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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
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08-03-2006 06:35
I know someone recently that was partnered and more than likely bonking an underager and I gotta say with the amount of ppl she's with on a regular basis, its prolly happened more than once and it doesn't surprise me.
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Kris Ritter
paradoxical embolism
Join date: 31 Oct 2003
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08-03-2006 06:37
How do we know if they are underage??? When they say 'i hafta go honey, my mom just called me for dinner then I have to do my homework and clean my room. but thanks for the sex it was great!" _____________________
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Johnny Mann
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Join date: 1 Oct 2005
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08-03-2006 06:37
Um, Johnny, anyone who is willing to cyber or pixelslap with someone they don't even know really is asking for it. I can't imagine that anyone has any right to be 'sickened by the idea' of having done it with a teen or some guy pretending to be a female. If you have a moral issue with these kind of things then you make it your damned business to find out who you're doing it with! But also remember... IT IS NOT REALLY SEX. It's just words. It's just animations. It's just an avatar. Some people take it far, far, far too seriously. Are you saying that the content is appropriate for people under 18, because thats what it looks like. Or are you just arguing for the sake of arguing. |
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VolatileWhimsy Bu
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Join date: 27 Jun 2006
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08-03-2006 06:39
Are you saying that the content is appropriate for people under 18, because thats what it looks like. Or are you just arguing for the sake of arguing. i say for the sake of arguing, cause im sure they aren't a parent.. i have to say, kids getting on the adult grid hasn't bothered me.. .seriously.. but them working as escorts and what not.. is really serious, i don't think you guys understand how serious it is.. its all play yeah, but like someone pointed out lindens are exchangable to real money |
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Kris Ritter
paradoxical embolism
Join date: 31 Oct 2003
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08-03-2006 06:39
Are you saying that the content is appropriate for people under 18, because thats what it looks like. Or are you just arguing for the sake of arguing. No, I'm saying that people shouldnt virtually fuck people they dont know if the truth might sicken them. Wasnt that perfectly clear? I thought so. _____________________
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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
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08-03-2006 06:43
How many kids in RL do you think are still virgins at 18? I know I wasn't!
I'm not saying it's right before you all jump on me and i'm not saying all kids aren't still virgins at 18, but I know during my teenage years I was fully aware of what sex was, how it worked, what happened if it went wrong and I knew what I was doing. I'm rambling... Let's just close SL all together - PROBLEM SOLVED! _____________________
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Johnny Mann
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Join date: 1 Oct 2005
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08-03-2006 06:44
No, I'm saying that people shouldnt virtually fuck people they dont know if the truth might sicken them. Wasnt that perfectly clear? I thought so. Ok well start a Thread with that topic then. |
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Siobhan Taylor
Nemesis
Join date: 13 Aug 2003
Posts: 5,476
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08-03-2006 06:44
There are girls on the streets of London (and any other city I could think of) of 16 and younger ancting as prostitutes in RL.
It's wrong there too, but it doesn't stop them, and the police don't seem that interested. I suppose SL is safer, but it still sounds a bit ewww to me. _____________________
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Johnny Mann
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Join date: 1 Oct 2005
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08-03-2006 06:45
How many kids in RL do you think are still virgins at 18? I know I wasn't! I'm not saying it's right before you all jump on me and i'm not saying all kids aren't still virgins at 18, but I know during my teenage years I was fully aware of what sex was, how it worked, what happened if it went wrong and I knew what I was doing. I'm rambling... Let's just close SL all together - PROBLEM SOLVED! I was underage doing sh*t too ... ahh the days go quick. My point isn't to protect kids. My point to to protect SL from parents with Lawyers....lol |
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Burnman Bedlam
Business Person
Join date: 28 Jan 2006
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08-03-2006 06:46
There are girls on the streets of London (and any other city I could think of) of 16 and younger ancting as prostitutes in RL. It's wrong there too, but it doesn't stop them, and the police don't seem that interested. I suppose SL is safer, but it still sounds a bit ewww to me. Well, more than ewww, it's a criminal offense for the other party to a minor prostitute's activity (unless also a minor). _____________________
Burnman Bedlam
http://theburnman.com Not happy about Linden Labs purchase of XStreet (formerly SLX) and OnRez. Will this mean LL will ban resident run online shoping outlets in favor of their own? |
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Kris Ritter
paradoxical embolism
Join date: 31 Oct 2003
Posts: 6,627
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08-03-2006 06:47
Ok well start a Thread with that topic then. err, i was responding to you directly. which is why I quoted you. And you asked for clarification after twisting my words. _____________________
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Canimal Zephyr
Mentally Ill
Join date: 16 Sep 2004
Posts: 705
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08-03-2006 06:49
My friend has a sl escort buisness & don't most escorts just get a notecard to paste from?
That's kind of off topic.. I know in the US its criminal to have sex w/ a minor but is it also criminal to chat up a minor in a chat room? Just stuff i'm curious about. Neither which I plan to do ![]() _____________________
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Hypatia Callisto
metadea
Join date: 8 Feb 2006
Posts: 793
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08-03-2006 06:51
I was underage doing sh*t too ... ahh the days go quick. My point isn't to protect kids. My point to to protect SL from parents with Lawyers....lol I agree with you. I said it elsewhere, I think the only real solution with open registration and teens besides closing open registration, is limiting accounts with no payment info on file to PG areas only, unable to teleport to mature sims. It is effectively the same as what adult sites do in requiring a credit card, at least there is some verifiable identity going into mature areas. It could have the side effect of businesses who want to cater to no payment info on file (for events and corporations finding mature zoning to be contrary to their projects) actually wanting to zone their land as PG, thus raising its value more. Mature areas need to be restricted to verified accts, IMO. Might not be a popular opinion but it's the only way, I think. _____________________
... perhaps simplicity is complicated to grasp.
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Cindy Claveau
Gignowanasanafonicon
Join date: 16 May 2005
Posts: 2,008
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08-03-2006 06:53
I was underage doing sh*t too ... ahh the days go quick. My point isn't to protect kids. My point to to protect SL from parents with Lawyers....lol Johnny, SL (and the Lindens) really aren't at risk other than some bad publicity (and we know there's no such thing). The ones at risk are the business owners like you and some others who list their builds under "sex" and end up getting flooded with newbies who are looking for ... yep, sex. I'm not sure how much risk you take, and I've asked a lot of people who should know. It seems that if you take appropriate measures to screen people and don't hesitate to eject/ban and AR any underage people you find, you've demonstrated sufficient intent to avoid prosecution. But who knows. So I would simply suggest that you either (a) Refuse admittance to unverified accounts, which would literally destroy Heaven Above the Clouds' traffic numbers or (b) Keep security people on duty 24/7 and order them to watch for suspicious behavior. Of course, there's always the option to post signs everywhere, "Not responsible for you schtupping a teenybopper" but that's a cop-out, IMO. _____________________
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Burnman Bedlam
Business Person
Join date: 28 Jan 2006
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08-03-2006 06:54
I was underage doing sh*t too ... ahh the days go quick. My point isn't to protect kids. My point to to protect SL from parents with Lawyers....lol There are 4 points to consider here... 1) Parents should do their part to protect their kids, and SL should (out of social responsibility) also do their part to protect kids, unless they just don't care, which would be unfortunate. 2) Parents suing LL is a major concern for LL if they facilitate child molestation online. If LL knows criminal activity is occuring on their servers, they have a legal obligation to report it to the authorities, and take measures to prevent it. 3) Criminal charges will be brought against individuals caught by law enforcement engaging in sexual activity with a minor. And, if it turns out that LL knows of such activity and has taken no steps to prevent it, things could get legally ugly for LL. 4) Anyone who "employs" an minor in SL related to mature activities could also find themselves in hot water, depending on the nature and scope of any resulting investigation. Linden Labs needs to take steps to ensure that minors cannot access the main grid, or mature content must be removed from SL. Those are the only two ways to limit legal liability for LL and for its sexual residents. I'm glad I don't choose to solicit sex online, virtually or otherwise. ![]() _____________________
Burnman Bedlam
http://theburnman.com Not happy about Linden Labs purchase of XStreet (formerly SLX) and OnRez. Will this mean LL will ban resident run online shoping outlets in favor of their own? |
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Siobhan Taylor
Nemesis
Join date: 13 Aug 2003
Posts: 5,476
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08-03-2006 06:54
Well, more than ewww, it's a criminal offense for the other party to a minor prostitute's activity (unless also a minor). _____________________
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Damien Usitnov
Registered User
Join date: 26 Jul 2006
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08-03-2006 06:55
I think what everyone fails to see is the big picture of what Second Life is. When you get an escort, when you buy something from someone, when you interact in anyway with anyone in the grid you are not interacting with the person playing behing the avatar you are interacting in character it makes no difference if the person behind the character is black, white, purple, 13, 15, 24, or even 85. People lighten up is it really your problem if underage kids are being escorts? No.
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Johnny Mann
Registered User
Join date: 1 Oct 2005
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08-03-2006 06:56
My friend has a sl escort buisness & don't most escorts just get a notecard to paste from? That's kind of off topic.. I know in the US its criminal to have sex w/ a minor but is it also criminal to chat up a minor in a chat room? Just stuff i'm curious about. Neither which I plan to do ![]() Yeah both are illegal, if you mean sexual discussion as "chatting up" All SL needs is one parent to make a beef about this. Or one Dateline news story. Every other Adult Internet site requires proof that you are an adult. They do it to protect themselves from the law and lawsuits. |
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Burnman Bedlam
Business Person
Join date: 28 Jan 2006
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08-03-2006 06:57
I think what everyone fails to see is the big picture of what Second Life is. When you get an escort, when you buy something from someone, when you interact in anyway with anyone in the grid you are not interacting with the person playing behing the avatar you are interacting in character it makes no difference if the person behind the character is black, white, purple, 13, 15, 24, or even 85. People lighten up is it really your problem if underage kids are being escorts? No. Actually... age does make a difference to many people... lots of them in law enforcement. And this topic could make an ambitious attorney LOTS of money. _____________________
Burnman Bedlam
http://theburnman.com Not happy about Linden Labs purchase of XStreet (formerly SLX) and OnRez. Will this mean LL will ban resident run online shoping outlets in favor of their own? |
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Damien Usitnov
Registered User
Join date: 26 Jul 2006
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08-03-2006 07:00
Actually... age does make a difference to many people... lots of them in law enforcement. And this topic could make an ambitious attorney LOTS of money. I agree with the ambitious attorney part because those money worshippers will do anything for it. But I don't see how they would have an arguement, what is illegal about a 17 year old or 16 year old roleplaying sex on the internet? I'm not sure if there is a law about that, about RL sex yes very illegal and wrong in my opinion. If there is a law about underage cybersex id like to know that would be interesting. |
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Cindy Claveau
Gignowanasanafonicon
Join date: 16 May 2005
Posts: 2,008
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08-03-2006 07:00
Every other Adult Internet site requires proof that you are an adult. Not quite. They require you to click a box certifying you're over 18, and then ask for Credit Card information. That's it. As has been discussed on this board ad nauseum the past 2 months, credit cards don't guarantee age any more than cellphones do. But at least with SOME method of verification, there was a psychological barrier preventing SOME teens from jumping into the adult grid. Now there's nothing. The doors are wide open, come on in and play with the adults. It still comes down to you, Johnny -- what do you and your staff do to find and ban underagers? _____________________
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ed44 Gupte
Explorer (Retired)
Join date: 7 Oct 2005
Posts: 638
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08-03-2006 07:04
Here we are, going through all the arguments again as we did two months agp. AFAIK the only ppl ever charged or sued are the ones eventually meeting in rl. What you call sex on sl is really just writing swear words or erotic poetry (depending on your views) with some unrealistic avatars pixelating each other with or without an object that might be remotely described as a penis. I don't believe that sl is capable of supporting any penetration so my view from aussie land is that if Bill Clinton can say that non penetration is not real sex, then all you Americans don't know what you are talking about when you call what sl escorts do a sex act.
In most states of Australia brothels operate legally and there are fairly strict controls over the minimum age (I believe 21) of the working girls. You must be pretty addicted to SL to believe that rl prostitution is anything like sl. Btw Aussies and poms also know which side of the girl the fanny is on, something Americans also seem to disagree on. Ed |
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Kris Ritter
paradoxical embolism
Join date: 31 Oct 2003
Posts: 6,627
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08-03-2006 07:08
Aussies and poms also know which side of the girl the fanny is on, something Americans also seem to disagree on. LOL! If I didn't already have a great quote about wanking in my sig this would prolly be my new one ![]() _____________________
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VolatileWhimsy Bu
Registered User
Join date: 27 Jun 2006
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08-03-2006 07:09
Not quite. They require you to click a box certifying you're over 18, and then ask for Credit Card information. That's it. As has been discussed on this board ad nauseum the past 2 months, credit cards don't guarantee age any more than cellphones do. But at least with SOME method of verification, there was a psychological barrier preventing SOME teens from jumping into the adult grid. Now there's nothing. The doors are wide open, come on in and play with the adults. It still comes down to you, Johnny -- what do you and your staff do to find and ban underagers? some sights don't even ask for a credit card.. you just simply click 18 and woola you are there... but it is also not interactive.. they are not speaking with real ppl doing something that people are going to have a conption fit about.. |
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Johnny Mann
Registered User
Join date: 1 Oct 2005
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08-03-2006 07:09
There are 4 points to consider here... 1) Parents should do their part to protect their kids, and SL should (out of social responsibility) also do their part to protect kids, unless they just don't care, which would be unfortunate. 2) Parents suing LL is a major concern for LL if they facilitate child molestation online. If LL knows criminal activity is occuring on their servers, they have a legal obligation to report it to the authorities, and take measures to prevent it. 3) Criminal charges will be brought against individuals caught by law enforcement engaging in sexual activity with a minor. And, if it turns out that LL knows of such activity and has taken no steps to prevent it, things could get legally ugly for LL. 4) Anyone who "employs" an minor in SL related to mature activities could also find themselves in hot water, depending on the nature and scope of any resulting investigation. Linden Labs needs to take steps to ensure that minors cannot access the main grid, or mature content must be removed from SL. Those are the only two ways to limit legal liability for LL and for its sexual residents. I'm glad I don't choose to solicit sex online, virtually or otherwise. ![]() I completely agree with you BUT It really doesn't matter. It is also up to the individuals who run the website, program, etc to verify information of individuals under 18 if they are providing adult services. Since SL's "adult" grid is labeled as just that, then they should offer that. Once again if they were to get sued, they would probably lose due to the fact they offer no p"protection" and the media would have a hay day. Don't believe me? Look at the past (dont make me dig up articles) also Ask any laywer. |