Missing persons report

Hey! I miss you!!!! Crighton Johin...you sly dawg. Hope you got my message, all is well. *hugs!*

I miss Bradley, too. I see him now and then, but too far in between.

I miss Shayla, too, but then apparently she's just avoiding me.

Hi Crighton

Whassup, bish?

Never avoiding you Crighton!!...You da man dude!

When I first got to SL, I joined a Farscape group, but nothing came of it. I need to look for that build. I think a Moya build would be cool as all get out, but then I'm a Farscape geek.

I thought it was funny there was actually an Aeryn Sun in world....and I was disappointed. I have an alt named Aeryn....but had to pick another last name.....dammit!

I miss the guy who sat down with me and picked lottery numbers and swore he would share with me if he won. (yeah yeah yeah I know.. ok?) NEway I miss him a lot.

But life goes on we meet other people and those spaces left empty become filled again but the memories remain and will.

Ob-la-di, ob-la-da, second life goes on, REZZ!

if you ever decide to get a group of people together to try build something like that count me in, hell even trying to make a pilot or dargo avatar would be fun, i'v thought a few times about making a scorpi one.

-Crunch

I'm not much of a builder, but what I do like to do when I'm feeling the Crichton in me yearning to come out is I log in as Aeryn and get naked and shake my boobies around and touch myself.

/me nods

Does anyone know what happened to Dahlia Vezina?

I suddenly stopped hearing from her/seeing her a while back but as you do assumed she was busy offline.

Then I noticed it was getting to be a long time, but other things got in the way and I didn't follow it up other than with an IM ... hi how are you ...

Last night I tried to look her up and was shocked to see that she and her various enterprises were gone and that her land is now owned by the Ninjas.

My concern is for her health, as she had a health scare a while back. We were "near miss" close, but she was always so busy and I was too that it never quite came to be. As she was on here from when I started pretty much I would love to know that she is ok real life and just got bored and decided to crash out - as it is, I am very concerned that something happened to her.

It's also possible that having gone for rl hookups they have realised that playing SL is not the same any more. Statistically speaking a proportion of all people are murderers, being wary and sensible in any event online or offline is the same.

I trust my partner implicitly, we have been through so much together. Still, even so, I have a rl friend who plays who insists on being a safe call for me when I fly out to the States - I have every confidence that I will be fine since I was given without asking details of his life which checked out and also his friends know of me and basically just open book honesty. Besides, his patio got struck by lightning and damaged so I suppose he wouldn't even have to have an excuse to dig it up to hide the bo ...

OMG!!

lol

/me laughs

Just logged onto the forum after a month or so to see how the thread was going and read this, made me giggle heheehe. Couple of my dancers have disapeared now aswell come to think of it.

almost been 6 months since I last saw her. seems like only yesterday she was here. we built an island together and I can get so sad when I walk by her buildings. I used to tell her I could hear her laugh from across the ocean.... it's true ..I really could.
miss you so Piperitapatty Mayo. Ho sempre ... sempre e per sempre e ti vedono in cielo. Dio vi benedica.

T. Auer

Oh tanny
hugs you, it's been a hard year. I miss her too. Both Core and Pip were close to our hearts. But remember all they tought us, the impact they had on our lives, the love they shared with us and the people they helped us to become. I am so glad to have known both of them. OMG.... lump in my throat, woah been a little while since thats happened to me. I think they are both around and they have checked in on us. I know they are proud of us. heheh I bet we could challange them in building now though huh, but I will always remember the first time Core tought me to copy a prim and link 2 blocks together and Piperita showed me the temporary link to store larger items in my inventory. She showed me that while I was storing his house after he left, funny huh. Anyway, he knows I will always love him, as Pip knows you love her. I'm proud of you Tanny you have done such a great job with everything.

I figure sooner or later we all leave sl, for whatever reason there may be.
Be it rl issues, sl relationships gone bad, fed up, illness or even rl death.

What I have done to cover this eventuality is put all the names of the people who really
matter to me on a notecard and posted it to a good reliable friend mentor (who I call my executor). She has been in sl for ages and whose life is sl, she can also appoint another 'executor' to extend this agreement.

On the notecard are instructions, a bit like a will, to IM the names on the list, if I am out of contact with her for over 60 days. I figure if I don't email her for this amount of time, then I never will. I have also sent her transferable folders of items with specific names of friends on who can have my stuff - bequeathed. Sometimes not much, just a bit of jewellery or item of clothing sufficient for them to remember me by if they so wish. This is only for the nearest and dearest friends and not really a hassle for an 'executor'.

I think this is a great idea and would save all the emotional stress of wondering what happens to 'lost people'. What does everyone else think?

Dog I think that is a good, thoughtful idea. I have thought about that myself but have not brought myself to doing it. I never really convince myself I'd be missed, this thread makes me wonder if people would wonder or not, though.

Some of the stories about people who made up whole lives (real lives) are the flip side of this. Those types of stories (so and so fell in love then was hit by a bus, come to find out so and so never existed, have heard this type of thing more than once online over the years) are why a lot of people are taut and cautious online. Ya never really know, but most people are nice, I choose to believe.

thanks for that clarissa..................seemed to me to be a good idea. I spoke to LL about a missing person recently and they weren't really interested, as people drop off the radar all the time and it is not their buisness to chase people for an explantion.

I too have found that most residents in sl are great well adjusted people, but there are also many with fractured rl lives and difficulties they seek to hide in sl. These are the ones who suddenly slip off the grid, these are the ones who have touched us and then disappear.

So the phrase of the week is - if you are planning to go, let your friends know.

p.s. you're the lady with the folder of decent men's hair aren't you?
Please could you forward me one too?, as my hair styles are really shocking!

tata dog

i think thats a wonderfull idea, although i had rights on his stuff, i got to keep alot and some wonderfull things he made, photo's aswell. Shame we can't put warmth and tenderness in the folder though, can't replace that I think maybe I will make a couple of folders up with some keepsakes and i know the exact person who i would trust to guard them with. Oh btw if you need LMs to great guys hair IM me in sl and i will send a couple to you. i found some good ones on my travels. xxx

You're welcome, and, already sent.

Hope it helps.

cause the way my mind and memory work (or doesn't) I often drift away from friends, including many very close ones, and most I can't even remember if I try T.T

I totally relate to that...my partner had to drop out of the game due to depressoin.ITs quite sad because we were having a wonderful rship up till then. She asked me to wait for her and of course i said i would bc my love is so deep. I kept in contact with her via phone. Its only the last 4-5 days that she hasnt bothered to return my txts or answer my calls. So i dont know what has happened to her and i worry. However there is nothing i can do about it now. I just have to move on. The last text i wrote to her was asking if she needed to end tis rship becaues of her depression. I told her to be honest and iwould accept it. She didnt answer that text and that is wrong as far as im concerned. Now i wonder if she is alive or dead....who knows. She hasnt logged into sl for quite awhile now s i really have no idea

you think she could have killed herself thinking you didn't want her anymore? o.o

What was the point of that??? The word "heartless" comes to mind. Sheesh.

really? did it came out sound that bad?

sorry, I didn't meant to attack anyone, that just felt like a logical thing to ask based on the given info.

Sorry, somtimes I mess up word choice and such big time U.U


Not sure if it would make things better or worse if I try to explain the thought process involved...I'll try, well, it sounded to me like Annisha was putting the blame on the person that had a mental illness (or whatever you call depression), but from what she said, it could be the case that the person was pushed by the circumstances and wasn't clear minded enough to judge things right and such...