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Raudf Fox
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12-19-2008 08:31
From: PabloM Forzane
Hi everyone,

i work for Linden Lab's PR agency in the UK and i've just heard from the BBC about a programme it is working on.

I've pasted a description below:
On our second show of the new series, on January 4, we are looking to debate the issue of virtual infidelity, asking the question: Can You Commit Adultery Online?

I am looking for an active Second Life user who answers either yes or no to the above question – perhaps somebody who has a relationship in real life but thinks nothing of forming sexual relationships in SL, as it is not ‘real’ cheating; or somebody who did fall in love with someone on SL when they were already in a real-life relationship and admits that an SL affair is cheating.

if this of interest to you, please email me on [email]paulm@lewispr.com[/email]

cheers,
Paul


I honestly don't know you from any other yahoo who might or might not be working for LL. From what I understood most of the PR people have Linden names or if they don't, they have a Linden post FOR them.

We have enough people doing surveys about the subject for their "thesis" as it is. If this is the real deal, get a Linden to post about it.

And please, please, please... learn to use the shift key. Appearances are important for PR people. More so for those who are using the written word.
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12-19-2008 08:32
From: Candida Flare
... I mean, is sex on SL cheating in RL?
I brought lots for this discussion:



/me pulls up a seat and gets ready to watch with a few others
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12-19-2008 08:33
From: spinster Voom
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p.s. yes, it's cheating
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Maybe
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12-19-2008 08:33
From: Jig Chippewa
Do you mean if you are married in real or in sl? In which case, in sl, YES. In real, havent a clue.


Well, I've talked to partnered SL couples who belong to swingers clubs. So not all avatars are monogamous.
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12-19-2008 08:33
From: Jig
Oh and "Doctor Who". Serious crush on teh Doctor - that Tennant guy.


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12-19-2008 08:34
From: Brenda Connolly
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My opinion always matters........... and even if it doesn't, I'm giving it anyway.
:p
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12-19-2008 08:35
another yawner
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12-19-2008 08:35
From: Pserendipity Daniels
I know a married couple in rl who are both partnered to other people in sl, but their avatars are having an affair (without telling their sl partners) with each other in sl.

Pep (Is this cheating? And what if they didn't realise that they were married in rl?)


Blimey, it gets complicated doesn't!
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12-19-2008 08:35
From: Pserendipity Daniels
I know a married couple in rl who are both partnered to other people in sl, but their avatars are having an affair (without telling their sl partners) with each other in sl.

Pep (Is this cheating? And what if they didn't realise that they were married in rl?)


That's f@cked up, right there.
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12-19-2008 08:37
From: Avawyn Muircastle
Well, I've talked to partnered SL couples who belong to swingers clubs. So not all avatars are monogamous.
And in recent and exciting news, dog bites man.

Pep (More later . . . )
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12-19-2008 08:37
Also some of the people on SL are sort of making their own movie so to speak via roleplaying very much like an actor or actress and there is no real genital contact just like with real like actors and actresses making a movie... well most that is.

The BBC might have a better story on cheating in the real life movie world.

*yawns* cuz I could care less what celebrity is marrying whom, divorcing whom, having a baby with whom... *yawns again*
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12-19-2008 08:37
From: Candida Flare
Mmm, interesting posts but I'm interested in knowing - If I'm in a committed relationship in RL and I start a relationship with another person in SL, but don't tell him, am I cheating on him? I really can't decide - maybe I should ask him what he thinks?!
Who's alt are you anyway?

I really don't mind rehashing some of the same topics (they provide for good entertainment), but I prefer to do it honestly rather than under pretense. Why the hell can we just not start a thread and say "hey, I want to rehash this again", rather than create a new alt to start the same topics?
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12-19-2008 08:38
From: Candida Flare
Blimey, it gets complicated doesn't!
Don't worry, I completely made it up . . .

Pep (. . . to demonstrate how stupid the whole thing is)
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12-19-2008 08:39
From: Pserendipity Daniels
And in recent and exciting news, dog bites man.

Pep (More later . . . )
I thought the man bit the dog...... or did something to the dog anyway
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12-19-2008 08:40
so Bill Clinton was only smoking then?
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12-19-2008 08:43
From: Pserendipity Daniels
Don't worry, I completely made it up . . .

Pep (. . . to demonstrate how stupid the whole thing is)


LOL! The thing is, it probably has happened...
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12-19-2008 08:43
From: LittleMe Jewell
Who's alt are you anyway?

I really don't mind rehashing some of the same topics (they provide for good entertainment), but I prefer to do it honestly rather than under pretense. Why the hell can we just not start a thread and say "hey, I want to rehash this again", rather than create a new alt to start the same topics?


Not sure what you mean - I was just responding to the posting from Paul about the BBC. It just got me thinking that's all....
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12-19-2008 08:45
PabloM Forzane,

You should do an episode on RL gender not matching SL gender, and get Ricardo on the panel.
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12-19-2008 08:47
From: Candida Flare
Not sure what you mean - I was just responding to the posting from Paul about the BBC. It just got me thinking that's all....


With a name like "candida" you expect people to take you seriously on topics regarding sexuality?
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12-19-2008 08:49
From: Avawyn Muircastle
With a name like "candida" you expect people to take you seriously on topics regarding sexuality?


You did NOT just do that? You seriously just put someone down for the name they chose??
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12-19-2008 08:55
From: HoneyBear Lilliehook
You did NOT just do that? You seriously just put someone down for the name they chose??


Candida is a sexually transmitted disease.

can·di·da [ kándidə ] (plural can·di·das)


noun
Definition:

fungus that causes yeast infection: a fungus that can cause yeast infection, especially in the mouth and vagina. Latin name Candida albicans.
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12-19-2008 08:56
From: Pserendipity Daniels
I know a married couple in rl who are both partnered to other people in sl, but their avatars are having an affair (without telling their sl partners) with each other in sl.

Pep (Is this cheating? And what if they didn't realise that they were married in rl?)

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12-19-2008 08:58
From: HoneyBear Lilliehook
You did NOT just do that? You seriously just put someone down for the name they chose??

My list gets longer all the time.

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12-19-2008 08:59
[Edit: Here's the rundown of the candida family of fungi]

Candida albicans
causes thrush in the mouth, crop, proventriculus and the gizzard of birds, and stomatitis, pneumonia and miscellaneous infections in other species. See candidiasis. Previously called Monilia albicans.
Candida glabrata, Candida guilliermondii, Candida krusei, Candida pseudotropicalis, Candida rugosa, Candida tropicalis
have been associated with mastitis in cattle.
Candida parapsilosis
associated with necrotizing placentitis and abortion in cattle.
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12-19-2008 09:00
From: Avawyn Muircastle
Candida is a sexually transmitted disease.

can·di·da [ kándidə ] (plural can·di·das)


noun
Definition:

fungus that causes yeast infection: a fungus that can cause yeast infection, especially in the mouth and vagina. Latin name Candida albicans.


I am perfectly aware of what Candida is. However, that is the name that avatar chose. You do not have the right to criticize them for it any more than I do. Laugh if you wish, but this was out of line.
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