring...
Join date: 28 Jan 2004
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12-29-2004 11:47
From: Lo Jacobs ...He's looking for attention and he got it. Nothing hurts more than indifference...
Excellent!...
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Paris Cellardoor
Jefa del Cartel
Join date: 28 Dec 2003
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12-29-2004 11:52
From: Korg Stygian Uh.. don't flatter ourself and call me "your friend" in one breath and then in the next stand on a high horse and lecture me. You need to read the posts I made... not the responses which are far more incendiary. I have been extremely restrained.
May I suggest you go find Darko and do something fun in real life. You obviously aren't having fun here today. All I hear is blah, blah, blah. You should take up your own suggestions you old, bitter codger. 
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Torley Linden
Enlightenment!
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12-29-2004 12:18
This post of mine runs tangential but parallel to the main thoughtlines of this thread, connected at the metaphorical hip. There are just some people hoping to appear on Second Life Herald and/or get forum drama started via forced, deliberately provoked reactions (perhaps due to deep-seated hostile insecurities) -- which I can safely say tend to lean on the negative side due to acts such as griefing by GREEFER KIN involved. Andrew Linden -- was this you?  -- thoughtfully posted this on SLH the other day. I find it insightful: From: someone Sigh. As the person who has to clean up messes such as this as well as spanking the perpetrators I find the sensationalism that the Second Life Herald lends to acts of grief as counter productive to my job.
Just as people like to role-play in games like TSO and SL while mixing in Real Life aspects of their character, the SLH is role-playing as a pulp gossip newspaper that occasionally mixes in real news.
Unfortunately, it has become clear to me that some acts in SL are actually done with partial intent on getting mentioned in the SLH for fame and glory. That’s why I consider SLH one of my headache’s – it provides much of the reward that greifers seek. In fact, the SLH provides belated dividends for griefers’ investments: the SexyPimp incident was months ago, and the SLH likes to dredge up old names and events to inflate fame and infamy.
We at Linden Lab take griefers seriously. Users who engage in behavior similar to SexyPimp are bascially burning an alt, risking their other alts, and jepordizing their plans to expand in SL (such as buying private estates and such).
SL griefiers usually receive warnings first since we at LL believe that the SL environment is open enough that even users who initially turn to grief for entertainment can eventually find a creative and productive aspect of the world that is just as entertaining or more so. However, a single griefer can ruin the experience for 100 people, so it is not within LL’s best interest to let them continue. If the grief continues we escalate countermeasures to raise the cost (time and money) that the griefers must spend to continue their game. Unfortunately some griefers have a lot of time and money to burn.
Finally, I’ll offer some advice (and a plea):
Please don’t Drink and Drive SL. It really makes my job difficult when I have to deal with drunk mistakes.
Source: http://www.dragonscoveherald.com/blog/index.php?p=589#more-589Godwin's law need not be stated so many times. 
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Inez Angelus
Elephant Rider
Join date: 11 Nov 2004
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12-29-2004 12:21
From: Korg Stygian Okay.. first... I never said you used the word "outrage". However, read your own post. If that is not an expression of outrage and indignation, what is? I also did not say that YOU called for a mass neg rating - that was Darko, tongue in cheek or not.
Second, I am not sure there is a truly "universally justifiable" neg. Then again, I did say that everyone has the right to neg anyone for anything, didn't I?
OTOH, if the rating system is to mean anything, then shouldn't there be rational standards for such things? There is a certain level of civility at least paid lip service to (inconsistently at least) here in the forums... somewhat moreso in the SL world itself.
Personally, I have negged people's appearance pretty much only when the clothes they wore were poorly made AND they were not noobs. A noob might be trying out a new item he/she just made. A person who has been around for a while and wears something that is poorly made (white edges, for instance) is just asking for a neg. Then again, take a look at my profile and see just how many negs I have given out.... not many and most were for behavior. I understand the use of quotes not only as a way of directly quoting someone but also to summarize intent. I imagined that you were using them in the latter fashion, but since everything is taken very literally when discussed on a forum board or online, I only mentioned that I didn't say the word "outrage" literally for fear of it being blown out of proportion. No offense taken, and you are correct in your assumption that I was outraged - still am - and I understand (now) that my outrage is not universally shared, nor is my revulsion towards Nazi symbolatry. I also agree that rational standards should be applied if the rating system is to have any meaning at all. (Which some would argue it doesn't have anymore - there have been numerous threads on that same topic.) However, again, no two people are going to agree on what rational standards should apply, or even what rational is. I am inferring that you disagree with my neg rating this guy on appearance. My personal standards for neg rating (and this is the only neg rating I've EVER given out, and hopefully the last) is when the person is so utterly intent on being offensive, creating a nuisance, etc. that its obvious its not a misinterpretation on my part or noob behavior. According to your post, you've neg rated appearance for poorly made clothing on non-noobs. Your standards and mine obviously differ as to what is neg-rateable. In this case, the guy's clothing was part and parcel of his griefing, and I felt (and still feel) justified in neg rating his appearance as well as his behavior. Even if it was a well-made Hitler av, its still a Hitler av - highly offensive to many people, full of symbolism that causes anger, and with no intent to do anything BUT offend.
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Taco Rubio
also quite creepy
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12-29-2004 12:21
From: Darko Cellardoor You are one of the few people in these forums that despite my most sincere efforts I cannot even begin to like. ! I'm doing year-end housekeeping, Darko, I'm still on this list too, right? 
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Torley Linden
Enlightenment!
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12-29-2004 12:23
From: Taco Rubio I'm doing year-end housekeeping, Darko, I'm still on this list too, right?  Awww... hey Taco! 
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Schwanson Schlegel
SL's Tokin' Villain
Join date: 15 Nov 2003
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12-29-2004 12:28
From: Korg Stygian A person who has been around for a while and wears something that is poorly made (white edges, for instance) is just asking for a neg.. Or has finally decided to learn to make clothes. (I just made some white edged clothes yesterday)
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Rose Karuna
Lizard Doctor
Join date: 5 Jun 2004
Posts: 3,772
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12-29-2004 12:30
From: Torley Torgeson This post of mine runs tangential but parallel to the main thoughtlines of this thread, connected at the metaphorical hip. There are just some people hoping to appear on Second Life Herald and/or get forum drama started via forced, deliberately provoked reactions (perhaps due to deep-seated hostile insecurities) -- which I can safely say tend to lean on the negative side due to acts such as griefing by GREEFER KIN involved. Andrew Linden -- was this you?  -- thoughtfully posted this on SLH the other day. I find it insightful: Source: http://www.dragonscoveherald.com/blog/index.php?p=589#more-589Godwin's law need not be stated so many times.  From: Andrew Linden Finally, I’ll offer some advice (and a plea):
Please don’t Drink and Drive SL. It really makes my job difficult when I have to deal with drunk mistakes. I can attest to the fact that one should not drink and build.  (Haven't tried driving in SL yet).
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Korg Stygian
Curmudgeon Extraordinaire
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12-29-2004 12:54
From: Inez Angelus I understand ...snip I never questioned your "right" to neg him. I didn't really comment on the specifics of negging him on this specific occasion. I specifically couched my comments to limit addressing his "costume" - and specifically ignored any association with his behavior. Thus, you really don't know what I think of your negging the guy - nor does anyone else. I wasn't there. I don't know if I would have negged him. I probably would not have considered his clothes as a reason for negging in any event. I can and do separate dress from behavior. THAT was my point. So, in this case, as your original post was constructed, my post eliminated the confluence/interactivity of appearance and behavior and tried to deal solely with the dress --- since you provided a picture. I don't think everyone should necessarily do as I do or even as I say. I really don't care if they do or do not. Just expressing myself here. As you did. If you are comfortable with what you did, more power to you. I know I sleep well at night regardless of the number of positives or negatives I give out each day --- or receive for that matter.
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pandastrong Fairplay
all bout the BANG POW NOW
Join date: 16 Aug 2004
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12-29-2004 13:08
From: Korg Stygian I'm gonna take a chance that you can put aside your reactionary bias against me and answer the question and give you the benefit of the doubt.
The odds are stacked against you on this one, you big ball of joy!
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Inez Angelus
Elephant Rider
Join date: 11 Nov 2004
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12-29-2004 13:12
From: Korg Stygian I never questioned your "right" to neg him....le snip OK, I think we're getting to the crux of the matter here. You state that you seperate clothes from behavior - which I generally agree with. My personal exception being in situations such as this, when the clothing (or more accurately the symbology of the clothing, indeed the symbols on the clothes themselves) is part and parcel of the action of griefing - the two are intertwined. Again, personal opinion. Tomato, tomahto. And Torley - interesting link. Thanks for posting it.
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Cristiano Midnight
Evil Snapshot Baron
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12-29-2004 13:27
From: Olmy Seraph There is one. It's called "Hollywood".  LOL great post 
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Cristiano Midnight
Evil Snapshot Baron
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12-29-2004 13:38
From: Korg Stygian This is going to result in a huge bunch of flames I am sure, but I don't believe that dressing like Hitler is either a TOS violation or a reason, in and of itself, to neg rate anyone (though I do believe you ultimately have the right to neg rate anyone for anything). Seriously, behavior aside (because I was not there and I think the original post is somewhat skechy as far as describing "outrageous behvior worth negging"  , how is it that a person dressing in an improperly constructed/fashioned replica of a historical outfit and "made up" to look like one of the most influential figures in history deserves a label of "asshat" or any other negative label? IRL, the movie The Producers was a hit by making fun of Hitler, his actions and mannerisms via humor. Chareli Chaplin did the same thing in The Great Dictator. So, the question remains. How is just dressing up like Hitler a TOS violation? How is it offensive at its core - behavior of the avatar aside? Are we going to have to extend this to any and all representations of anything - for instance, to replicas/depictions of Luftwaffe aircraft, to the use of US symbols (as they might be offensive to internationals/American Indians/whatever, to the inclusion of the Union Jack as it was a symbol of Empire for centuries to some? Where do we draw this line? Can it be drawn logically? Korg, I agree with you on this, and as with the points that Lo and others have made. While certainly it was rude to interrupt an event, I do think this is blown out of proportion. You have a run of the mill griefer who looked for attention, and got exactly that. Had he just been dressed as a normal avatar, or an anatomically correct badger, it probably would not have even ended up in the forums. He chose the outfit because of the reaction it would get, and voila, cause meets effect. Certainly, the figure of Adolf Hitler evokes strong feelings, and people are justified in their outrage. However, this is nothing more than an uncreative grieifing that is pretty commonplace in SL. I am sorry that it happened to Shiryu's event, but by adding attention to it, it provides the kind of fuel that griefers thrive on - achieving notoriety and getting a rise out of people.
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Torley Linden
Enlightenment!
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12-29-2004 13:43
From: Inez Angelus And Torley - interesting link. Thanks for posting it.
You're most graciously welcome, Inez. 
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Inez Angelus
Elephant Rider
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12-29-2004 14:22
From: Cristiano Midnight Certainly, the figure of Adolf Hitler evokes strong feelings, and people are justified in their outrage. However, this is nothing more than an uncreative grieifing that is pretty commonplace in SL. I am sorry that it happened to Shiryu's event, but by adding attention to it, it provides the kind of fuel that griefers thrive on - achieving notoriety and getting a rise out of people.
Certainly, if I had been more aware of what this griefer was looking to get out of the situation (additional notariety), I would have left it out of the forums. I was unaware that some, as Torley's very educational link displayed, are getting actual press! (of a sort) Well, again, I apologise for bringing this to light when it should have been squashed silently. For me, it was a complete WTF moment just due to something I saw a few days previous flying about the NE section of SL - we had flown in on a friend's airplane and while outer walls of homes were still rezzing, I caught a 3 second glimpse of neo-Nazi propaganda inside someone's house. I asked my companions if they had seen what I saw, but they hadn't been looking in the same direction and while the incident stuck in the back of my mind, I decided it was a flash in the pan. And then a few days later, Hitler shows up. I seriously thought I was losing my mind at best, or at worst there was some crazy White Power underground in SL I had no idea about. Maybe I should change my forum nickname to "Haunted by Nazis". *sigh*
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Cristiano Midnight
Evil Snapshot Baron
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12-29-2004 14:30
From: Inez Angelus Certainly, if I had been more aware of what this griefer was looking to get out of the situation (additional notariety), I would have left it out of the forums. I was unaware that some, as Torley's very educational link displayed, are getting actual press! (of a sort)
Well, again, I apologise for bringing this to light when it should have been squashed silently. For me, it was a complete WTF moment just due to something I saw a few days previous flying about the NE section of SL - we had flown in on a friend's airplane and while outer walls of homes were still rezzing, I caught a 3 second glimpse of neo-Nazi propaganda inside someone's house. I asked my companions if they had seen what I saw, but they hadn't been looking in the same direction and while the incident stuck in the back of my mind, I decided it was a flash in the pan.
And then a few days later, Hitler shows up. I seriously thought I was losing my mind at best, or at worst there was some crazy White Power underground in SL I had no idea about.
Maybe I should change my forum nickname to "Haunted by Nazis". *sigh* Inez, Your reaction is not unusual or misplaced. The guy is just . I understand, it can be pretty upsetting, especially if it is directed your way - there have been many posts like that. I think that true incidents of racism, homophobia, anti-semitism and other types of hatred are thankfully fairly rare in SL, though it does make them all the more surprising when they do surface. I just don't think this was one of them, but it doesn't stop it from being offensive or hurtful to some people, and that is the ultimate shame in it. I don't know why people feel the need to grief and upset people, that I will never understand.
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Devlin Gallant
Thought Police
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12-29-2004 20:19
From: David Valentino I agree that dressing like Hitler isn't a TOS violation in and of itself. However if he is griefing or disrupting an event while doing so, it may at least deserve some neg ratings and a possibly wrist slapping by a Linden. Folks HAVE been suspended in the past for dressing like Hitler. LL DOES consider it a violation of the TOS.
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Devlin Gallant
Thought Police
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12-29-2004 20:25
From: Postmark Jensen I would like to nominate everyone who responds to this thread as biggest asshat because I think we are all dicks for trying to dump all our worst attributes on one person or group. Any one of us could win this award; it all depends on the direction the market flows. Are you including yourself in that group, seeing as you too are a responder to this thread. Well, don't. You are NOT an asshat. Tho you MAY be an assclown. 
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Hiro Pendragon
bye bye f0rums!
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12-29-2004 20:51
From: Justin Delvecchio hiro...do you have a link where u cut and pasted that fine information?? or a referance...i would love to see that!  justin 1978 Skokie Illinois, Collin v. Smith - National Socialist Party of America was the organization in question. Look it up  hate speech and fighting words are exceptions to the first amendment.
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a lost user
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12-29-2004 21:10
People generally do outragious things to attract attention. The best way to combat this behavior is to give it all of the attention it deserves... NONE!
I suggest just letting this thread die and just laugh it off as an idiot in a Hitler suit.
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