I think this thread should be safe, considering there are 'people' who have me on ignore! Well, one person. Well, one twat. Anyways........
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Maybe when you feel compelled to refer to someone as a "twat?"
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Mickey Vandeverre
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11-02-2009 11:54
I think this thread should be safe, considering there are 'people' who have me on ignore! Well, one person. Well, one twat. Anyways........ . Maybe when you feel compelled to refer to someone as a "twat?" |
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11-02-2009 12:07
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Czari Zenovka
I've Had it With "PC"!
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11-02-2009 12:08
I find it's often useless and a waste of time to engage in long winded debates in the forums and it boils down to egos wanting to prove that they are right. In the big scheme of things, you rarely change minds and it often makes little difference in what you end up saying in many cases. This ^^ I don't like debate and am not well skilled at it. However, I have very strong opinions and a few things I am passionate about. I will often state my opinion and that's the end of it. Often I rarely read that thread anymore once I've given my opinion. Interestingly, having now spent over 2 years in SL and about the same length of time in these forums, the combination have reminded me of what is truly important to me in life, what I want to pursue and where I wish to expend my energies. Debating often inane topics is not it. There now, I've stated my opinion. ![]() _____________________
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Lias Leandros
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11-02-2009 12:10
So, in the interests of furthering debate, when should it be clear that one is dealing with what I think is technically known as a fruitloop, and it might be pointless to try to enter into any form of dialogue? Or should we press on regardless because, let's face it, mad people are funny, and if they have an appetite for argument is it far to deprive them? I'll kick off, shall I? It only becomes pointless when the men in white coats are actually at the ( basement ) door. Up to then, it is valid to refute the many and various bonkers claims put forward, always assuming we still give a shit. I believe the lack of communication comes in because this is an international audience and there are language and life experience bariers that get in the way. I believe that investing the keystrokes to get past these barriers is worth the effort. Although making said effort hoping to change someone's viewpoint is a waste of time. _____________________
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Treasure Ballinger
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11-02-2009 12:12
Maybe when you feel compelled to refer to someone as a "twat?" Yeah; once that came into my head, I doubt I'd let it come off my fingers, and would no doubt disengage at that time. |
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Briana Dawson
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11-02-2009 12:17
I think this thread should be safe, considering there are 'people' who have me on ignore! Well, one person. Well, one twat. Anyways........ Maybe when you feel compelled to refer to someone as a "twat?" This. _____________________
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Desmond Shang
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11-02-2009 12:19
To claim to be able to diagnose mental illness by reading internet postings is just nonsense and no mental health professional would ever make such a claim. Which is why I never claimed to be a mental health professional! grin Crazy or not crazy, you decide... http://www.h2one2.com/ http://www.abovetopsecret.com/ http://www.davidicke.com/index.php/ http://www.prisonplanet.com/ Yah, I think sometimes you can make a pretty good diagnosis... either that, or they are faking it really good to make teh internets moneh... _____________________
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Katheryne Helendale
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11-02-2009 12:35
Sometimes it is not about engaging them, and you end up writing for the rest of the audience. There are people I know are never going to come around, but I will reply so that it is clear to everyone else that they are irrational. _____________________
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11-02-2009 12:38
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Melita Magic
On my own terms.
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11-02-2009 12:40
I think this thread should be safe, considering there are 'people' who have me on ignore! Well, one person. Well, one twat. Anyways........ So, in the interests of furthering debate, when should it be clear that one is dealing with what I think is technically known as a fruitloop, and it might be pointless to try to enter into any form of dialogue? Or should we press on regardless because, let's face it, mad people are funny, and if they have an appetite for argument is it far to deprive them? I'll kick off, shall I? It only becomes pointless when the men in white coats are actually at the ( basement ) door. Up to then, it is valid to refute the many and various bonkers claims put forward, always assuming we still give a shit. Not satisfied with the heaping upon the people in the other threads, you had to begin one just to talk about what's wrong with other people? People you've never met. This says a lot more about yourself than it does about anyone you are seeking to denigrate. |
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11-02-2009 12:49
Not satisfied with the heaping upon the people in the other threads, you had to begin one just to talk about what's wrong with other people? People you've never met. This says a lot more about yourself than it does about anyone you are seeking to denigrate. Bingo! I'll add to the soup constant whiners and chronic complainers. _____________________
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Veritable Quandry
Meddling kid.
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11-02-2009 12:55
When not to engage? I'm staying well clear of the whole Bloodlines thread. They're probably discussing childbot camping sexbed spampyres at this very moment. I also refuse to discuss Twilight or any suggestion that real vampires sparkle.
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Alvaro Zapatero
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11-02-2009 13:06
Not satisfied with the heaping upon the people in the other threads, you had to begin one just to talk about what's wrong with other people? People you've never met. It isn't necessary to meet to make a judgement regarding someone. You probably haven't "met" a majority of people you've interacted with in SL, yet I'm sure you have made judgements based upon the contact that you've had. Each environment provides some context to judge a person's intelligence and character. Each environment has its limitations. But the notion that you can't perceive character flaws or talk about them without actually having met the person involved is specious. _____________________
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Nika Talaj
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11-02-2009 13:07
I also refuse to discuss Twilight or any suggestion that real vampires sparkle. -pic- I don't know about whether *he* sparkles, but I think he could make other people sparkle! ummm...... oh yeah, the topic of this thread .... in my saner moments I remind myself that no one here has solicited Nika's terribly special perspective on anything, so all these threads can do just fine without my wise or playful or pretentious words. Probably, any thread that manages to get by without my comments is better for it! I don't really have any excuse for posting at all, except that it entertains me. ![]() |
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Melita Magic
On my own terms.
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11-02-2009 13:09
It isn't necessary to meet to make a judgement regarding someone. You probably haven't "met" a majority of people you've interacted with in SL, yet I'm sure you have made judgements based upon the contact that you've had. Each environment provides some context to judge a person's intelligence and character. Each environment has its limitations. But the notion that you can't perceive character flaws or talk about them without actually having met the person involved is specious. So I'm the one making specious accusations, by advising courtesy and self restraint? Interesting. |
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Pserendipity Daniels
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11-02-2009 13:20
As soon as it becomes boring.
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Whimsycallie Pegler
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11-02-2009 13:34
As soon as it becomes boring. Pep (for me; which is apparently not the same as for others.) I stop as posing soon as a thread becomes boring to Pep too. I mean what is a thread without Pep? ![]() |
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11-02-2009 13:36
I mean what is a thread without Pep? ![]() Better. _____________________
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Mickey Vandeverre
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11-02-2009 13:39
It isn't necessary to meet to make a judgement regarding someone. You probably haven't "met" a majority of people you've interacted with in SL, yet I'm sure you have made judgements based upon the contact that you've had. Each environment provides some context to judge a person's intelligence and character. Each environment has its limitations. But the notion that you can't perceive character flaws or talk about them without actually having met the person involved is specious. I don't think you can make judgments about a person from reading a few paragraphs they posted in forum. Do you? Seriously? I mean....if I had to make a judgment call on this..... Oh! Oh! Ignore me too Debra! I think you're crazy, ape, barmy, bats in the belfry, batty, berserk, bonkers, cracked, crazed, cuckoo, daft, delirious, demented, deranged, dingy, dippy, erratic, flaky, flipped, flipped out, freaked out, fruity, idiotic, insane, kooky, lunatic, mad, mad as a March hare, mad as a hatter, maniacal, mental, moonstruck, nuts, nutty, nutty as fruitcake, of unsound mind, out of one's mind, out of one's tree, out to lunch, potty, psycho, round the bend, schizo, screw loose, screwball, screwy, silly, touched, unbalanced, unglued, unhinged, unzipped, and wacky too! I might think you were a wee bit wacked. Maybe off your medication, today. |
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Brenda Connolly
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11-02-2009 13:48
I don't think you can make judgments about a person from reading a few paragraphs they posted in forum. Do you? Seriously? I mean....if I had to make a judgment call on this..... I might think you were a wee bit wacked. Maybe off your medication, today. Why not? People insist they can make judgements from reading a few lines in a profile. _____________________
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Whimsycallie Pegler
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11-02-2009 13:48
I don't think you can make judgments about a person from reading a few paragraphs they posted in forum. Do you? Seriously? Sure you can make judgements. They just may not be very accurate. Although in my experience my first impression (good or bad) often turns out to be correct. I personally choose not to go by it though and get to know people a little more. *shrugs* |
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Raudf Fox
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11-02-2009 13:49
When not to engage? I'm staying well clear of the whole Bloodlines thread. They're probably discussing childbot camping sexbed spampyres at this very moment. I also refuse to discuss Twilight or any suggestion that real vampires sparkle. Real vampires become a pile of ash in the sun... maybe sparkling piles of ash, but ash none the less. On the topic: I stop engaging and use the ignore feature when I find myself sinking to the level of a kindergartener having a "You doo-doo head!" moment. If I can't discuss it like an adult, then there's no point in typing it. _____________________
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Innula Zenovka
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11-02-2009 13:52
I don't think you can make judgments about a person from reading a few paragraphs they posted in forum. Do you? Seriously? |
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Mickey Vandeverre
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11-02-2009 13:54
Sure you can make judgements. They just may not be very accurate. Although in my experience my first impression (good or bad) often turns out to be correct. I personally choose not to go by it though and get to know people a little more. *shrugs* Well, yeah....we all make them. I should have said...."Should" we make them? |
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Phil Deakins
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11-02-2009 13:57
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