How can i reassure my people?

There is *nothing* offensive in the group charter, picture or title.

I could make the group listing invisible yes. The group meets regularly, and that is what is causing qualms, i think, among certain members. As it is a BDSM group, we do BDSM things.

I repeat, for those that might have missed it, that we are consenting adults on Mature land.

well, there may not be anything that a reasonable person might consider offensive, but reasonable people arent what your users are needing reassurance about, right?
if you make the usergroup invisible at least your users wont have to be paranoid about moralists browsing their profile and taking note of the sexual group they belong to.

Isn't it funny how thoes "moralist" always seem to jump up and down and shout so loud any time they get wind of anyone doing anything "THEY" decide isn't acceptable, while everyone else just goes about their businiess, minding their own busniness? If you waste the time to look into the "moralist's" objections most likely you'll fine its not even their own objections they are voicing but rather some "know-it-all, great and wise" so called "leader" of theirs objections, based on his/her own personal interpetation of some 2500 year old writings that they are objecting to.

Following that logic, and proclaiming myself as a great "know-it-all leader", and having once read a 2500+ year old writting stating "thou shall not kill" i proclaim it immoral, wrong, nasty and kinky to kill anything, or to view, listen to, smell, taste or in any way, shape or form have any knowledge of anything or anyone being killed in any way! So, all of you silly, ignorant people who choose to be one of "my" followers, send me lots of money so i can buy radio and TV time to "preach" "MY" great knowledge to the ignorant masses, or else, you won't be allowed on my parcel when you get killed in a war related RP Sim!!! (please ignor the fact that if your in such a Sim you are most likely killing someone/thing, so long as you are sending me LOTS of money!).... IF this works and i get enough dumb people to send me money guys i'll buy a private island and opne an ass kicking futureistic RP'ing war Sim so please don't tip them off!!! Oh, i'll also buy myself that 15 room mansion i've always wanted and let you all come over on weekends and watch Terminator with me while we get roaing drunk too!!!