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Nothing for Something - Tipping in SL and RL

Tegg Bode
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09-20-2009 16:49
From: Chris Norse
Something else to consider, in the US, servers can be taxed on tips even if they don't receive them.

In Australia tips are usually cash so not taxed at all because they never officially appear on the books unless you chose to declare them on your annual tax return.
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Lear Cale
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09-20-2009 18:07
From: Dune Enzo
Tipping is an obscene practise instituted to let employers off the hook. If they paid a decent wage to start with, they'd get staff who do know how to give good service.
I look at it an entirely different way. It's a system that empowers the customer to determine the value of the service provided.

It has the obvious advantage of providing a strong incentive for servers to provide good service, since those receiving the service are the ones who decide how much the services are worth.

As I said above, I've been in countries where tipping is strongly discouraged. Lovely countries, but they'd be lovelier still if they'd adopt tipping for personal services.
Lear Cale
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09-20-2009 18:22
From: Kelli May
Sorry, I absolutely refuse to accept that last part. We have a minimum wage, and taxi drivers are doing a job for pay. You make it sound like I'm committing an act of fraud the way you say it.

Of course by that reasoning, I shouldn't be tipping anyone. Maybe I should stop entirely? At the moment, the point is moot because I can't afford to do anything where society expects me to tip.
You seem to be assuming that the service provided by taxi drivers and wating staff isn't worth any more than minimum wage.

If these positions actually were limited to minimum wage, I bet you'd be very dissatisfied with the service you received, or the fact that you could never get a taxi when you needed one (because there are much easier and less stressful jobs than driving a taxi where one can make minimum wage).

It's not fraud, it's just freeloading. If you're barely making ends meet, it's understandable. If you're living on Easy Street, it's not admirable. In any case, it's not criminal.
Lear Cale
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09-20-2009 18:23
From: Tegg Bode
In Australia tips are usually cash so not taxed at all because they never officially appear on the books unless you chose to declare them on your annual tax return.
... which would be tax evasion? At least, here in the US it would be.
Dune Enzo
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09-20-2009 18:30
From: Lear Cale
I look at it an entirely different way. It's a system that empowers the customer to determine the value of the service provided.

It has the obvious advantage of providing a strong incentive for servers to provide good service, since those receiving the service are the ones who decide how much the services are worth.

As I said above, I've been in countries where tipping is strongly discouraged. Lovely countries, but they'd be lovelier still if they'd adopt tipping for personal services.

G'day Lear. That's part of my point - in some societies it's taken that service is part of what you pay for, otherwise you'd be eating at home. In a place with a $50 main I expect a very different ambience and experience than a place with a $12 main. People just choose the type of experience they want, depending on their own variable factors.

A professional will treat each and every customer exactly the same (hopefully to a high standard) and if a tip follows all well and good. But to breed a sense of expectation, and to even assess the worker's next year's taxable income on tips he hasn't earned yet is bordering on mercenary, imho.
Tegg Bode
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09-20-2009 18:41
From: Lear Cale
... which would be tax evasion? At least, here in the US it would be.

Technically yes it could be, whether it's worth tracking or likely that the Tax department hunts people down for it I doubt, considering in reality it's probably only going to be 1-5% above what your wage is, as tips aren't so likely over here.

Morally if you can coax over 5% tips from your customers that have 0% obligation to tip you, you probably deserve it anyway.
It's not like companies never hide income.

I get a cash tip, the boss would never even know or care about it unless there was a tip sharing system, non-cash you don't have any choice. But Australia is also a largely cashless society, most of us wouldn't carry around more than $100 at anytime, most wages are deposited into our bank accounts, I repay all my loans and bills with electronic transfers, I can go for weeks with a single $20 note in my wallet, using EFTPOS cards for buying food, petrol etc. A good side effect of this is mugging people here is a pretty useless effort for the risk required.

Do people on tips in the US actualy record how much they recieve every day and admit that to the tax department? My guess is probably not everyone does participate in an honesty based system which is why they would be taxed higher than normal wage owners.

If an establishment does provide exceptional service you will find they charge more of course, but the staff will also be on higher wages, hence people providing services above their obligations will be likely to be tipped compared to those just performing what they are paid to do. And if they don't provide the minumum friendly smile and manner that the owner is paying them to provide the onus is on the owner to be responsible to fit that.
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Feldspar Millgrove
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09-20-2009 21:07
From: Melita Magic
They said the employer does not have to pay them minimum wage.


I think if you read the information I posted from the federal labor
department's web site, you will see that the employer DOES have
to pay them the minimum wage (if they don't make that much in tips).

I can't think of any way to say it more plainly.
Jig Chippewa
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09-20-2009 21:48
From: 23rdDjin Negulesco
as long as one has that tire off, might just as well put on the spare and be on the way...


Yes, an excellent idea. However, harder than you might imagine on an ice road where you may have ground yourself into the ice itself. Or you may have blown your spare also. Or spares. It's difficult when the ice is mushy or you've trapped yourself on a road that isnt plowed by graders (not a guarantee). Conditions in hard to reach places can be catastrophic for the unwary or arrogant.
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Jig Chippewa
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09-20-2009 21:52
Back to the tips.
I was thinking of "tips" - what is the highest you have ever tipped?
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09-20-2009 22:00
From: Jig Chippewa
Back to the tips.
I was thinking of "tips" - what is the highest you have ever tipped?



A friend was doing a dj gig for the first time and the club he was in wanted him to dance also. Well his rl wife and I are friends so I popped in and seen what the *price* for him to bare all and tipped it. (just to embarrass him) it was $L1500. Not before or since have I ever tipped that much.
Ian Nider
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09-20-2009 23:17
From: Jig Chippewa
Back to the tips.
I was thinking of "tips" - what is the highest you have ever tipped?


My highest was 500 and average is 100, I do it when I have gotten something I really like for free, like a class or some scripts or objects, if I can't find a tip jar I sometimes buy something, but only if I will use it. Most I have bought as a tip was 1000.
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Lear Cale
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09-21-2009 07:50
From: Dune Enzo
G'day Lear. That's part of my point - in some societies it's taken that service is part of what you pay for, otherwise you'd be eating at home. In a place with a $50 main I expect a very different ambience and experience than a place with a $12 main. People just choose the type of experience they want, depending on their own variable factors.

A professional will treat each and every customer exactly the same (hopefully to a high standard) and if a tip follows all well and good. But to breed a sense of expectation, and to even assess the worker's next year's taxable income on tips he hasn't earned yet is bordering on mercenary, imho.
I would simply call it Capitalism.

I've tried it both ways, and I prefer the tipping system.

And I like being able to go to a place with main courses under $10 and getting very good service -- something that's typical in the US but rare in Australia and NZ (because inexpensive places are nearly always self-serve, not because service is bad).

In most of the world, I get to choose how much the service I got was worth. In AU/NZ, I did not.
Melita Magic
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09-21-2009 07:51
From: Jig Chippewa
Back to the tips.
I was thinking of "tips" - what is the highest you have ever tipped?


$5000 Lindens at a place I liked - and which needed the help. But not as 'me.' ;p
Jig Chippewa
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09-21-2009 08:26
From: Melita Magic
$5000 Lindens at a place I liked - and which needed the help. But not as 'me.' ;p


I like giving people money in sl - they really act surprised and a little guilty but it's just a gift. I send men gifts like that coz I do that in real after we've had a night. I mean I buy a piece of jewellery or a cologne or something. Here I just send them some cash and tell them to buy something with it. It's a gift, not a payment for services rendered.
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Scylla Rhiadra
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09-21-2009 08:28
From: Jig Chippewa
I like giving people money in sl - they really act surprised and a little guilty but it's just a gift. I send men gifts like that coz I do that in real after we've had a night. I mean I buy a piece of jewellery or a cologne or something. Here I just send them some cash and tell them to buy something with it. It's a gift, not a payment for services rendered.

Well, as my bookstore was a grateful recipient of your largesse . . . I can attest personally to the veracity of this. :)

And I didn't even have to sleep with you!
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09-21-2009 08:29
From: Jig Chippewa
I like giving people money in sl - they really act surprised and a little guilty but it's just a gift. I send men gifts like that coz I do that in real after we've had a night. I mean I buy a piece of jewellery or a cologne or something. Here I just send them some cash and tell them to buy something with it. It's a gift, not a payment for services rendered.


No one else was there when I did it - it's how I like it. :)
Jig Chippewa
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09-21-2009 08:31
From: Scylla Rhiadra
Well, as my bookstore was a grateful recipient of your largesse . . . I can attest personally to the veracity of this. :)

And I didn't even have to sleep with you!


I am always available :) Hal gets back to civilization on 24th. Imagine! A whole month with crappy internet connections. Seriously hampers real economic development, doesn't it?
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Laurin Sorbet
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09-21-2009 08:40
From: Jig Chippewa
I like giving people money in sl - they really act surprised and a little guilty but it's just a gift..


She does, it's true. Then I buy us matching dresses. Young girls and all those boyish jeans today, sniff :D
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09-21-2009 08:58
From: Laurin Sorbet
She does, it's true. Then I buy us matching dresses. Young girls and all those boyish jeans today, sniff :D


Do you need some cash, Laurin? I'll send you some :)
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09-21-2009 09:03
From: Pussycat Catnap
Parts of my family have been in the US for 40,000 years. I get asked to prove it all the time. I'll pass white Russians who can't speak a word of English daily who get treated more like an American than I do.

But my point was that Americans tend to assume everywhere they are is their spot with their rules and that everyone else is an outsider - and that this does carry into SL.



Agreed. YOu leave .01, its saying you know about tipping, you know you feel this is a place where you should tip, and you want to tell that person they aren't worth anything.



Stereotyping.. Tisk tisk
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09-21-2009 09:17
From: Jig Chippewa
I am always available :) Hal gets back to civilization on 24th. Imagine! A whole month with crappy internet connections. Seriously hampers real economic development, doesn't it?
Is he in England and dependent upon British Telecom then?

Pep (Milton Keynes has worse internet connectivity than anywhere else in England!)
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09-21-2009 10:27
From: Jig Chippewa
Do you need some cash, Laurin? I'll send you some :)


Careful, the next one could be...PINK :eek:
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09-21-2009 12:03
From: Pserendipity Daniels
Is he in England and dependent upon British Telecom then?

Pep (Milton Keynes has worse internet connectivity than anywhere else in England!)


That is what comes from living in Milton Keynes which swallowed up gorgeous villages in the 60s and became an yesore. It's taking business from Northampton and environs and is really the worst of London overspill in an environment that doesnt welcome it. Personally I like the quieter life in the rural midlands but Milton Keynes really damaged the smaller market towns (we were never to mention Milton Keynes in my Uncle's presence)
Mind you, he would throttle you if you suggested an end to fox hunting and he had a thing about black wellies which he insisted were worn by criminal classes and "luddites" and whatarethose traintrack workers called ... "skivs?". I was called a "Luddite" only a few years ago before he died. But I have NEVER had black wellies. I had red ones when I was small and green ones now. We all had a big row and it was a thoroughly enjoyable evening all round. He was easily softened by a hamper from Harrod's.
His wife broken his nose when she married him in a game of two-aside rugger in the garden.
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09-21-2009 14:01
From: Jig Chippewa
That is what comes from living in Milton Keynes which swallowed up gorgeous villages in the 60s and became an yesore. It's taking business from Northampton and environs and is really the worst of London overspill in an environment that doesnt welcome it. Personally I like the quieter life in the rural midlands but Milton Keynes really damaged the smaller market towns (we were never to mention Milton Keynes in my Uncle's presence)
Mind you, he would throttle you if you suggested an end to fox hunting and he had a thing about black wellies which he insisted were worn by criminal classes and "luddites" and whatarethose traintrack workers called ... "skivs?". I was called a "Luddite" only a few years ago before he died. But I have NEVER had black wellies. I had red ones when I was small and green ones now. We all had a big row and it was a thoroughly enjoyable evening all round. He was easily softened by a hamper from Harrod's.
His wife broken his nose when she married him in a game of two-aside rugger in the garden.
So the insanity is an inherited characteristic then?

Pep (Did the referee perform the ceremony?)
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Lear Cale
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09-21-2009 19:47
From: Jig Chippewa
His wife broken his nose when she married him in a game of two-aside rugger in the garden.
That's a hoot, no matter how you parse it! ;)
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