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Sensual Casanova
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Join date: 28 Feb 2004
Posts: 4,807
05-09-2006 10:04
So lastnight, I was in world working on my Linden bear collection and enjoying myself with old time friends, collecting resident bears... and this guy IM's me and starts talking to me, "hey how you been?" you know the usual? SO I replied, " I am doing good, you?" you know the usual...
About 5 minutes into the conversation he asks me if I am seeing anyone, I said do you mean in SL or RL?, he said both.. I said well I am married... he then starts accusing me of lying and saying there is no partner in my profile etc etc... I was like ummm... I AM MARRIED IRL, HAPPILY, for 11 years now! He is still confused on how I can be married and I have no partner in my profile... I am like, dude, my husband doesn't play SL!
Anyways... this isn't the first time this has happened to me, do people forget that life exists outside of SL? I think we need to be able to type what we want in that partner tab, or have a "NOT INTERESTED" option...
Has this happen to anyone before? I am laughing at the conversation I had with this guy now... but last night it was very annoying :eek:
Pol Tabla
synthpop saint
Join date: 18 Dec 2003
Posts: 1,041
05-09-2006 10:07
Sorry. My bad.
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Billy Grace
Land Market Facilitator
Join date: 8 Mar 2004
Posts: 2,307
05-09-2006 10:07
What's this "RL" thing that you speek of? *me confused*

This guy looks like quite a catch Sensual, you should go for it while he is still available... lafs :eek: :o :eek:
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Schwanson Schlegel
SL's Tokin' Villain
Join date: 15 Nov 2003
Posts: 2,721
05-09-2006 10:11
So Sensual, are you busy tonight?

A/S/L ?
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Sensual Casanova
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Join date: 28 Feb 2004
Posts: 4,807
05-09-2006 10:15
lol...
you know the sad thing is, this guy is very popular in the Sl community and I had respect for him, now he just seems like an ignorant desperate man... :( It is really disturbing me...

tip for all you men out there: I have nothing against SL relationships, I was in one before... but for the Love of God use some common sense... and for future references, I am not looking for a SL man, maybe a sub or slave, but I can't handle a man I can't boss around, not in SL and not Irl, LOL :D
nimrod Yaffle
Cavemen are people too...
Join date: 15 Nov 2004
Posts: 3,146
05-09-2006 10:21
Hello, my name is Linda. I am an 83 year old athletic woman and would like to meet you. I have enclosed my picture for your needs. Please IM me!

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Sensual Casanova
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Join date: 28 Feb 2004
Posts: 4,807
05-09-2006 10:24
From: nimrod Yaffle
Hello, my name is Linda. I am an 83 year old athletic woman and would like to meet you. I have enclosed my picture for your needs. Please IM me!



EWWWWWWWWWWWW! :eek:
Cocoanut Cookie
Registered User
Join date: 26 Jan 2006
Posts: 1,741
05-09-2006 10:24
This is why I put "married irl" on my profile.

CC
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Pol Tabla
synthpop saint
Join date: 18 Dec 2003
Posts: 1,041
05-09-2006 10:25
From: Cocoanut Cookie
This is why I put "married irl" on my profile.
That's hot. Wanna cyber?
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Marcus Moreau
frand
Join date: 25 Dec 2004
Posts: 602
05-09-2006 10:26
I get hit on by MAD chicks all the time in world wanting to be my partner, both SL and RL, and have to beat them off with a stick.

</greatest.lie.evar.>

MM

PS: If anyone is offended by my use of the word "chicks", you're probably a chick.
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Disenfranchised island owner...

"This statement is false."
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Mad Wombat
Six Stringz Owner
Join date: 21 Jan 2006
Posts: 373
05-09-2006 10:27
DUDE, I'm having my dinner right know... O_O ZOMG
Katiahnya Muromachi
Ninja Mistress
Join date: 25 Jun 2005
Posts: 130
05-09-2006 10:28
That's a pretty funny story Sensual, but only because I myself have had to deal with similar situations in the past in dealing with guys who are a few fries short of a Happy Meal.

The 2nd and last line in my SL Profile is- "No, I'm not looking for a relationship."
Does that seem to stop people? Oh, no.. now I'm just playing "hard to get".. :rolleyes:
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Cheyenne Marquez
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Join date: 19 Sep 2005
Posts: 940
05-09-2006 10:28
I'm surprised that your surprised.

I haven't even been around that long and even I know to expect the worst when in conversation with guys.

Many of them are quite unstable. Proceed with caution. :)
Pol Tabla
synthpop saint
Join date: 18 Dec 2003
Posts: 1,041
05-09-2006 10:29
From: Katiahnya Muromachi
The 2nd and last line in my SL Profile is- "No, I'm not looking for a relationship."
That's hot. Wanna cyber?
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Vares Solvang
It's all Relative
Join date: 26 Jan 2005
Posts: 2,235
05-09-2006 10:29
From: Sensual Casanova
lol...
...he just seems like an ignorant desperate man... :( It is really disturbing me...



Uhm, not to put too fine a point on this but....are there any other kind? :)
Sensual Casanova
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Join date: 28 Feb 2004
Posts: 4,807
05-09-2006 10:29
From: Cocoanut Cookie
This is why I put "married irl" on my profile.

CC


Sorry coco, was that an Opinion: or a Fact: ?

Jk!
And that wouldn't help much, just cus you are married irl doesnt mean you aren't interested in SL, and if I put "Not Interested" in my profile just anywhere, it can come across wrong.. *confusing myself*
Starax Statosky
Unregistered User
Join date: 23 Dec 2003
Posts: 1,099
05-09-2006 10:32
From: Cheyenne Marquez


Many of them are quite unstable. Proceed with caution. :)


Who me?

Cheyenne Marquez
Registered User
Join date: 19 Sep 2005
Posts: 940
05-09-2006 10:36
From: Starax Statosky
Who me?



Ya...see the look on your face in that picture?

When I see that I look I start taking a few steps backward.
Sensual Casanova
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Join date: 28 Feb 2004
Posts: 4,807
05-09-2006 10:37
From: Cheyenne Marquez
Ya...see the look on your face in that picture?

When I see that I look I start taking a few steps backward.

lmfao
Jake Reitveld
Emperor of Second Life
Join date: 9 Mar 2005
Posts: 2,690
05-09-2006 10:39
Of cours ethe flip side always amuses me, too. I have had people go ballistic on me when they tell the they are married IRL and I say, weill thank you , but I am not interested in playing SL relationship with a married woman. Friends I can do, but not more.
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Lebeda 208,209
Luciftias Neurocam
Ecosystem Design
Join date: 13 Oct 2005
Posts: 742
05-09-2006 10:42
2 things help me duck the sex stalkers:

1) I am a loner who only talks to people on a need-to basis in SL.

2) My avatar is gangly and has no face.

on edit:

3) I am a complete jerk.
Rose Karuna
Lizard Doctor
Join date: 5 Jun 2004
Posts: 3,772
05-09-2006 10:44
LOL - I have it in my profile, my RL husband is in SL, listed as my SL husband, and I'm old enough to be a grandmother, a fact that I don't hide. Seems to make little difference.

Some guy landed on our property and hit on me right in front of hubby. Schwans sheep really came in handy, my husband dropped one in his inventory and wisked him away. WOOSH!! :D

I had considered asking them if they would like a RL nude pic of me and then giving them one of that nude guy with the beard at the computer. :D :D Just to make them think a bit about who they could be cybering with...

Like they might care, maybe?

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Eponine Basiat
Deer in the Headlights
Join date: 27 Apr 2006
Posts: 121
05-09-2006 10:53
What is a Linden bear?
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Sensual Casanova
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Join date: 28 Feb 2004
Posts: 4,807
05-09-2006 10:54
From: Eponine Basiat
What is a Linden bear?

Take a look at this thread /108/83/105139/1.html
Chip Midnight
ate my baby!
Join date: 1 May 2003
Posts: 10,231
05-09-2006 11:09
From: Sensual Casanova
tip for all you men out there: I have nothing against SL relationships, I was in one before... but for the Love of God use some common sense... and for future references, I am not looking for a SL man


And here's another tip for the men: Before you start laying on the cheesy pickup lines, look at the damn first life profile. Just because I may be wearing a hot looking female avatar, that doesn't negate the fact that I'm a heterosexual male who has no interest in getting it on with you, m'kay?!
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