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PabloM Forzane
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12-19-2008 07:12
Hi everyone,

i work for Linden Lab's PR agency in the UK and i've just heard from the BBC about a programme it is working on.

I've pasted a description below:
On our second show of the new series, on January 4, we are looking to debate the issue of virtual infidelity, asking the question: Can You Commit Adultery Online?

I am looking for an active Second Life user who answers either yes or no to the above question – perhaps somebody who has a relationship in real life but thinks nothing of forming sexual relationships in SL, as it is not ‘real’ cheating; or somebody who did fall in love with someone on SL when they were already in a real-life relationship and admits that an SL affair is cheating.

if this of interest to you, please email me on [email]paulm@lewispr.com[/email]

cheers,
Paul
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12-19-2008 07:13
Hasn't this been done to death? Don't you people in the UK have ANYthing else to talk about?
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Candida Flare
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12-19-2008 07:39
I think it's quite interesting and as we Brits are only just getting on board with this SL thing the media are picking up on it (recent RL divorce case over here). I mean, is sex on SL cheating in RL?
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12-19-2008 07:44
From: Candida Flare
I mean, is sex on SL cheating in RL?
Of course it is, unless the RL partner agrees to it.

(This has the makings of a good thread :))
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12-19-2008 07:47
must be friday :p
Yosef Okelly
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12-19-2008 08:02
From: PabloM Forzane
Hi everyone,

i work for Linden Lab's PR agency in the UK

You should ask about getting a Linden name, otherwise we don't know you from Adam or any one of the hundereds of others looking for a spam list, account info or who knows what.

From: Rhiannon Boronski
must be friday :p

Ding! Ding! Ding!
We have a winner!!!
spinster Voom
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12-19-2008 08:02
not this again, please!

When I think about SL, for all its faults, I see an astonishing platform/place where residents create fabulous builds and avatars, there is a thriving arts scene, musicians from all over the world share their music at live concerts, people start businesses (some of them very successful), people help each other learn new skills and languages, raise money for charity ...

Why does it always have to be about this? I look forward to the day when I can talk about SL to people who have not been there without having to explain that all this sex stuff is only one aspect of SL and is in no way compulsory.

Shame on you, BBC!

p.s. yes, it's cheating
p.p.s. when are you going to do MP3 streams so I can listen to The Archers on my parcel?
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12-19-2008 08:03
From: Candida Flare
I think it's quite interesting and as we Brits are only just getting on board with this SL thing the media are picking up on it (recent RL divorce case over here). I mean, is sex on SL cheating in RL?


Only you and your partner can answer that. No one else's opinion matters.
Jig Chippewa
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12-19-2008 08:04
If we are putting in our requests here, I wanna listen to Radio 1 through 4 on sl - can you make it happen? Puuuhleeezzzze.
Also radio7.
Thnaks,
Jig.
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12-19-2008 08:06
From: Brenda Connolly
No one else's opinion matters.

well that's that then, no more forum…
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12-19-2008 08:07
All those non-UK residents who want to listen or see BBC material should first send me Linden$ to subsidise my licence.

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12-19-2008 08:08
From: Rhiannon Boronski
must be friday :p

No- I think we decided Friday started yesterday... there are a bunch of escort spambot with vampire marks in Gorean silks running around asking for their stipend and they can't TP! Weren't you keeping up?
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12-19-2008 08:10
From: HoneyBear Lilliehook
Hasn't this been done to death? Don't you people in the UK have ANYthing else to talk about?
Of course we do!

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12-19-2008 08:11
From: Dekka Raymaker
well that's that then, no more forum…


*Turns out the lights.
Jig Chippewa
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12-19-2008 08:12
I love "Dad's Army" - really. Ian Lavender is so cute.
Oh and "Doctor Who". Serious crush on teh Doctor - that Tennant guy. True. He can invite me to his pill box or whatever that thing is any time!
Can we get all this?
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12-19-2008 08:15
From: PabloM Forzane
Can You Commit Adultery Online?

Paul


Do you mean if you are married in real or in sl? In which case, in sl, YES. In real, havent a clue.
With a remainder to please get BBC Radio1 thruogh 4 in sl. Puhleeze?
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12-19-2008 08:17
From: Brenda Connolly
Only you and your partner can answer that. No one else's opinion matters.


That's what I was going to say. It's between the couple as I met people on SL who feel very stale in their rl marriage if not perhaps heading towards separation in rl if not separated already And I've met some couples who have an open relationship in that this is okay for them to have differing partners on SL.

It's up to the couple and I say shame on BBC too. But then again they say sensationalism sells as do sex topics so these types of topics are all over tv and yellow journalism magazines.

Like the Eagles wrote: "Give us dirty laundry" as applying to "the press" and some people live and breathe that gossipy stuff so it's an unfortunate beast as they have consumers who watch or buy this stuff like it's their precious.
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12-19-2008 08:19
From: PabloM Forzane
Hi everyone,

iCan You Commit Adultery Online?

cheers,
Paul


I'll commit adultery with YOU if you'll get us BBC radio. :)
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12-19-2008 08:20
From: Pserendipity Daniels
Of course we do!

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NO. All we did was talk. Sheesh.
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12-19-2008 08:22
From: Candida Flare
I think it's quite interesting and as we Brits are only just getting on board with this SL thing the media are picking up on it (recent RL divorce case over here). I mean, is sex on SL cheating in RL?
"Only just getting on board"? Not really.

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/article924883.ece?offset=1

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12-19-2008 08:24
Mmm, interesting posts but I'm interested in knowing - If I'm in a committed relationship in RL and I start a relationship with another person in SL, but don't tell him, am I cheating on him? I really can't decide - maybe I should ask him what he thinks?!
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12-19-2008 08:25
From: HoneyBear Lilliehook
NO. All we did was talk. Sheesh.
"Talk is seduction" - Stephen King

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12-19-2008 08:26
From: Candida Flare
Mmm, interesting posts but I'm interested in knowing - If I'm in a committed relationship in RL and I start a relationship with another person in SL, but don't tell him, am I cheating on him? I really can't decide - maybe I should ask him what he thinks?!


Your cheating on teh poor sod in SL. Shame on you. Dont mess around with those "men" in real - half of them are women in disguise.
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12-19-2008 08:27
From: Candida Flare
Mmm, interesting posts but I'm interested in knowing - If I'm in a committed relationship in RL and I start a relationship with another person in SL, but don't tell him, am I cheating on him? I really can't decide - maybe I should ask him what he thinks?!
I know a married couple in rl who are both partnered to other people in sl, but their avatars are having an affair (without telling their sl partners) with each other in sl.

Pep (Is this cheating? And what if they didn't realise that they were married in rl?)
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12-19-2008 08:29
From: Candida Flare
Mmm, interesting posts but I'm interested in knowing - If I'm in a committed relationship in RL and I start a relationship with another person in SL, but don't tell him, am I cheating on him? I really can't decide - maybe I should ask him what he thinks?!


There's a thought. Communication. Try it.
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