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Pserendipity Daniels
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Join date: 21 Dec 2006
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06-18-2009 10:39
From: Treasure Ballinger
If he was nice about spelling and grammar help he would have typed 'Zindra' and not 'Zendra'. Poor skratch will be searching fruitlessly for Zendra and be so disappointed not to find it.

You obviously haven't ever visited Zendra!!!

Pep (Look it up. ;) )
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Osprey Therian
I want capslocklock
Join date: 6 Jul 2004
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06-18-2009 10:41
From: Pserendipity Daniels
PS Don't go near Gor places though; since you haven't capitalised your first name they will assume you are a slave. Now might be a good time to kill off skratch and create a new properly named avatar, before you accumulate too much no transfer stuff.


I thought this was a helpful tip.
Skell Dagger
Smitten
Join date: 26 Jun 2007
Posts: 1,885
06-18-2009 10:42
There are lots more individual places and blogs etc, Seven, but those are the bigger ones that always have free male stuff out/feature male clothing.

OP, I should have added in my reply that the Make Him Over Hunt only lasts during June. After that time, the gifts will be gone.
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skratch Trapdoor
running with scissors
Join date: 13 Jun 2009
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06-18-2009 10:43
I already marked Zindra. I'm new, not stupid :D skratch Trapdoor will be dead in a few minutes. Back in a bit.
Pserendipity Daniels
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Join date: 21 Dec 2006
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06-18-2009 10:43
And skratch, once you have got yourself a nice skin and wardrobe pop over to the Undying Thread (you can't miss it - it's the thread on the first page of Residents Answers with lots of posts) where the Old Biddies' Matchmaking Service will fix you up with a nice single girl . . .

Pep ( . . . who will want to settle down and have 2.5 prim babies with you. :eek: )
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Skell Dagger
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06-18-2009 10:43
From: skratch Trapdoor
skratch Trapdoor will be dead in a few minutes. Back in a bit.
May he Rest in Pixels.
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Seven Okelli
last days of pompeii
Join date: 4 Dec 2008
Posts: 2,300
06-18-2009 10:44
From: Amity Slade
I didn't see it mentioned here- don't forget going to XStreetSL. Plenty of freebies there. Quite a few options to let you limit or order your search results based on being free or lowest-price first.


Ooh, Amity, do you have suggestions for search terms? I'm pretty good at searching xstreetSL.com, but I didn't turn up anything.

As one would expect, a search for "male avatar" sorted by ascending price produces page after page of women's clothes. I tried searching for "male skin" and "male shape" too.

(I'm not trying to be a smartass - I figured I'd save the guy the trouble of searching.)

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Pserendipity Daniels
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Join date: 21 Dec 2006
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06-18-2009 10:44
From: Osprey Therian
I thought this was a helpful tip.

Diamonds in cowpats. :D

Pep (You just have to know where to look. ;) )
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Skratch Blackheart
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Join date: 18 Jun 2009
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06-18-2009 10:50
On the way over to the Biddies playground. Thanks Pep.
Rioko Bamaisin
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06-18-2009 10:51
My cages are helpful:(
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Dana Hickman
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Join date: 10 Oct 2006
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06-18-2009 10:51
From: Pserendipity Daniels
Actually skratch, the latest fashion is to look like a noob. Really, the girls go wild over it for some reason.

/me dons the hip waders to slog through Pep's sarcasm
Not a chance in the world if ya look like a noobz.

From: Pserendipity Daniels
Pep (And don't beat about the bush, just ask straight out for what you want from the women in world.)

Shows how much you know Pep.. this one actually *increases* ones chances with me.
I love blunt.. no misunderstandings that way :p

From: LittleMe Jewell
And I highly recommend against spending any money in your first 2-4 weeks -- until you get a better idea of what SL is like, whether or not you will stay, and ultimately what you want your image here to be.

I would recommend putting payment info on file and buying $1 worth of L$, then removing the info. That way the noobie purchase limit clock starts ticking.
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Seven Okelli
last days of pompeii
Join date: 4 Dec 2008
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06-18-2009 10:51
From: Skratch Blackheart
On the way over to the Biddies playground. Thanks Pep.


I was just going to say that Skratch Trapdoor was a good name, but you were already gone.

(remember that he's still around if you need him)

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Seven Okelli
last days of pompeii
Join date: 4 Dec 2008
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06-18-2009 10:56
From: Pserendipity Daniels
And don't beat about the bush, just ask straight out for what you want from the women in world; the longer they have been here, the less they want to be romanced.


/me tries to look very serious and solicitous

Pep, why don't you write a book about What Women Want?

The longer, the better. (I mean the book)

Sometimes you remind me of this man:

http://www.mil-millington.com/

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LittleMe Jewell
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06-18-2009 10:56
From: Seven Okelli
Ooh, Amity, do you have suggestions for search terms? I'm pretty good at searching xstreetSL.com, but I didn't turn up anything.

As one would expect, a search for "male avatar" sorted by ascending price produces page after page of women's clothes. I tried searching for "male skin" and "male shape" too.

(I'm not trying to be a smartass - I figured I'd save the guy the trouble of searching.)

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Click on Marketplace, then start clicking categories on the left side to narrow things down and then sort by price. So, I ended up at:

Home -> Avatar Appearance -> Avatar Components -> Avatar Shapes -> Male Avatar Shapes
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LittleMe Jewell
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06-18-2009 10:58
From: Seven Okelli
I was just going to say that Skratch Trapdoor was a good name, but you were already gone.

(remember that he's still around if you need him)

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I think it was the lowercase on the first name (skratch rather than Skratch) that caused the name change. In a lot of ways, I understand that.
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Jackie Silverfall
One Happy Man
Join date: 28 Mar 2009
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06-18-2009 10:58
From: Seven Okelli
Yeah, I'm copying your recommendations into a notecard for newbie guys, Skell.

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7 - send me a copy when done, please. Thanks!
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Amity Slade
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Join date: 14 Feb 2007
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06-18-2009 10:58
From: Seven Okelli
Ooh, Amity, do you have suggestions for search terms? I'm pretty good at searching xstreetSL.com, but I didn't turn up anything.

As one would expect, a search for "male avatar" sorted by ascending price produces page after page of women's clothes. I tried searching for "male skin" and "male shape" too.

(I'm not trying to be a smartass - I figured I'd save the guy the trouble of searching.)

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Start by browsing a category. Say something like Home -> Avatar Appearance -> Avatar Components -> Avatar Shapes -> Male Avatar Shapes.

Now, when you do a search for whatever search term, right under the search window are two checkboxes, for "Search within the current category" and "Include subcategories."

Then, after your search results come back, you can re-order the results by choosing "Sort by price: Low to high." You have to do this after every search, because the sort order will sorta wander from your last choice.

(When you are in a small category, you may not even need to search. It's probably worthwhile to look at all the L$ 0 male avatar shapes. The sorting options work with search or browse.)

When using more than one search term, it seems to default to searching for either one term or the other. To search for both, use the +. "+male +skin". If there is something irrelevant still polluting your search, use -. I use "-demo" frequently.
Seven Okelli
last days of pompeii
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06-18-2009 11:00
Thanks, Amity and Lil.

And will do, Jackie.

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Jackie Silverfall
One Happy Man
Join date: 28 Mar 2009
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06-18-2009 11:00
From: Joshooah Lovenkraft
Sure thing Maureen ... and yes feel free to pass it along or add new info to it.

If someone finds that men's thread, can you post it here and I'll add it to my notecard.

I found my original thread:

/327/de/320756/1.html

It was going pretty well until it got derailed by Cato the troll.
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Jackie
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06-18-2009 11:08
Oh yeh, the guy outdid Chris in arrogance. :D
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Clarissa Lowell
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06-18-2009 11:13
Also, just enter the SLX marketplace and click 'free' below the marketplace title. You will find all sorts of things!
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Skratch Blackheart
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Join date: 18 Jun 2009
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06-18-2009 11:18
Thanks Rioko, Brynna and everyone. I'm going to be a very busy little boy.
Pussycat Catnap
Sex Kitten
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Posts: 1,131
06-18-2009 11:25
I found this site helpful:

http://www.mermaiddiaries.com/2006/11/natalias-newbie-getting-started-guide.html

And if you want to try out Neko, this site:

http://virtualneko.com/how-to-be-a-neko/

- Mostly women, but both have bits of info useful to men as well or instead.
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Riseon Kosten
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06-18-2009 11:46
From: Seven Okelli
Ooh, Amity, do you have suggestions for search terms? I'm pretty good at searching xstreetSL.com, but I didn't turn up anything.



As one would expect, a search for "male avatar" sorted by ascending price produces page after page of women's clothes. I tried searching for "male skin" and "male shape" too.



(I'm not trying to be a smartass - I figured I'd save the guy the trouble of searching.)



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By default the xstreetsl search engine searches "any words in search criteria". Meaning that you were searching for items that had 'male' 'avatar' and 'male avatar' in them. Likely the number of female avatars returned far axceeded the other results. :)

To require one of the words to be present, without surrounding the search terms in quotes(thus possibly limiting your search results too much), put a + sign in front of a word. For instance searching for +male +avatar would require all search results to have both words, in any order. If you google boolean search, you'll learn all sorts of things you probably don't even want to know about xstreetsl search. *wink*
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06-18-2009 12:38
Umm
"Where can I get level 50 armor so I don't look like a level 1 Warrior?" :)
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