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The "s" word.

Vampaerus Wysznik
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06-10-2008 04:01
No question, just a PSA.
Try to refrain from using the word "stupid". There's really no effective way of using that word. I makes people mad, and makes you look, well... If you find yourself tempted to use the s word, take a step back, and find another way of getting your meaning across. I guarantee you will "win" more.
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Amy Stork
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06-10-2008 04:03
Damn I thought it mean the other "s " word... maybe I must be "s" or someting?
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06-10-2008 04:09
From: Vampaerus Wysznik
No question, just a PSA.
Try to refrain from using the word "stupid". There's really no effective way of using that word. I makes people mad, and makes you look, well... If you find yourself tempted to use the s word, take a step back, and find another way of getting your meaning across. I guarantee you will "win" more.
Ah, but there are times when somebody really is displaying stupidity, and the intent of calling them stupid is to affect them - making them mad will do nicely ;)
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06-10-2008 04:28
This thread is stupid.:rolleyes:











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Vampaerus Wysznik
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06-10-2008 04:30
From: Phil Deakins
Ah, but there are times when somebody really is displaying stupidity, and the intent of calling them stupid is to affect them - making them mad will do nicely ;)


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Marcel Flatley
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06-10-2008 04:31
Dont know about the whole stupid thread, but using the stupid abbreviation PSA is plain stupid ;)

Though... it might be me being stupid since I dont know the stupid abbreviation's meaning...

Cound anyone update me on that one? :cool:
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06-10-2008 04:33
PSA - public service announcement :)

hey..that was kinda like my PSA...:p
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06-10-2008 04:37
From: Maureen Boccaccio
PSA - pretty stupid announcement :)

hey..that was kinda like my PSA...:p
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06-10-2008 05:19
Stupid does not mean lacking in intelligence in context. I think if people (those who are real humans anyway) are confronted with a real handicap they would not use the word. It has come to mean having intelligence and not using it.

Though I am of at least average intelligence, I have done some stupid things in my time. We should move past the watered down, bland, meaningless, PC version of the language.

This broadly offensive link says it all:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h67k9eEw9AY
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06-10-2008 07:28
From: Amy Stork
Damn I thought it mean the other "s " word... maybe I must be "s" or someting?

I was hoping for the other S word as well. It's only half as many letters, too.

Now I feel stupid for coming here. I was tricked. I fell for the old bait and switch con.
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06-10-2008 07:40
What if you round out the insult to put less emphasis on the 's' word.

i.e. bignosed, sheep shagging, stupid, inbred, village idiot. (no im not just talking about the welsh!)

So by insulting a person on multiple levels then they wont focus so much on the stupid part thus being less offended by the 's' word.

I am amazed by my own genius sometimes

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06-10-2008 07:46
From: Vampaerus Wysznik
It makes people mad, and makes you look, well... .


So apparently it's ok to imply people are stupid....?


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Atticus Heliosense
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06-10-2008 07:49
I've 20 minutes to kill, so here goes..

In my opinion the OP is right.

However much you want to rationalise it, the word "stupid" can only be understood as pejorative and to an objective observer would say more about the relative intelligence of the person using the word, than the person on the receiving end.

For the most part it's all relative and depends on context, in the sphere of mathematics and physics we're all pretty "stupid" compared to Einstein, but could he service a car or throw a ball straight, or do the Times crossword?

Obviously if you're just throwing insulting names around for sport and to get a reaction... well I can respect that.

But to be honest if you want to do that by calling into question the quality of someone's education or knowledge of the wider world.. why not just call them a Yank?
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06-10-2008 08:10
I refuse to give up such a lovely short and useful word.

It would be...stupid.
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06-10-2008 08:19
From: Phil Deakins
Ah, but there are times when somebody really is displaying stupidity, and the intent of calling them stupid is to affect them - making them mad will do nicely ;)


The OP did post against the use of Phil's pet word.

Its Dr. Phil's world .. most of us are too stupid to be in it. :rolleyes:
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06-10-2008 08:24
I like stupid a lot better than using the word retard (see my sig).
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06-10-2008 08:29
From: Raymond Figtree
I like stupid a lot better than using the word retard (see my sig).


lol Raymond, that is a St.. um ... well you know, quote.
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06-10-2008 08:55
Webster defintions:

1 a: slow of mind : obtuse b: given to unintelligent decisions or acts : acting in an unintelligent or careless manner c: lacking intelligence or reason : brutish
2: dulled in feeling or sensation : torpid <still stupid from the sedative>
3: marked by or resulting from unreasoned thinking or acting : senseless <a stupid decision>
4 a: lacking interest or point <a stupid event> b: vexatious, exasperating <the stupid car won't start>


Therefore, it does apply to some posts/people. However, I suppose we could try to shift to some of the named synonyms:

synonyms: dull, dense, crass, dumb
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06-10-2008 09:18
There was a guy trying to build a spaceship in the middle of my medieval village.

I watched him rez prims, gently position them, adjust and fine tune.

Then autoreturn would kick in and all his prims would go poof.

And he would start again....

Eventually I messaged him and said:
'Excuse me. I am sorry, but you can't build spaceships in the middle of my village. Auto-return is on and your prims will continue to return to you every five minutes. If you want, you can go over to my other island and your can 'sandpit' building there. I am not using it yet, so feel free :-)'

His reply 'I will build where I want, b***h'

He continued to try his constructions where he was. I left him to it, lol



Now tell me. Does this or does this not beautifully define a certain word? hehe
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06-10-2008 09:28
From: Elgyfu Wishbringer
There was a guy trying to build a spaceship in the middle of my medieval village.

I watched him rez prims, gently position them, adjust and fine tune.

Then autoreturn would kick in and all his prims would go poof.

And he would start again....

Eventually I messaged him and said:
'Excuse me. I am sorry, but you can't build spaceships in the middle of my village. Auto-return is on and your prims will continue to return to you every five minutes. If you want, you can go over to my other island and your can 'sandpit' building there. I am not using it yet, so feel free :-)'

His reply 'I will build where I want, b***h'

He continued to try his constructions where he was. I left him to it, lol



Now tell me. Does this or does this not beautifully define a certain word? hehe


That really gives rocket scientists a bad name.
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06-10-2008 09:28
In his case, "stupid" isn't a strong enough word.

I hope he doesn't work for NASA.
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06-10-2008 09:36
But why wouldn't you want a spaceship in your medieval village? It would fit in really well with the mobile phone tower and the biodome
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06-10-2008 10:39
From: Amy Stork
But why wouldn't you want a spaceship in your medieval village? It would fit in really well with the mobile phone tower and the biodome


And if the flight scripts don't work, you can put it on a pole out in front of the bowling alley.
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06-10-2008 10:44
From: Melissa Zerbino
I was hoping for the other S word as well. It's only half as many letters, too.

Okay...I've been wracking my brain for this word...

3 letters...begins with "s"...I'm guessing it's supposed to be offensive...

I wanna know!!

(unless I'm being too literal, which would be a bit simple minded, I guess)
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06-10-2008 10:46
From: Atticus Heliosense
I've 20 minutes to kill, so here goes..

In my opinion the OP is right.

However much you want to rationalise it, the word "stupid" can only be understood as pejorative and to an objective observer would say more about the relative intelligence of the person using the word, than the person on the receiving end.

For the most part it's all relative and depends on context, in the sphere of mathematics and physics we're all pretty "stupid" compared to Einstein, but could he service a car or throw a ball straight, or do the Times crossword?

Obviously if you're just throwing insulting names around for sport and to get a reaction... well I can respect that.

But to be honest if you want to do that by calling into question the quality of someone's education or knowledge of the wider world.. why not just call them a Yank?


lol - obvious troll is obvious.
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