So far you are lucky.
Look at the case of AIDs i picked up in SL with Angel.
5 years and still bugging.
Look at the case of AIDs i picked up in SL with Angel.
5 years and still bugging.
Psycho much?
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Dove Randt
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08-12-2009 15:50
Psycho much? _____________________
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08-12-2009 16:04
I just don't want anyone thinking that i think relationships are a game, which i don't, I just had to vent about this one because it was just too weird. Nope, didn't think that for a moment. I just thought you were over him before he decided to leave and just didn't realize it. Though, that's probably what HE was thinking, from the sounds of it. He thought it was all a game, and he was going to play it for all he was worth. _____________________
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Treasure Ballinger
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Join date: 31 Dec 2007
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08-12-2009 16:09
This. You want to experience a fast breakup? Tell your white boyfriend that your "first" was a black guy. That usually sends them running for the hills faster than Casper and ends all chances of getting a call back. My first was a black guy, too. 2nd too, oh, and, current too. Sorry, couldn't resist.  |
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Briana Dawson
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Join date: 23 Sep 2003
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08-12-2009 16:14
My first was a black guy, too. 2nd too, oh, and, current too. Sorry, couldn't resist. Exactly the same for me.  _____________________
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Analisa Mounier
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08-12-2009 16:24
We all want to be whisked off our feet but what we forget is that often means falling on our...backside. This. |
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Dove Randt
Sassy little B*TCH
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08-12-2009 18:21
Ok now it is funny..he just contacted me and said that at the beach I was provoking the guys with my AO and my bikini and tried to make him jealous. Now if that is not insecure and psycho then I don't know what is. That is like saying all woman ask to be raped because they dress sexy.
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Dove Randt
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08-12-2009 18:43
oh ya now he told me he is going to spread my rl pick around that i sent him and is being really immature by repeating in chat the same exact line over and over again
yes is muted anyway..but if he does spread my pic around can i do anything about it? _____________________
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Madhu Maruti
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08-12-2009 18:52
Dove, out of curiosity, is this the same fellow who you were saying a few weeks ago had put nasty stuff about you in his profile?
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Marianne McCann
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08-12-2009 18:56
oh ya now he told me he is going to spread my rl pick around that i sent him and is being really immature by repeating in chat the same exact line over and over again yes is muted anyway..but if he does spread my pic around can i do anything about it? I believe that would be a violation under disclosure of RL information. Just must them (which you've done) and move on. Not worth the drama. _____________________
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Briana Dawson
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08-12-2009 18:57
Dove, out of curiosity, is this the same fellow who you were saying a few weeks ago had put nasty stuff about you in his profile? Uh oh. Someone is remembering history. I didn't want to bring that up...but i sure want to know the answer! _____________________
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Briana Dawson
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08-12-2009 18:59
oh ya now he told me he is going to spread my rl pick around that i sent him and is being really immature by repeating in chat the same exact line over and over again yes is muted anyway..but if he does spread my pic around can i do anything about it? No you cannot do anything about it as you gave it to him with full perms (i assume since he can give it away). If he puts it on a website - THAT is when you can do something. _____________________
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Colette Meiji
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08-12-2009 18:59
Dove, out of curiosity, is this the same fellow who you were saying a few weeks ago had put nasty stuff about you in his profile? must be the one after that. |
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Colette Meiji
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Join date: 25 Mar 2005
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08-12-2009 19:00
oh ya now he told me he is going to spread my rl pick around that i sent him and is being really immature by repeating in chat the same exact line over and over again yes is muted anyway..but if he does spread my pic around can i do anything about it? Not send him your pic in the first place. Well at least to the next guy. |
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Dove Randt
Sassy little B*TCH
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08-12-2009 19:06
Not send him your pic in the first place. Well at least to the next guy. I learned from my mistake you cannot trust anyone in sl everyone wants to hurt you in some way. _____________________
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Brenda Connolly
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08-12-2009 19:10
These stories are all funny...until someone loses an eye.
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Rioko Bamaisin
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08-12-2009 19:10
I learned from my mistake you cannot trust anyone in sl everyone wants to hurt you in some way. That's not true IMO. I have met a few very trustworthy people in SL who are great friends. You just need to learn not to rush into things. _____________________
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Brenda Connolly
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08-12-2009 19:11
I learned from my mistake you cannot trust anyone in sl everyone wants to hurt you in some way. Maybe everyone You have met. _____________________
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Rioko Bamaisin
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08-12-2009 19:11
These stories are all funny...until someone loses an eye. /me pokes your eye out.  _____________________
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Brenda Connolly
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08-12-2009 19:12
I, er... You been hiding an alt on us? _____________________
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Briana Dawson
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08-12-2009 19:13
I learned from my mistake you cannot trust anyone in sl everyone wants to hurt you in some way. That is not true. What is true however is that many people are selfish. And when it comes to relationships in SL, there are many guys who only want one thing - just like RL - except that in SL it is easier for them to ditch you and attach themselves to someone else, really fast. Some of the worst heart break i have had in SL has been because of guys. So many are just plain old selfish and see SL as a place where they can catch a woman really quickly (well, at least they think the person is a woman) and because of that they quickly kiss off relationships, or blow you off, or string you along while they are dating 2-3 other girls at the same time. My best advice is this: Do not look for a boyfriend or girlfriend. Look for a friend. From friendship other things can grow - and even if you have a deep attraction for that person from the start - DON'T LET THEM KNOW - take it slow. I think all SL relationships should take it slow for the first 3 months. If they cannot make it past the first 3 months they cannot make it with you at all and it is better to commit 3 months of 'companionship time to find out the person sucks - instead of 3 months of sexually dedicating yourself to that person day after day as they wish it only to find out that they are seeing other people and/or are not really serious about you. If a person cannot wait, then they are not worth your time - because that is all you truly have with them in SL is time....wonderful time. _____________________
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Brenda Connolly
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08-12-2009 19:13
/me pokes your eye out. I told you not to turn suddenly...those damn bewbs of yours are going to kill someone some day! _____________________
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Colette Meiji
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08-12-2009 19:15
I learned from my mistake you cannot trust anyone in sl everyone wants to hurt you in some way. hmm, take the "in SL" out and maybe you are on to something. |
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Love Hastings
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Join date: 21 Aug 2007
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08-12-2009 19:22
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Madhu Maruti
aka Carter Denja
Join date: 6 Dec 2007
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08-12-2009 21:56
Uh oh. Someone is remembering history. I didn't want to bring that up...but i sure want to know the answer! I tried to resist ... but I couldn't help myself. Inquiring minds and all that. Dove ... you've had some good advice on both threads. Concluding that you can't trust *anyone* is premature and, I think, unnecessary ... but it's wise, in any world, to get to know someone a little before you give that person information about yourself that you wouldn't want spread around willy-nilly. _____________________
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Lota Lyon
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Join date: 5 Oct 2006
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08-12-2009 22:26
That is not true. What is true however is that many people are selfish. And when it comes to relationships in SL, there are many guys who only want one thing - just like RL - except that in SL it is easier for them to ditch you and attach themselves to someone else, really fast. My best advice is this: Do not look for a boyfriend or girlfriend. Look for a friend. From friendship other things can grow - and even if you have a deep attraction for that person from the start - DON'T LET THEM KNOW - take it slow. I think all SL relationships should take it slow for the first 3 months. If they cannot make it past the first 3 months they cannot make it with you at all and it is better to commit 3 months of 'companionship time to find out the person sucks - instead of 3 months of sexually dedicating yourself to that person day after day as they wish it only to find out that they are seeing other people and/or are not really serious about you. If a person cannot wait, then they are not worth your time - because that is all you truly have with them in SL is time....wonderful time. My advice is learn to script, build, make textures, skins, shapes, tat's or do art and forget the pixel bumping, i.e. SL relationships. Back when I first came to SL and couldn't do any of the aforementioned I became an escort to make money in SL. As an escort I quickly learned that men are men regardless of where you meet them! Seriously though there are a few good men out there, I married one, but even he has his moments!  |
