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I have Phorumaphlamiaphobia... am I alone?

Jerry Lebed
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11-12-2007 04:45
*peaks in*

*runs away*
Ann Launay
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11-12-2007 05:30
From: Rosie Castro
Never started a thread and only posted.... um... five times or six? I get so afraid of offending or being offensive... or posting in the wrong place. Oh god... I won't sleep now if I click submit thread.


I'm offended! :p
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Marty Starbrook
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11-12-2007 05:38
as for me ...ive got a bit of an itch behind my ear thats annoying me *lol*

but I always suprised that there isnt more people in the forum from the game.... *thinks* .. maybe this is it .... we are the ONLY actually players of SL...
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11-12-2007 05:51
From: Marty Starbrook
as for me ...ive got a bit of an itch behind my ear thats annoying me *lol*

but I always suprised that there isnt more people in the forum from the game.... *thinks* .. maybe this is it .... we are the ONLY actually players of SL...


Naw - we're the sl addicts that can't go in world at work, so scan the forums during lunchtime and breaks. ;)

Rosie, Jerry, Katherine et al - you post when you want to!
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Brian Beltway
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11-12-2007 05:57
From: Rosie Castro
OK... I have been a member since 09/06... I have lurked here for about 4 months. Never started a thread and only posted.... um... five times or six? I get so afraid of offending or being offensive... or posting in the wrong place. Oh god... I won't sleep now if I click submit thread.

Am I alone? Come out all you lurkers... join me in my fear :) I would make this a poll if I only knew how.

And all I can say is... well... I will go into hiding again if need be... I hear someone has some legendary panties I can hide under... maybe I just need a piece of pie...

Ok... eek... submit


There are legions of people out there just waiting to be offended for no real reason.
Don't dissapoint them i say:)
Brenda Connolly
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11-12-2007 06:00
Welcome to the Forum. Don't be afraid. Just jump in, what's the worst that can happen? Most here are good eggs, even when we get a little rowdy, it's usually not personal, the bitterest adversaries here usually make nice in world. And if someone here truly does get pissy, just ignore them. Have fun.
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JessyAnne Theas
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11-12-2007 06:14
From: Rosie Castro
OK... I have been a member since 09/06... I have lurked here for about 4 months. Never started a thread and only posted.... um... five times or six? I get so afraid of offending or being offensive... or posting in the wrong place. Oh god... I won't sleep now if I click submit thread.

Am I alone? Come out all you lurkers... join me in my fear :) I would make this a poll if I only knew how.

And all I can say is... well... I will go into hiding again if need be... I hear someone has some legendary panties I can hide under... maybe I just need a piece of pie...

Ok... eek... submit


/squeals

Rosie! Welcome :)
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Cin Coage
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11-12-2007 06:20
/me waves and looks around nervously......Im one of the lurkers!!! So no you are not alone Rosie! :o
Sally Silvera
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11-12-2007 06:34
Happy delurk-day Cin :)
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Michael Bigwig
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11-12-2007 06:36
Interesting. Obviously you are not alone. Hey, there's noting wrong with reading and enjoying. I'm curious, does this phobia translate into RL conversations--when there are groups of people talking, do you ever chime in? Just curious...thanks.

:)
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Chas Connolly
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11-12-2007 06:44
Rosie, it looks like your post has brought more non-posters to the forum. Well done!:)
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11-12-2007 07:13
What a great thread! To all those who are now chiming in for the first time, welcome, welcome, welcome. :)

I don't think any of you need to feel you're alone. I'd bet the vast majority of people who read these forums never post anything at all. If I had to throw out a guess at numbers, I'd say probably 4 out of every 5 people probably remain completely silent. That's just based on the "80/20 rule" which says that in any grouping of people, 80% of the work (or in this case the posts) will always be done by 20% of the people. And even within the 20%, the 80/20 rule still holds true, meaning that of the people who post anything at all, probably only one out of five actually post on a regular basis. Carry the rule a few generations deep, and you come up with a figure of somewhere around 50% of all posts having been written by less than 1% of the total user base.

According to the stats on the bottom of the front page, there are about 847,000 total users on this forum. If my guesstimated numbers are anywhere near accurate, that means that if you're somone who posts either rarely or never, there are likely around 839,000 people on here just like you. Nope, you're not alone. :)
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Lindal Kidd
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11-12-2007 07:31
no, I just shoot off my mouth and damn the consequences. But sometimes I'm sorry afterwards. :)

What I have is Forum Addiction. I love this place, and these people, almost as much as SL itself. The forum regulars are my SL "family", and SL would be a much poorer place without this gang of crazies.

*hugs everybody*
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Alyx Sands
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11-12-2007 07:49
From: Rosie Castro
Ok... blondes are cool by me. I am a red head. We are closely related by one tone. :)

Heh, I'm a redhead, too!
Welcome to all you lurking people- I don't bite, I only..take notes... :D
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Sally Silvera
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11-12-2007 07:54
From: Alyx Sands
Heh, I'm a redhead, too!
Welcome to all you lurking people- I don't bite, I only..take notes... :D


What kept you so long? This has got to be a new word for dissection surely :D
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Steve Mahfouz
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11-12-2007 07:56
I have a related condition: Avoidus Argumentus Syndrome. I don't come here to debate and argue and fight, no way. I come here to LEARN, primarily, and maybe have a bit of fun. I'll let the others fight/debate/argue/squabble/etc.
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Nika Talaj
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11-12-2007 08:04
How fabulous is this! Welcome lurkers! Is there a way to convince you to show up at the hangout and dance and chat? That would be COOL!! And it's an easier place to ask questions if the forum is too public ... I've never seen anyone be rude there. It is an enchanted zone that way :)

In fact, it would be majorly cool to see Mr. Bigwig there, I've never seen an HAV dance!
JessyAnne Theas
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11-12-2007 08:05
From: Steve Mahfouz
I have a related condition: Avoidus Argumentus Syndrome. I don't come here to debate and argue and fight, no way. I come here to LEARN, primarily, and maybe have a bit of fun. I'll let the others fight/debate/argue/squabble/etc.


But I bet you're cute when you're all huffy and fight ready :)
Steve Mahfouz
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11-12-2007 08:08
From: JessyAnne Theas
But I bet you're cute when you're all huffy and fight ready :)


I have a ruddy face, so if a reddened face and quickened pulse are cute, then I am :)
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JessyAnne Theas
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11-12-2007 08:10
From: Steve Mahfouz
I have a ruddy face, so if a reddened face and quickened pulse are cute, then I am :)


Red face... quickened pulse...

That could be many things other than anger Steve
Rosie Castro
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Join date: 12 Oct 2006
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11-12-2007 08:11
wow... ty to all for being to kind to my very first thread... if my shyness continues... my last :) I seem to be getting over this affliction thanks to Sally's meds...

Michael... this affliction does affect me in RL. I am that person over in the corner sipping my coffee quietly. You can see my eyes watching. While you may not see my ears, they are wide open. Usually an observer in social situations.

...and I just wanna say hey JessyAnne! Fun meeting you yesterday! We had a good laugh over that text spam... did you ever get the end of the story?
Chris Norse
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11-12-2007 08:13
From: Rosie Castro


Michael... this affliction does affect me in RL. I am that person over in the corner sipping my coffee quietly. You can see my eyes watching. While you may not see my ears, they are wide open. Usually an observer in social situations.



Many of us are this way in RL, I am very quiet and shy. But in SL it seems to be a little easier to open up.
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11-12-2007 08:14
welcome in. :D
JessyAnne Theas
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11-12-2007 08:14
From: Chris Norse
Many of us are this way in RL, I am very quiet and shy. But in SL it seems to be a little easier to open up.


I'm exactly the same way :)

And you too Rosie !
Sally Silvera
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11-12-2007 08:18
From: Rosie Castro
wow... ty to all for being to kind to my very first thread... if my shyness continues... my last :) I seem to be getting over this affliction thanks to Sally's meds...


I'm feeling all warm and fuzzy now :D

Glad you brought some other lurkers out of hiding as well!

Seriously .... stick around! It's mostly harmless around here :)
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