Delicate Subject.... Assult/Rape?

Well might be ONE way to keep him quiet. So long as he can breathe through his ears.

painful?

Excessively so.

Simply don't leave the girl bits on and don't leave your avi alone and nakies. That would work.

My mother used to say that to me, then wonder why I was laughing so hard I was doubled up for ten minutes.

If you are in Liverpool you are not my mother - mind you, if you were my mother it would explain a lot of things

could someone rez dinner for me please, I don't want to leave this thread.

Hmmm I wonder if it was Steely that found her. He was looking for some aahhmmm

If so, I'd like to think that it was my advice that gave him the nudge he needed.

ok - question answered. I live in a purple plastic lawnchair at the Hanson infohub, so I forgot that people have cool stuff like houses and beds and lovers. This is an excellent answer. If I had a bed and a lover, I'd like that myself, although I wouldn't play with her girl parts when she wasn't there - too weird.

On the other hand, the OP said it was because she was a resort owner. So I guess my question should have been, if she is AFK for any significant length of time, how does being logged on help her accomplish anything as a resort owner? She can't answer IM's or do anything with land permissions. Security is obv. out of the question, since she can't even keep herself from being molested, and she's likely to upset people who are trying to reach her and think she's ignoring them because they see she's online.

I'm not a resort owner (plastic lawnchair, remember?) - there must be a legitimate answer. I'm not busting the OP's chops. I was just asking.

Your crib sounds awesome!

nudge, you probably took him in hand and said *here she is, go get her*

Ah but it is YOUR lawnchair?

Kira just get pizza, job done!

thank you hun, just toss one in my inventory please.
am wondering if that lawnchair is on a nude camping beach.

yeah .... that.....

You might think so, considering the people who pop in and out. Hanson is permanently snowed in, though.

Cherry - it's mine when I'm sitting in it. I'm homesteading it. Until Governor Linden shows up and throws me out, it's mine. If I had a lover and she was sitting in it nude when I logged on, but was AFK, I would fear for what had been done to her. I suspect the OP's tragedy would pale by comparison with what the miscreants and hobos at Hanson would do. Personally, I've started sleeping with a shotgun across my lap and one eye open.

This has come up in the forum before.

The person who came into your house uninvited and clicked on your girlfriend is a scum bag. Clicking on someone's xcite bits in a non consensual way is pretty rude.

Its not rape though. "Virtual rape" yeah, in that its the xcite click part while an avatar is asleep version. Of course thats a hugely different thing from actual rape. Its basically simulated sleep rape.

It doesn't really deserve really to be the butt of jokes, she didn't deserve being clicked on without permission by this person.

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That all being said. Its basically just greifing. ARs have been filed for less, so Dank if she wants to file an AR she could.

Im not sure an AR would amount to much though. I doubt the Lindens will do anything. Who knows tho? in the DOB you neighbor post Dan Linden said Virtual rape is never allowed in SL.

Really the most constructive things to do would be to ban him from your land and tell your girlfriend to stop "sleeping" logged in, especially naked in a sexbaed with her xcite stuff on.

There isnt anything you can actually do asleep IRL but logged on in SL except sit on a camping chair - so I dont see her being an estate manager meaning anything. She can get a yahoo email address and put it in her profile.

If she really really has to stay logged on she should go someplace more protected and wear clothes but not wear xcite stuff.

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So bottom line - Yes the person who clicked on your GF is a jerk.

Just treat him like you would any other jerk in SL.


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And no - they didn't have cyber-sex. Both people have to actually be at the keyboard for that. If that helps your ego any. It also probably explains why she laughed it off.

You sure about that?

That was a shotgun?

I thought you just forgot to detach your bits...

.d

Note to guys... don't ever go to sleep with bits attached.. you forget you had them on when you log in the next day.

I thought Xcite existed so that people didn't have to use their imaginations or creativity in cyber sex. That's the point isn't it? So that it's like having sex with a bot. There may as well be no one there at the other end.

Oddly enough, I've never felt the need to actually get any.

12 gauge double-barreled primnis of love. Once I filed the sights off, the ladies loved me all the more. My new pickup line is, "Hey baby, want to go duck hunting?"

For those in need of such things, like the OP and his Sleeping Beauty, SLExchange has listed a number of nifty-sounding chastity belts, with lock and unlock and controlled access options. Sounds like just what this couple needs.

OP should be warned though: Some of the chastity belts are for attaching to men. Turnabout is fair play, after all...

Which is probably a huge boon to some of the people I have cybered.

No, no wrong. Conan you might want to go buy yourself some. Then I will come and teach you how to click and type at the same time.
/me grins at him

That sounds like as much fun as a root-canal.