Somebody actually married this guy?

Why?

Travis Frey, put up a 4 page document called 'contract of wifely expectations' which includes what to wear, how to shave, and even details of sexual expectations.

Arghh ... why .. why .. why???

Surely this be an example of wanting to be dominant?

Full article here

Truly amazing.

HAHAHAHAHA!!! He is going to make a BADDDD prison bitch.

WTF? Why do people think that is OK and normal? No jury would have convicted that wife if she had "snapped" and shot him.

Although...it does give me an idea for my hubby. Can I make him sign a marriage contract 6 years into it?

Husband Expectations:

1. Thou shalt buy me tampons and midol WITHOUT bitching,moaning, or expecting anything in return.
2. You will not bitch at me when I eat all 5 Hershey's Chocolate Covered Marshmallow Hearts and one was *supposed* to be for you.
3. You will do the laundry and dishes while I am too sick from morning-sickness because your evil spermies impregnanted me.
4. The remote is MINE! If you move it, there WILL be hell to pay.
5. All hormonal outbursts will be overlooked and forgiven. It *is* your fault that I am this way right now.
6. When I ask for ice cream at 9:50pm, and the store closes at 10pm, you will say "WHat flavor would you like snookie-wookums?" (we live 2 minutes from the store, he will get there in time)
7. If I am cold you will not complain that the heater is at 70 degrees. You will just start shedding clothes to cool off WITHOUT expecting anything for being nekkid.

Ok, that is all I can think of. Do you think I could get him to sign it?

No way you get this signed. #4 is a deal breaker.

hmm, I'd not worry about the current state Creami, but rather AFTER the baby comes. 3 AM feedings that last till 6 AM because you fell asleep during...that kind of stuff

It takes a complete asshole to think this shit up. It takes a fool to read it and still marry him.

I actually like the list. Sounds like a fun marriage to me.

I wonder how long they were married before he decided to write this list. Wonder when the asshole in him came out.

he stole my list! GAWD!

Well, exactly.

His wife didn't actually sign it anyway, it appears from the piece....

ACK!!! I forgot about that!! Ever since I got pregnant, my brain has gotten very foggy. I will go edit my first post later, when I can properly word the new rules.


I told my husband last night about this idiot and said that if he knew how to treat a woman properly, he would get most of what he wants. Ok, maybe not 24/7, but she would enjoy doing things for him because she loved him. Not because she signed a damn contract.

And how on earth do you demand that someone look at you adoringly and respectfully? It sounds like this jackass needs to go find a gorean community.

(no offense to Goreans, but his attitudes and what he wants sounds like it would fit...and I am sure someone will post 90 bazillion ways that I am wrong about Gor. But I don't really care.)

There is a substantial minority of women who would love something like this.

Poor creatures.

I think this guy should have to serve the terms of his contract before he could expect anyone else to abide by them.
Completely infantile. Somebody had a mean mommy.

I think it would be nice to have someone spell out exactly what they want instead of having to guess like some damn mind reader. I see nothing wrong with the list, except I guess she didnt want to comply. I have to agree with Selador that there are many women who would be happy to comply with a list like this, myself included.

haha given your often firey posts in the forums, I would love to be a fly on the wall

Blimey Eboni,

Somehow I've never seen you as a submissive!

I would say it is more in line with knowing the rules and then breaking them as often as possible then rubbing their nose in it.

To me though, this looks like one of those joke things you used to see floating around when fax machines where the way jokes got passed around. It has all the signs of something copied a hundred times going through fax networks. Women can get very ugly and vindictive when they have a mind to, like the Chris Rock skit "How not to get your ass beat by the police" says, don't get pulled over when your woman is mad at you , she will say anything to see you 'get your ass beat by the police'. He might have presented this to her years ago as a joke (may explain why it went unsigned and was still married) and she is using this and anything else she can to see him get 'his ass beat by the police'.

Never put into writing something that can bite you in the ass later, even if it was originally meant as a joke. That should be common sense along with Don't take nude pictures/sex video of yourself unless you want everyone in the world to see them online.

And I doubt he was kidding. There *are* nutjobs like that out there. Look at SL.

Holy shit! And child porn charges to boot?

Lock him up and throw away the key kthx!

Eboni I think it's too much for anyone to deal with, I mean, "GBD"s?

So he's an a**hole AND a child diddler!

I hope he gets his you know what cut off in prison. Bye bye!

If you read it he has asking for pretty simple stuff, some of which used to be common place. Sexy dress. Heels and thigh high stockings aren't going to kill you. Quality couple time. No fighting, after the kids are in bed, get freaking. don't come to bed in sweats and a tee with a scrunchie in your hair. Nothing really seemed out of the ordinary. The good days and shit just seemed stupid, but maybe if you are a bad wife you need motivation. I dunno.

Anyway, most of it seemed pretty simple. I fail to see what the big deal. The fact people have to put common courtesy and a little effort in a relationship in writing is sad though.


Kiddie porn=Perv

Straight to jail on that.

I think what freaks people is the formalization of it all, I know I'd be freaked. I know alot of it isn't a big deal... but it doesn't strike you as controlling at all?

Besides, if you have to enforce what YOU want on your marriage partner because you don't like the way they currently behave, umm.. doesn't it mean you're not really compatible? I think you should take people the way they are, if they're willing to change in some way for you great, but this is just way over the top.

Gotta agree. Additionally, this "document" is all one sided. Only a fool enters a contract that gives them little or no benefit. Then, there is this part:

"You are to do everything that is requested or expected of you, ifyou do not you are considered noncompliant. You are also noncompliant if you start something and can, or will not finish, even if you state you are in pain or something hurts. "...

..."If you don't have enough GBD's to cover the loss, then you will be tied to the bed and I will do whatever I wish too you. This will continue every night until you are ready to be compliance, at which time you will need to apoligize and explain how you are ready to be my sex slave again (all poor grammar intact)."

Nowhere in this "document" do I see any exceptions to this outrageous rule for illness. To put it simply, she could be in real distress, but still bound to pleasure this idiot. If she isn't up to it, she (according to his "rules" could get repeatedly raped until she is "compliance".

Most of the time, I'd consider something like this to be an obivious joke, because its so outrageous. Since he's up on attempted kidnapping and child pornography charges, one could conclude he was serious. I really hope they don't have kids.

Yuck. It pains me to know there are people who:
A. Write these contracts seriously expecting them to be fuffilled and
B. Actually sign and fuffill these contracts.
==Chris, a closeted feminist