sl community full of deviants?

OK- now you ARE lying

oooooooohh! Torches and pitchforks! That's dirty! Shame on you!

VERY true. Even meeting in real life is no certainty. There's the case of the woman who pretended to be a man and even met and married her online sweetie (but begged off of sex due to 'having AIDS'.)

If you rely on various methods of proof to feel comfortable that someone's image on SL is accurate to RL, you can be fooled at nearly every turn unless you take it so far as to meet the person in RL and have sex with them.

Even then, they could be a trannie with good surgery...

I'll make this a first in my online experience since my very early BBS days and claim here to be female. I had trouble with that though back when I used to tell people who I was... you see, they didn't believe that I was female. They said I wasn't female because I said I 'sweat' instead of glow... because I'm solution and logic oriented and not emotion oriented... because I admit to liking porn.

Because they didn't believe my image based on my innate personality, they demanded to hear me on the phone. Then accused me of faking it with other people/voice changers, because what I had to say didn't strike them as feminine. My picture is attractive so nobody believed THAT was me, either.

There was no proving myself to people even though everything I said was absolutely true, and I was not going to put myself in the position of having to go through this every time I met someone online. I actually found that giving myself a male name made things easier - people stopped questioning me. A gender neutral name didn't work. It freaked people out and made them even more inquisitive.

I find it far more relaxing not to seek nor try to provide proof, but just take the view and run with it. I'm far more comfortable with people online who have the experience to realize that proof is impossible and immaterial, and have moved past it.

Boy! am I glad I couldn't post to *this* thread! .... so is Emma ... and Inigo ... and Lorna ... er .. oops!

I make no demands or expectations from anyone. My world, my imagination. I brought my partner here. She has her own imagination too. We're like that .. we're considerate.

Yeah, anyone demanding anything from me is not going to get far, that's for sure.

You're not helping the rumors thing!

lol - no! Honest to God. I'm not hugely obese or anything - it's not like I'm wedged in a door with a bucket of fried chicken under one arm as I type this (I WISH!), but I sure don't have the 6-pack Trout does. My hair is short and fairly conservative because it needs to be for my job, while Trout has a wonderful mop of hair that I would love to sport in RL. I'm about 6'0", and I think he's around 6'8", which in SL proportions makes him about average, so I guess you could make an argument that we're the same height once you convert SL measurements to RL measurements, but it's pretty weak. Really, overall, he's a much handsomer specimen than I am. We have the same facial hair, but his makes him look good and mine, to be quite honest, is there to hide some pretty ugly scars that I got when I was in an accident as a kid. 200+ stitches. I look like Frankenstein's monster when I don't have the beard (minus the green skin and bolts sticking out of my neck).

Plus, the dancing, flying, playboy lifestyle, cool toys in inventory... I'm really living an awful deviant lie. I think I'll keep living a life of degeneracy. I'm pretty happy with it. Good friends, hilarious stuff happening, great fun. Yep. A deviant life for me.

Yeah, sorry 'bout that. I kinda get crazy in my natural environment.

Trout... I realize you really arent' flying about in a bi-plane strifing Gor and yes, I know you don't have the flowing locks- I am also not 7 ft tall and leopard spotted- what can I say? But don't sell yourself short, my friend. /me winks (this from the borg woman)

I think we're all deviants on this bus.

That don't bother me a bit. You 'fraid of cooties er sumthin'? (^_^)y

I'm not. Nor did I think you were that demoness with the interesting tail chains I danced with at the hangout. Beautiful in SL, but it would be pretty weird in RL.

My point was that there is a lot more to a person than their physical representation of themselves. How we express who we are in SL is not a lie, nor is it deviance. I'm a total degenerate - and I mean that in as good a way as possible. But it's not because Trout doesn't look like me, or because he owns a prim penis, or whatever. The important thing is who a person really is inside, and I tend to think that it is incredibly difficult to hide that part of yourself. If the OP had a whit of common sense and wasn't such a close-minded, shallow jackass, he would look beyond the avatar and get to know the people controlling the avatar. You can RP a dragon or a kid or a Gorean Slave master, but at some point, your personality is going to break through.

I believe that the vast majority of people in SL are fascinating, creative people with great senses of humor. There are a few bad ones, but not as many as you run across in RL. You just need to keep your radar on and avoid the idiots - just like you do in RL. The OP is too much of a git to figure this out, so he or she feels like his or her only option is to rely on looks. For some reason, he or she seems to feel like the emphasis in SL has shifted to pedophilia and bestiality which is just flat wrong - so wrong that it almost amounts to dishonesty. I suspect the OP knows that isn't the case. At any rate, maybe only the true deviants like us can see people for who they are and celebrate that.

Dakota, run for your life.

Are we there yet? This bus ride is giving me motion sickness.

Even if we beg??

What if we have Marcel flog you?

That wouldn't make you 'not female'.
That would make you a horse - with the possibility of being a female horse.

My grandfather used to say: "Horses sweat. Men perspire, and young ladies glow."

Plus - your SL business is a dead giveaway.
You've been outed horsie!






Disgusting!

I used to think I was a Deviant till I read this thread... now I feel normal....overly normal in fact!

Wow!

Where?

well, well,

I'm getting paper and a pen


can someone make me a quick summary of this threat, please??

and include in it LM's to all the deviants places (k, forget the summary, just post the LM's)

I'm no deviant, but trying really hard to be one, and since the OP seems to know so much about it ...

Screenshots! We want screenshots!

Even though I must admit I do like the idea of flogging Brenda, I do not do well ive I am being "haved". Maybe, just maybe, if she softly begs though. Heck, maybe even if she begs loud.

http://slurl.com/secondlife/Waterhead/240/20//

That's where you'll find the kid friendly nude beach Immy is always going on about.

Is the SL community full of deviants?

Yes, but we call that a "feature" as opposed to a "bug".

nude kids !!!!

OMG !! you Pervert lill squirt !