Top Five Reasons Why Res. Ans. Needs More, not Less, Clarissa
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Marcush Nemeth
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09-10-2009 18:09
From: Pserendipity Daniels Just 'cos I'm a jerk doesn't mean I don't recognise goodness in others. You're a bad liar. Like Clarissa, you have a very strong opinion, and you are actually good at showing that with tongue-in-cheek remarks. But having a strong opinion doesn't make you a bad person. Instead, it makes you a valued sparring partner to those who RECOGNIZE your value. Those people who MATTER, whether you agree with them or not. And I'm hoping Clarissa secretely reads up this thread, since it applies to her as well. *makes note to REALLY visit the hangout at prime times sometime.
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Seven Okelli
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09-10-2009 18:29
Clarissa is not only a person who genuinely wants to help, she is one of those open-hearted souls who always gives the benefit of the doubt. If I was ready to consider someone an a-hole, Clarissa would give some reason that could explain their bad behavior.
It always struck me as incredibly ironic that SHE was often the target of accusations of bad behavior, or that when she was falsely credited with bad attitudes or malice. Of all the people!
And then that silly "people who should get a life" thread - good lord. An exercise in absurdity, throwing rocks at two women who are dedicated to helping other people.
I can't blame Clarissa for wanting to throw it all over, and I doubt that anyone in particular will pick up the slack. She put time inworld with perfect strangers, trying to get them on their feet, moving them past obstacles to their experience of SL.
I don't blame you, Clarissa, for feeling angry and hurt. If you need to take a break, do it. Be good to yourself. Take a long bath, a long walk, whatever will make you feel better. You could come back and just hang out in the undying thread. We all know who you are there.
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Benski Trenkins
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09-10-2009 18:58
She is always here and her posts are almost always a valuable addition on any subject. like most people I do not want her to go. The OP is right: We want and neeed her back! now this is what we can do:
- Someone here who wants to make some " we want Clarissa back" shirts? - Flags, banners, posters - Demonsttrations - petition device, go door to door inworld - line up a lot of sims on the world map so it reads "Clarissa come back to RA, We miss you!" - Organize sit-ins at Prime Linden locations so that LL has no choise but to support us by using the Message of the Day to raise more awareness
If all that doesn't help............ we start begging?
Clarissa: Do you really want to see us beg?
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Briana Dawson
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09-10-2009 19:45
Wow... I am just realizing now that Ceka is cat cRaZy!
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Rasecel Masatada
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09-10-2009 20:04
I have only been in the forums for a short time, but I have enjoyed private messaging with Clarissa in here. While I think it's lovely that there is so much affection poured upon her to come back, I feel that if she wants to leave that is her choice and it is my hope that no one pressures her into staying. Please let's not be selfish, folks. This isn't about US--it's about what CLARISSA wants and needs right now. I'd say more but I havre one cat lying on my chest and another with his rear end in front of my screen so I cannot even see what I am typing LOL.
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Scylla Rhiadra
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09-10-2009 20:33
From: Rasecel Masatada While I think it's lovely that there is so much affection poured upon her to come back, I feel that if she wants to leave that is her choice and it is my hope that no one pressures her into staying. Please let's not be selfish, folks. This isn't about US--it's about what CLARISSA wants and needs right now. (Ok guys. Looks like we'll have to scrap the vigilante kidnapping squad . . .) 
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Rasecel Masatada
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09-10-2009 21:06
From: Scylla Rhiadra (Ok guys. Looks like we'll have to scrap the vigilante kidnapping squad . . .)  LOLOL!!!
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Rhonda Huntress
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09-10-2009 21:13
From: Lindal Kidd Damn. I may have to take you off Ignore again. I did that once. It lasted maybe an hour before I sobered up.
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Katheryne Helendale
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09-10-2009 21:16
From: Briana Dawson Wow... I am just realizing now that Ceka is cat cRaZy! 
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TundraFire Nightfire
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09-10-2009 22:07
I hope she will realize how well she is liked and what an asset she is to the forums. I also hope she won't stay away.
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Laurin Sorbet
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09-11-2009 02:13
I can't imagine the forums without Clarissa. 
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Nuno McCullough
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09-11-2009 06:17
This resumes what 99,9% of the residents think: “who the hell is Clarissa?”
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Scylla Rhiadra
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09-11-2009 06:37
From: Nuno McCullough This resumes what 99,9% of the residents think: “who the hell is Clarissa?” Then 99.9% of the residents would do well not to waste their time reading -- or commenting in an unnecessarily disparaging way -- upon a thread that should neither interest nor concern them.
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Seven Okelli
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09-11-2009 06:49
From: Scylla Rhiadra Then 99.9% of the residents would do well not to waste their time reading -- or commenting in an unnecessarily disparaging way -- upon a thread that should neither interest nor concern them. That's probably the best answer. .
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Nuno McCullough
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09-11-2009 07:49
this is not a close forum just for a limited group so anyone can coment or even questioning who is that person
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Scylla Rhiadra
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09-11-2009 07:53
From: Nuno McCullough this is not a close forum just for a limited group so anyone can coment or even questioning who is that person You certainly can. I am wondering, instead, why you would wish to. To answer your original question, however: Clarissa is a highly-regarded and much-liked RA forum regular, who has announced, to the dismay of many of us (as you can see from the thread) that she is not going to be posting here anymore. We are hoping to dissuade her from that.
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Smith Peel
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09-11-2009 07:53
From: Nuno McCullough this is not a close forum just for a limited group so anyone can coment or even questioning who is that person It's cool... We all a little sensitive right now... Clarissa is well known on the forums.
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Raymond Figtree
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09-11-2009 07:54
From: Scylla Rhiadra You certainly can. I am wondering, instead, why you would wish to.
To answer your original question, however: Clarissa is a highly-regarded and much-liked RA forum regular, who has announced, to the dismay of many of us (as you can see from the thread) that she is not going to be posting here anymore. We are hoping to dissuade her from that. I was ready to walk away too recently. Thanks to several kind IMs, I decided to return myself. This is a great thing you are doing for a valuable person to this forum and I hope she responds.
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Scylla Rhiadra
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09-11-2009 07:59
From: Raymond Figtree I was ready to walk away too recently. Thanks to several kind IMs, I decided to return myself. This is a great thing you are doing for a valuable person to this forum and I hope she responds. I hope so too! I am very pleased that Jig's "don't go, Raymond" thread DID succeed. We need more Clarissa, but a well-rounded forum needs its hamsters too. 
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Nuno McCullough
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09-11-2009 08:01
Thanks for the explanation
I just asked because as many out there I didn't knew her, so when I open the forum page and I see someone stating 5 reasons why the forum should have more Clarissa it's very natural that I question about
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Raymond Figtree
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09-11-2009 08:07
From: Scylla Rhiadra I hope so too! I am very pleased that Jig's "don't go, Raymond" thread DID succeed. We need more Clarissa, but a well-rounded forum needs its hamsters too.  It was very sweet of Jig, but that was not the reason I returned. It was IMs and PMs, which is why I sent a PM to Clarissa.
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Scylla Rhiadra
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09-11-2009 08:08
From: Nuno McCullough Thanks for the explanation
I just asked because as many out there I didn't knew her, so when I open the forum page and I see someone stating 5 reasons why the forum should have more Clarissa it's very natural that I question about Understood, Nuno. I'm sorry if I snapped at you. 
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Scylla Rhiadra
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09-11-2009 08:08
From: Raymond Figtree It was very sweet of Jig, but that was not the reason I returned. It was IMs and PMs, which is why I sent a PM to Clarissa. Nice point. I have sent a PM to Clarissa as well.
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Nuno McCullough
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09-11-2009 08:13
From: Scylla Rhiadra Understood, Nuno. I'm sorry if I snapped at you.  no problem 
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Ceka Cianci
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09-11-2009 10:18
From: Briana Dawson Wow... I am just realizing now that Ceka is cat cRaZy! I love kitties but i can't have any at my house because of my three dogs.so i haz them here hehehehe
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