Help finding collars
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Amaranthim Talon
Voyager, Seeker, Curious
Join date: 14 Nov 2006
Posts: 12,032
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03-06-2009 04:54
From: Marianne Little You could sell your siks with 2 chest pieces! I see more and more that offer different attachment points. It's great for customers. Not all learn how to take a copy, choose "attach to" instead of "wear" and then edit it until it sits right. Good idea! 
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Ria Serenity
Registered User
Join date: 23 Feb 2009
Posts: 3
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03-06-2009 04:59
Thanks for all the help guys! I'm pretty new to SL, so I really need all the help I can get.
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Lindal Kidd
Dances With Noobs
Join date: 26 Jun 2007
Posts: 8,371
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03-06-2009 08:02
Do NOT advertise or respond to ads for a Master or Mistress. That way lies heartache, almost certainly. Do as others suggested. Hang around other people into your lifestyle/preferred lifestyle and eventually you will meet the right person.
It's not quick, and it feels like you're not Doing Anything or Getting Anywhere sometimes. But the results will be far superior.
This works for "ordinary" relationships too. Those who aren't looking too hard will find what they need. So stop looking, and just be yourself.
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Windsweptgold Wopat
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Join date: 24 May 2007
Posts: 1,003
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03-06-2009 17:42
From: Lindal Kidd Do NOT advertise or respond to ads for a Master or Mistress. That way lies heartache, almost certainly. Do as others suggested. Hang around other people into your lifestyle/preferred lifestyle and eventually you will meet the right person.
It's not quick, and it feels like you're not Doing Anything or Getting Anywhere sometimes. But the results will be far superior.
This works for "ordinary" relationships too. Those who aren't looking too hard will find what they need. So stop looking, and just be yourself. Great advice and also laugh at the ones who IM you and say "you looking for a Master"? my response to those is usually " no and even if i was and you were the last one standing the answer would still be NO" mainly because i already have a Master. Many lack respect and or knowledge. Dont go to the auctions either they are a hunting ground for the try hards |
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Briana Dawson
Attach to Mouth
Join date: 23 Sep 2003
Posts: 5,855
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03-06-2009 18:43
From: Windsweptgold Wopat ...auctions... LOL Slave Auctions..... HAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA! |
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Brenda Connolly
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Join date: 10 Jan 2007
Posts: 25,000
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03-06-2009 19:28
From: Windsweptgold Wopat Great advice and also laugh at the ones who IM you and say "you looking for a Master"? my response to those is usually " no and even if i was and you were the last one standing the answer would still be NO" mainly because i already have a Master. Many lack respect and or knowledge. Dont go to the auctions either they are a hunting ground for the try hards It may be hard to believe, but a lot of times you'll meet better and more sincere people in the RP sims than in he BDSM "lifestyle" places. I've found a lot of pompous , stuffy wannabe's in some of those places, whereas a lot of the RP'ers are more relaxed and genuine in their enjoyment of the scene. At least my experience.
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Windsweptgold Wopat
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Join date: 24 May 2007
Posts: 1,003
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03-06-2009 20:14
From: Brenda Connolly It may be hard to believe, but a lot of times you'll meet better and more sincere people in the RP sims than in he BDSM "lifestyle" places. I've found a lot of pompous , stuffy wannabe's in some of those places, whereas a lot of the RP'ers are more relaxed and genuine in their enjoyment of the scene. At least my experience. I agree in part but then I met my Master form the house next door. Some times you find when you are not seeking and remember Doms and subs are ppl to and could be the couple dancing next to you in the ballroom |
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Windsweptgold Wopat
Registered User
Join date: 24 May 2007
Posts: 1,003
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03-31-2009 14:23
From: Ria Serenity Where can I find things like slave collars and a Master on SL? I've found a few BDSM places, but most of the people there are just rude and perverted. When one is not 18 but 16 they should not be looking come to think of it they should not even be in SL main grid |
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Grey Mars
Toymaker
Join date: 21 Mar 2004
Posts: 16
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03-31-2009 14:38
Technology wise, search for Open Collar. It’s stable, feature rich, updated frequently, and has many free versions available. They have a quite acceptable free AO as well. Don’t invest large amounts of money till you are sure of what you need.
Person wise, I’ll echo everyone else. Don’t force a match, don’t rush. Avoid the various meat markets if you are looking for a real relationship. Fairly neutral areas such as the Forum sim are good places to be around. If it takes time to find the person you are looking for, let it. Be picky, be selective, and above all ask questions.
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