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Joe Hoodoo
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05-13-2005 10:22
Nevermind.
StoneSelf Karuna
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05-13-2005 10:28
if you contact ll, they might be able to help you.

From: wikipage
Members of the press can write generally about Second Life without following this process. However, if you plan to interview any Second Life residents please contact our Marketing Department. Contact information is available at http://www.lindenlab.com/press_0.php.


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http://secondlife.com/tiki/tiki-index.php?page=Research+Ethics+in+Second+Life
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Foolish Frost
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05-13-2005 10:30
Have you been authorized through the Lindens for this? Not accusing, just pointing out they like to discuss such things with people before allowing it.
Zoey Jade
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05-13-2005 10:32
I tried helping ya out with your research...but I think you were looking for your own sl relationship, you blew me off..............
Beau Perkins
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05-13-2005 10:35
From: Zoey Jade
you blew me ..............


Thought you were against AV sex?
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Merwan Marker
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05-13-2005 10:43
From: Joe Hoodoo
I'm a full-time RL professional journalist and have written a story about SL.
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If you have a secondhand story of interest involving people you know, I'm interested in that, too. My email address is [email]odyzzeuz@earthlink.net[/email].
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I'm not trying to bust anyone or make SL or anyone look bad or embarrass anybody or see anyone get hurt. I'm required to follow a strict journalistic code of ethical behavior and will respect your wishes with regards to what you're willing to talk about and reveal about yourself. Drop a line or IM me. All is well and all shall be well.

Wouldn't an interest in "...secondhand story(ies)..." be gossip, and thus have nothing to do with Journalism?

:confused:
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Joe Hoodoo
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You call it gossip. I call it background.
05-13-2005 11:07
And usually it works best to actually gather the information before you edit it down to what you can use. That's been my experience, anyway. But I've been wrong about a lot of things.
Merwan Marker
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05-13-2005 11:09
Hey your the professional...I'm just asking.

:)
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StoneSelf Karuna
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05-14-2005 15:14
when you get your new article written could you post a link to it here in the forums?

thanks.
From: Joe Hoodoo
I'm a full-time RL professional journalist and have written a story about SL. I'm a resident, I own property, I make stuff, I have relationships, etc. Anyway, here's the link:

http://www.austin360.com/recreation/content/recreation/video_games/features/secondlife/secondlife_1.html

I'm doing research and I need your help: I need to find people who are willing to talk about their SL relationships -- with an emphasis on virtual affairs. The more openly you can talk the better, but I'm interested in the whole range: SL relationships that stayed in SL, those that slopped over into RL in various ways, those that led to RL relationships, those that went to shit, those that just resulted in a torment of desire. You know what I mean. All of it. If you have a personal experience you wish to talk about, even off the record, please contact me. If you have a secondhand story of interest involving people you know, I'm interested in that, too. My email address is [email]odyzzeuz@earthlink.net[/email].

I'm not trying to bust anyone or make SL or anyone look bad or embarrass anybody or see anyone get hurt. I'm required to follow a strict journalistic code of ethical behavior and will respect your wishes with regards to what you're willing to talk about and reveal about yourself. Drop a line or IM me. All is well and all shall be well.
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Nikolas Nielsen
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I will......
05-16-2005 06:35
Hey there :-)) If you want to, I will volunteer for your story.
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Zephria Zapata
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05-16-2005 06:39
From: Zoey Jade
I tried helping ya out with your research...but I think you were looking for your own sl relationship, you blew me off..............



Awwe hugs Zoey .... who would do that to you ...
katykiwi Moonflower
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05-16-2005 07:37
From: Joe Hoodoo
I'm not trying to bust anyone or make SL or anyone look bad or embarrass anybody or see anyone get hurt. I'm required to follow a strict journalistic code of ethical behavior and will respect your wishes with regards to what you're willing to talk about and reveal about yourself. Drop a line or IM me. All is well and all shall be well.
Thats what he told me about the first article and it did not turn out that way. IM me inworld if you have concerns. I would NOT do it again after the first one.
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Alex Fitzsimmons
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05-16-2005 09:57
From: Merwan Marker
Wouldn't an interest in "...secondhand story(ies)..." be gossip, and thus have nothing to do with Journalism?

:confused:


Journalists aren't lawyers -- there's not a "hearsay" problem here. If you can quote X saying Y and Z did something, you're NOT WRONG -- X after all DID say that Y and Z did that something (whatever it was)! Whether Y and Z ever actually did what X is claiming or not is largely irrelevant; what you're actually reporting is only what X said. That is, you're not making any direct claims yourself as to the validity of X's claim.

Then of course if you want to be thorough, you can follow up on that claim and try to verify it, so as to be able to report the claim as actual fact itself. ;)
Alex Fitzsimmons
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05-16-2005 10:00
From: katykiwi Moonflower
Thats what he told me about the first article and it did not turn out that way. IM me inworld if you have concerns. I would NOT do it again after the first one.


Mm. Definitely might be smart to check this out, too, though, before talking to him. Wise journalists ARE ethical in their conduct -- if only to ensure that people will continue to trust and talk to them -- but of course you nevertheless don't HAVE to be wise OR ethical to be a journalist. ;)
Jim Levy
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05-16-2005 10:42
I'd also like to know if you have linden approval for this Joe. Im sure I cant be the only one that is unhappy about having RL journalists running around in world looking for tabloid stories on heartache and pain.

Also Joe...no offence intended...but I would have thought you have done enough 'research' on this matter already. :rolleyes:
Rice Cohen
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Hmm
05-16-2005 10:48
Jim.. be nice.. its rude not to share.. do you know something i dont know :|

Aside from that - i think you do need Linden Permission, they like to make sure ppl are legit. Not to say you cant be a free - lance journalist.
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Alan Edison
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05-16-2005 10:51
is it really not allowed? journalists follow celebs all the time without their consent.. its not really 'not allowed' its just what they do... btw, i quite like the article
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Palomma Casanova
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05-16-2005 10:56
Hmmm... :confused:
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Rice Cohen
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05-16-2005 11:00
Well.. I for one never said it wasnt ALLOWED, i simply stated that i have seen from past incidents that Lindens do like to check into the legitmacy of such things.

Secondly - yes in the REAL world, papparazzi follow celebrities all the time and write about their sordid affairs. Id like to point out a few things about this:

1. WE ARE NOT CELEBRITIES
2. THIS ISNT THE RL WORLD
3. CELEBRITIES IN MOST CASE DO SUE (Our law case books are prime examples of celebrities suing, from Vanna White to Jesse Ventura)

Id like to reiterate that i never said it wasnt allowed - and im sure YOU or anyone else can agree as gamers we like to be protected from exploits. Yes, we should be smart enough to realize what we're getting into - but some ppl are vulnerable and others are just plain stupid and need all the protection they can get.

I too, liked the article Joe wrote. It's fabolous. But it wont be so fab if he uses whatever information he gathers under the guise of "Journalism" to hurt other people.

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Ashley Raine
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Join date: 8 Jan 2005
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05-16-2005 11:09
And just a side note.. if you are having problems with your SL relationship, Rice makes a great divorce lawyer!
Shawn Marten
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Join date: 6 Apr 2004
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I got a story for you!
05-16-2005 11:12
Hey Joe,
hit me up inworld next time you're on... i've got a hell of a story for you... :eek:
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Willow Zander
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05-16-2005 11:13
From: Shawn Marten
Hey Joe,
hit me up inworld next time you're on... i've got a hell of a story for you... :eek:


Oh I got a TON of stories I could divulge, but sometimes its way to much fun showing up people for what they really are ;)

OK Edited it to add... I MEAN GOOD STORIES, I was just being my sarcistic biotch self :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
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Rice Cohen
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05-16-2005 11:14
:eek: HEY SHAWN.. next time your on. HIT ME UP IN WORLD.. i wanna know too!!

Also people with a TON of stories obviously are up in other ppls business way too much..
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Shawn Marten
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05-16-2005 11:17
From: Willow Zander
Oh I got a TON of stories I could divulge, but its way too much fun showing ppl up for what they really are ;)



not sure if that was directed at me and if so i have no clue what it means

what i'm referring to is what is currently happening to me in rl in relation to sl

and if i misjudged what you were saying Willow... i'm sorry :o
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Willow Zander
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05-16-2005 11:19
From: Shawn Marten
not sure if that was directed at me and if so i have no clue what it means

what i'm referring to is what is currently happening to me in rl in relation to sl

and if i misjudged what you were saying Willow... i'm sorry :o



LOL no, I was just quoting you saying you had stories, incase anyone didn't get what my comment meant :p

Wasn't directed at you hun
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