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Scylla Rhiadra
Gentle is Human
Join date: 11 Oct 2008
Posts: 4,427
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10-23-2009 00:15
Um, just checked my preferences, and they DID get switched somehow. I'm back to being verified again. Yay!! Um. More porn . . . !?!? 
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Gizzy Nubalo
Registered User
Join date: 2 Sep 2008
Posts: 29
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10-23-2009 00:44
From: Marta Vanistok It's a very good thing ... I was being curious not judgemental.
But not at all curious about openly having a husband and 'lover' - I'm a bivirist myself - I think it's the casual use of the term 'master' in a non-sexual context contrasted with the more cuddly 'hubby' that I found unusual outside the context of SL fantasy roleplay or a RL fetish club.
Back on topic - you say "ok, so what, exactly, happened to the information you gathered from me a year ago??" - wasn't that before the current system of age verification was in place? Not that I know of - I mean, my age verification that I did last year worked fine the day before yesterday, on an age-verify-restricted parcel. We've been doing the various grid-wide hunts in-world, and I went back and looked - turns out I've been to that same parcel at least twice in the last few days on other hunts...so it seems as if LL just wiped out our previously verified information sometime in the last 36 hours, thus necessitating our having to redo it. About the first part of your post... I don't mind answering questions when someone is curious. I do mind the rude message I got in-world from someone. *chuckling* I call my husband my husband or hubby, and my Master my Master or my Owner or sometimes my dominant, though that's rare. Very rare instances I refer to him as my boyfriend, but those are really REALLY rare (it feels weird). With grandparents and the like, he's my "best friend" and I'm his. Easier on their sensibilities - and they're still scandalized by the male/female friendship. LOL For us, it isn't a roleplay, or even specifically sexual - the power exchange nature of our relationship extends well outside the bedroom or outside of a BDSM/fetish scene context. He's the boss, all the time, over everything. We don't turn on and off that part of our relationship, it isn't possible - it's too much a part of who we are. Unlike many who engage in a poly relationship laid out similarly to ours (where the slave is married and has a separate Owner), my marriage doesn't trump my M/s relationship - the M/s relationship is "primary," and my Master allowed me to date and marry my husband. I've been a slave for 20 years... my husband has been a bottom for 15, so when we met, he was well-versed with power exchange relationships and knew what he was getting into when he dated/married me - that decisions regarding me (and thus him to an extent by default) were still going to be made by my Master. It works for us. *smiles* |
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RockAndRoll Michigan
Registered User
Join date: 23 Mar 2009
Posts: 589
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10-23-2009 04:46
From: Gizzy Nubalo As I said in my first post, I had both age verified with Aristotle AND used my payment info - for over a year. In addition, one of the places I lived months back was restricted access to age verified avatars only. Sorry, I didn't get that from the post. Which comes back to the problem of terminology. Age verification, as it is currently used, is not the same as "I submitted information with Aristotle." These kinds of discrepancies in how terms are used muddle up the entire discussion related to adult content, unfortunately. |