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Lance LeFay
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01-24-2005 12:36
From: Sensual Casanova
so who are you to judge them?

..human?
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01-24-2005 12:38
From: Sensual Casanova
Seems like it was an A and B conversation and you should C your way out of it... Apparently they weren't disccusing these issues with you, so who are you to judge them?


I don't think Vade was overtly judging these two individuals, but upon re-reading Vade's original post, I see where Sensual is coming from. I guess I had assumed that Vade was more of an active participant in the discussion.
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Alby Yellowknife
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01-24-2005 12:38
Thats it.. Time to call up the Gangbangers..

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01-24-2005 12:40
From: Paolo Portocarrero
I don't think Vade was overtly judging these two individuals, but upon re-reading Vade's original post, I see where Sensual is coming from. I guess I had assumed that Vade was more of an active participant in the discussion.


From my understanding he was roaming around and saw people talking and then decided to ease drop on the rest of thier conversation and sat back and judged them how he saw fit...
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01-24-2005 14:01
Goddamn Alby,

Where do you get the time to find such hilarious photos? I'm loving 'em.

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Lance LeFay
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01-24-2005 14:07
Oh, no, Wall/Alby arn't the same :rolleyes:
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01-24-2005 14:20
From: Lance LeFay
Oh, no, Wall/Alby arn't the same :rolleyes:


Heh - Well one or both of them just broke this commandment:

Do not take the name of God your Lord in vain.
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Vade Blair
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01-24-2005 14:23
From: Sensual Casanova
Seems like it was an A and B conversation and you should C your way out of it... Apparently they weren't disccusing these issues with you, so who are you to judge them?


Why not keep your trap shut unless you know? You must be tired from jumping to such conclusions, yes I was involved. It may not have been clear, but that does not give you the right to say anything.
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Alby Yellowknife
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01-24-2005 14:26
From: Wall Street
Goddamn Alby,

Where do you get the time to find such hilarious photos? I'm loving 'em.

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HEhehehe. Tricks of the Trade my Breathen, tricks of the trade.. :)
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01-24-2005 14:32
From: Cristiano Midnight
Vade,

It was the protestant who crossed the line in the first place by making unwelcome statements about needing to save someone. That is forcing your religious beliefs upon someone else, which is not tolerance. Additionally, the religious justification for the continued oppression of gay people is sickening, and makes me ashamed as a Catholic and a hetereosexual male. Tolerance would be to let the gay person live his or her life without interference from some "well intentioned" Christian who just wants to save them from their poor sinful selves :rolleyes: . Try looking in the mirror and saving thyself - we are only responsible for ourselves.

What would you have the gay person do? Sit there and let the person tell them all that is wrong with who they are? Ok, in that case I should have let the person who called me a nigger, spic and a monkey just go on by and not push back against that out of tolerance, since it was obviously his belief that non-white people are trash, and I need to respect that eh? I am sure the argument will be "but race is different". It's not - gay people are born that way, and no amount of bigotry in the name of religion is ever going to change that.


Pardon my quoting the entire thread Cris, this late in the thread...

This is not really how it went, Mr. Christain was just sharing his beliefs saying jesus died for our sins, some example of what his belief structure saw sins as, and that was pretty much it. Also, he only stated this after the homosexual player asked him why he did not agree with homosexuality. To be honest, I kind of felt bad for the protastant, and I am sorry I categorize protastants as christians if that is wrong. He was being scolded for his beliefs, and was basically being told that his beliefs are wrong - there is no god - etc etc. I mean, it is one thing to disagree, or not believe... it is another to put someone down for thier beliefs. I was just so shocked, I did not know how to feel. I know homosexuals have it bad, not from expierience, but I try to imagine myself in other's shoes... they can not overtly join the military... Marrige is iffy across the US, so many hardships, and yes... acceptance in religion is one of them. I however do not think that means because the religion as a whole slams his beliefs, that he can bash a follower of the religion. I felt so bad, shocked...
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Jeska Linden
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01-24-2005 14:34
This thread started in regards to an event which apparently happened in SL, but every reply has not been related to SL, as such I'm moving this over to Off-Topic where you can all continue the conversation.
Lance LeFay
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01-24-2005 14:46
From: Vade Blair
Pardon my quoting the entire thread Cris, this late in the thread...

This is not really how it went, Mr. Christain was just sharing his beliefs saying jesus died for our sins, some example of what his belief structure saw sins as, and that was pretty much it. Also, he only stated this after the homosexual player asked him why he did not agree with homosexuality. To be honest, I kind of felt bad for the protastant, and I am sorry I categorize protastants as christians if that is wrong. He was being scolded for his beliefs, and was basically being told that his beliefs are wrong - there is no god - etc etc. I mean, it is one thing to disagree, or not believe... it is another to put someone down for thier beliefs. I was just so shocked, I did not know how to feel. I know homosexuals have it bad, not from expierience, but I try to imagine myself in other's shoes... they can not overtly join the military... Marrige is iffy across the US, so many hardships, and yes... acceptance in religion is one of them. I however do not think that means because the religion as a whole slams his beliefs, that he can bash a follower of the religion. I felt so bad, shocked...

Okay, this is DEFINATELY not how you phrased the first post :rolleyes:
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Vade Blair
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01-24-2005 14:57
Read it again
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01-24-2005 15:01
Yes, your update kind of changes things a bit. Let me ask this, though: How did they get on the topic of homosexuality in the first place? What led the homosexual to ask about, "why he did not agree with homosexuality?" And, what was your level of involvement in the discussion? Were you trying to mediate between them, or what was your part in the conversation? I am not trying to be nosy, but I just want to be clear on what happened to avoid confusion.

As I said before, though, I am just as appalled by the venomous attacks by gays on Christianity as I am with the converse. I certainly acknowledge the source of that rhetoric, but it does nothing to bring about mutual respect and/or understanding.
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Vade Blair
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01-24-2005 15:13
I have no idea how homosexuality even got brought up, I flew by, said hi, then I held a nice conversation with them(hi, then later I stated that I was sorry if I interrupted anything, etc) and then they started arguing again. I kind of got placed in it by them, and I don't know if either of them was looking for support from me, but I didn't know what to say really. All I know, is when I was placed into the conversation it seemed as though the homosexual was beating up on the christain. I am not judging anything about them, if I were, I would have stong views tword one side, quite possibly involve names, whatever. I guess I came to a thought on tolarence based on this situation, It was an uncomfortable conversation to be placed in.
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01-24-2005 15:16
Jeska, stop jerking us around! This thread had everything to do with SL, as "tolerance" is part of the Community Standards. You dumped my satire about the SL forums to Off-Topic too.

Why bother coming up with a reason? You should just say "I don't like this thread anymore."
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01-24-2005 15:20
:: off topic :: I agree Ananda
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01-24-2005 15:20
Let me just say this, Vade. I am sincerely sorry that you had to endure this kind of exchange. Thank you for caring enough to try to make sense of the whole thing. You witnessed a very realistic vignette of what it can be like when gays and Christians clash. There appears to be some prior history that none of us are aware of, and that makes it all the more difficult to assess.

(BTW, protestants and Catholics are both considered to be "Christians." However, the media generally refers to Catholics as "Catholics" and protestants as "Christians.";)
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01-24-2005 15:22
From: Lance LeFay
Okay, this is DEFINATELY not how you phrased the first post :rolleyes:


Yeah, second or thirding that.
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01-24-2005 15:25
From: Vade Blair
Why not keep your trap shut unless you know? You must be tired from jumping to such conclusions, yes I was involved. It may not have been clear, but that does not give you the right to say anything.


LMAO you clearly said you werent invilved in this conversation, and what the hell gives you the right to judge other people? Give me a break!
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01-24-2005 15:28
Well, I do care, and it will most likely bother me for some time. I will probably never fully understand until either A) I become a homosexual (and not to be rude, but I do not see that ever happening) or B) I become a christain (I do not see that either, too many contradictions in my eyes) and I will never fully understand your situation Paolo... Although I may never fully understand any of this, I do want to understand enough so that I do not offend anyone. I am not afraid to speak my views, but offending someone without reason is something I do not want to do. I mean, I felt bad for the christain... so should I have said something? Would the homosexual person think I am against him? It is tough.

In reply to the media, Catholics, and Christains... Isnt Catholosizm (spelling) and Christianity based off the same exact book? I guess that is one of the reasons I can not follow any spin off religion from the "Holy Bible" because of the major division and the so many different beliefs and teachings from the same book. I guess there are just some things I will never understand :o
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01-24-2005 15:29
From: Sensual Casanova
LMAO you clearly said you werent invilved in this conversation, and what the hell gives you the right to judge other people? Give me a break!


Point out exactly where I said I WAS NOT IN THE CONVERSATION. Until then, shut your trap.
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01-24-2005 15:36
From: Vade Blair
Point out exactly where I said I WAS NOT IN THE CONVERSATION. Until then, shut your trap.

From: someone
I was on for a little while earlier, so I decided to do some exploring. I overheard a conversation between a homosexual (presumed) male and a protastant (presumed as well) male.


I think this says it clear as day. So take your own advice and shut your trap... Stop changing your story to make yourself look better.
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01-24-2005 15:39
From: Vade Blair
Well, I do care, and it will most likely bother me for some time. I will probably never fully understand until either A) I become a homosexual (and not to be rude, but I do not see that ever happening) or B) I become a christain (I do not see that either, too many contradictions in my eyes) and I will never fully understand your situation Paolo... Although I may never fully understand any of this, I do want to understand enough so that I do not offend anyone. I am not afraid to speak my views, but offending someone without reason is something I do not want to do. I mean, I felt bad for the christain... so should I have said something? Would the homosexual person think I am against him? It is tough.

In reply to the media, Catholics, and Christains... Isnt Catholosizm (spelling) and Christianity based off the same exact book? I guess that is one of the reasons I can not follow any spin off religion from the "Holy Bible" because of the major division and the so many different beliefs and teachings from the same book. I guess there are just some things I will never understand :o


No offense taken ;). That's one of the more bizarre fears of many Christians: That gays are out to convert straights. Yeah, MBLA maybe, but they are a fringe group of the gay community just like the neo-cons are a fringe group of Christianity.

And yes, Catholicism and Christianity are largely based on the same set of texts (the protestant Bible consists of 66 books written by numerous authors spanning several millennia). The Catholic canon also includes the Apocrypha, including the book of Maccabees -- the book that cites the origins of the Jewish celebration of Hanukkah. You'd have to do a major study of Western Civilization to fully grasp the past divisions between the two, but in modern times, Catholics and protestants largely stand together (exceptions such as N. Ireland notwithstanding).
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01-24-2005 15:40
The funny thing about tolerance is:

If you're not tolerant of someone who doesn't tolerate others, then you yourself -- in a way -- are intolerant.

That's what I was told for being a snob against snobs. Or as similarly shown in SL, the "Anti-Clique Clique".

Ahhh how I embrace contradictions. :)

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