just ignore and let this one die

When Pep attacks "innocent" people I do say something. (Benji for instance) You are not innocent. Neither is Three ring or Love. I have seen you all come out many times attacking him when he is not even addressing you or even just posting normal. Maybe it is hard to see in your eyes because you don't like him. I like all of you and can objectively see the shit being stirred on both sides.

I don't like being vilified because I happen to be friends with a person some don't like. Can Pep be an ass? He sure can. But Pep is an excellent friend to me and I have no problem telling people that. He is there when I need him and listens,just like any good friend would. I also have no problem telling him when he is being an ass.It makes me feel like I am in grade school again that I have to defend my friendships.


Sorry Love, but I am only responsible for my own behavior on these forums. So don't try to guilt people into thinking otherwise. Feel free to ignore me.

Oh undying thread, I wish we could all get along as I'd rather not give you up ...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3KANI2dpXLw

I'm sorry I don't buy this. He gets attacked because of how he treats people. Period. He can't be nice for 10 minutes and suddenly make all his history go away. I don't subscribe to the "forum persona" theory either. You are either a dick or not a dick.
But anyway... he's back on my ignore list where he belongs so... Back to your regularly scheduled thread.

You are very special Lexxi. Your pictures are always like glimpses into a fascinating and complicated Big Picture.

I'm sorry I don't buy this. He gets attacked because of how he treats people. Period. He can't be nice for 10 minutes and suddenly make all his history go away. I don't subscribe to the "forum persona" theory either. You are either a dick or not a dick. The fact that he has a crush on you and is nice to you doesn't earn him any respect in my book.
But anyway... he's back on my ignore list where he belongs so... Back to your regularly scheduled thread.

Pep does not have a crush on me. He is genuinely my friend. He is probably one of the very few guy friends I have that don't actually hit on me. So if he has a crush on me,he sure hides it well. And he is nice to others as well,surely he can't have a crush on all of them can he?


Ignoring him is probably your best bet IMO.

Rioko, I do appreciate your perspective. When I see him attack others, it has, and will, get my back up. He doesn't have to attack me for me to send some nasty words his way. He is also very good a vague attacks, so when you may not perceive an attack, I might. Who knows which of us is right at any given time. But his posting history betrays a pattern, and you cannot deny it. The best you can do is offer a counter argument for a specific instance, not his general overall behaviour.

At this stage, he's nothing more than a plaything for me in this forum. I do indeed attack him without provocation, and why the hell not? He does that to others all the time. Why should I have to wait for an "infraction" to respond? His presence is enough these days.

It is not my intention to guilt you into anything. I've just had enough of the comments to tone it down, either direct or passive aggressive. I'm telling you how I feel.

I have no intention of ignoring you. That you can see the good side of generally despicable people is a credit to you. And that goes for everyone else who feels like my post addressed them. I would ask though, that you consider that your actions really do affect how he interacts with others.

You *are* responsible for his behaviour indirectly. Because you are a reasoning being who can understand cause and effect. Your action is to make him feel welcome. The eventual outcome is that people here get hurt by his insults.

There are really not THAT many people that he is nice to. I don't see many kind words. I'm only going by what I see here in the forums.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7B7bVD_DkM4&feature=related

I really enjoyed that. What a great song. And I want to look more like Carly Simon in my next life.

Now that two of you have entertaining blogs at the same place I'm living in fear that I'll have to fill in joining-up forms so I can make comments... I hope I haven't been missing episodes of The Mentalist. Our machine hasn't recorded one for a while now. But maybe the season in the US just isn't synchronized with that in the UK.


That was fun.

But the problem is Love,I don't think of Pep in the same manner as you do. I do want Pep to feel welcome because I like him. I am sorry if he hurts people with his insults,but I am not their mother nor the internet super hero. I am not responsible for people not putting him on ignore. I am not responsible for Pep acting like a jerk. I am not responsible for people engaging in arguments with him. And do you really believe for a second,he would stop posting in this thread or forum even if I did not make him feel welcome?


Anyway I think I got a bit defensive towards you up there and I do apologize to you for that.


Off to go make dinner.

Well Rioko, I respectfully disagree, but I value you and your opinion. And I really am not trying to tell you who to like and not like.

Ditto and exactly.

That's because you don't know about any of the profiles of people Pep knows in RL. He has friends that think well of him. Honestly, the ignore feature is your friend. Your teeth enamel will thank you for it.

oooh...the blue dryad....very nice.

I can't quite see.. who is that in the background? Izzy? Soji?

and you look very comfy resting up on the bar.

Well... Like I said.. I am only going by what I see here in the forums. There is no excuse for acting like a mean jackass on the forums and then pretending not to be one in RL.
And... Like I said... he's back on ignore.

I have neither the penis, measuring tape, nor the bladder for this exchange. Good night, I am off to tuck my bunnies in.

Thank you for all the comments everyone



The blue person? Oryx. Sorry, I need to label my pictures. Oh, and the non-blue person was Trout, and the sheep head was really a llama head and Ghosty. Actually, I'm not in the first two pictures I posted.


I'm always trying to set some game up at the hangout, but no one ever is available/desirous of playing when I ask group chat.

I am utterly dumbfounded. The closest I can come is pity for his psychological and social disorders and those who are co-dependent with his addiction to being disliked. I just can not understand how anyone would willing put up with him, much less enjoy the bipolar attacks he spreads so casually. But then I was never into the humiliation parts of BDSM. I do know there are people who get off on it but I never understood why. Some people rise on their own. Others have to drag people down.

/me shrugs

To each their own.

He has nothing to say that matters to me so on ignore he stays. I have heard all the lines before, anyway.

And yet here you are insulting me for simply calling him a friend. Put me on your ignore list as well please,hypocrite.

Was not my intent to insult you, but OK.

Take a deep breath, everybody. I'm not sure what motivates Pep, but I am fairly sure that not even he would want to see y'all tearing each other up.

/me tries yoga.



Wow... my chakra feels better already. Thanks Nika!

So...

Neat Midnight Mania thingie with Fire Hair if anyone is into weird hair
http://slurl.com/secondlife/Gilbut/52/179/576
Please even if u dont want the thing go slap it 'cause i do!
And they have really pretty colorful skins.

hmmmmm... I don't know, Eli! That pose looks like it requires a chalk outline more so than yoga pants.

Z