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Lack of common sense

Cole Riel
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Join date: 3 May 2006
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06-13-2006 08:29
Unlike the Teen SL this one is supposedly for mature adults. Adults with some sort of common sense. But, this isn't always the case here in sl.

For example; Yesterday, I'm with a lady friend on a secluded completely empty very romantic small island. We were laying down on a blanket side by side, fully dressed but using a sex pose ball. It had us kissing as I massaged her. We were engaged in foreplay chat.

No one around so we were chatting in general chat out loud. I had just said something when I see someone appear on my map and radar. Soon as this person came in, my friend and I switched to talking in IM to keep it private between us.

But this person, a female, walks directly to where we were. She definitely had time to see what we had been saying and now was seeing us and what we were doing.
Still, she came up beside us and sent me a message. Had the message been about her joining us I wouldn't of minded but she's now engaging me in a stupid conversation. Unbelievable.

This isn't the first time this has happened to me. Last time we were in a romantic park with about 3 couples, each in a different area and some guy went straight to each couple to ask questions about what we were doing.

I mean, don't these people know any better or have any kind of common sense? C'mon, you don't need to be a genius to know when not to disturb a couples privacy in places like these.
I know we can go to our homes or inside somewhere to do whatever, but places like this are for couples to go to and be together enjoying the scenery as well as each other.
DoctorEgon Spengler
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06-13-2006 08:52
There is no privacy in SL. There is no privacy in SL. There is no privacy in SL.
Elgyfu Wishbringer
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06-13-2006 09:37
And you are telling the forums that you got laid because........?
David Valentino
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06-13-2006 09:38
I like to watch.... ;)
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David Lamoreaux

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06-13-2006 10:43
At what paragraph did people stop reading?

This was it for me:

For example; Yesterday, I'm with a lady friend on a secluded completely empty very romantic small island. We were laying down on a blanket side by side, fully dressed but using a sex pose ball. It had us kissing as I massaged her. We were engaged in foreplay chat.
Schwanson Schlegel
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06-13-2006 10:45
I know you can't post a chat log, but can you paraphrase some 'foreplay chat' ?
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Phedre Aquitaine
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06-13-2006 10:49
From: Schwanson Schlegel
I know you can't post a chat log, but can you paraphrase some 'foreplay chat' ?


Both hands on the desk where we can see them...
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Pol Tabla
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06-13-2006 10:49
From: Luciftias Neurocam
At what paragraph did people stop reading?

"Had the message been about her joining us I wouldn't of minded but she's now engaging me in a stupid conversation. Unbelievable."
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DoctorEgon Spengler
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06-13-2006 10:50
From: Schwanson Schlegel
I know you can't post a chat log, but can you paraphrase some 'foreplay chat' ?


I slowly unbotton your shirt and caress your chest....
Ilianexsi Sojourner
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06-13-2006 10:55
Unfortunately, the problem isn't that these people don't know any better or lack common sense. The problem is that they do know better but don't care. Some people just get a kick out of bothering anyone they find in these situations, or just out of hanging around watching. About all you can really do is ask them politely to leave, and go somewhere else if that doesn't work.
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moo Money
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06-13-2006 10:59
From: Schwanson Schlegel
I know you can't post a chat log, but can you paraphrase some 'foreplay chat' ?

"I take off my wizard robe and hat..."
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Travis Lambert
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06-13-2006 10:59
From: Schwanson Schlegel
I know you can't post a chat log, but can you paraphrase some 'foreplay chat' ?
From: DoctorEgon Spengler
I slowly unbotton your shirt and caress your chest....


Boy, aren't flexi-prims great? ;)
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DoctorEgon Spengler
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06-13-2006 11:02
From: moo Money
"I take off my wizard robe and hat..."


I glance up and down at the pale glow of your body, and bask in your lanky boney frame....
Billy Grace
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06-13-2006 11:02
Is this an inappropriate place to have a discussion about cross-gender AV sex? :eek: :eek: :eek:
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Kerrigan Moore
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06-13-2006 11:07
From: DoctorEgon Spengler
I glance up and down at the pale glow of your body, and bask in your lanky boney frame....


I clutch my stomach. Man that chicken salad I had for lunch wasn't any good was it? I wonder if it was the mayonaise, or perhaps something wrong with the chicken itself. Ponderous.

I turn three shades of green, and rush to the restroom.





Are you h0t yetz?!!?
Ingrid Ingersoll
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06-13-2006 11:08
From: moo Money
"I take off my wizard robe and hat..."


"and stroke your floppy wand"
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DoctorEgon Spengler
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06-13-2006 11:12
From: Kerrigan Moore
I clutch my stomach. Man that chicken salad I had for lunch wasn't any good was it? I wonder if it was the mayonaise, or perhaps something wrong with the chicken itself. Ponderous.

I turn three shades of green, and rush to the restroom.





Are you h0t yetz?!!?


I lather myself in chick salad vomit....






so hot.
Desmond Shang
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Join date: 14 Mar 2005
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06-13-2006 11:14
The Emperor has no clothes, and there is NO sex in SL.

You are at a computer. Alone.



ZOMG, it's fake!



Though, having the little avies 'do it' is a lovely sentiment, I would say.

About on the level of a naughty snailmail letter, perhaps... but don't expect the Diary of Anais Nin from talking body parts!
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DoctorEgon Spengler
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06-13-2006 11:15
From: Ingrid Ingersoll
"and stroke your floppy wand"


watches as moo's wand erupts in a cloud of particles....

*lowers his particle count to 150*
Julia Banshee
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06-13-2006 11:15
From: Cole Riel
Adults with some sort of common sense.

Well, that excludes 90% of the population at large. Is there some reason to imagine the SL population fairs better than average at that?
Cole Riel
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06-13-2006 11:15
Guess you're right Ilianexsi.

From the looks of it, being a jerk, an idiot and not caring seems to be a way of life for some here. They don't know any better and if they do like you said, they just don't care. They aren't mature or smart enough to put it into play in their thoughless lives and try to ruin it for others cause they have nothing better to do. They most likely do the same thing in rl.

Btw, seems some of these intruders peers came here also. Not all, just a few. Judging by some of the comments, some of them probably go around doing the same thing.
moo Money
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06-13-2006 11:20
From: DoctorEgon Spengler
watches as moo's wand erupts in a cloud of particles....

*lowers his particle count to 150*

Damnit. Why are men always ruining the female orgasm? :mad:
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DoctorEgon Spengler
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06-13-2006 11:21
From: moo Money
Damnit. Why are men always ruining the female orgasm? :mad:


I'm sorry, it's the penis and the "me first" mentality.

*ups his particle count*
moo Money
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06-13-2006 11:22
From: DoctorEgon Spengler
I'm sorry, it's the penis and the "me first" mentality.

*ups his particle count*

It's too late. You've spoiled the moment. *rolls over and goes back to sleep* :(
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Crissaegrim Clutterbuck
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06-13-2006 11:23
From: DoctorEgon Spengler
I slowly unbotton your shirt and caress your chest....


Or -

"I slowly unbutton your chest and caress your shirt...."

It is Second Life, after all. And in spite of what some people apparently believe, doing this in SL is pretty much the same dynamic as doing it on the front hood of your VW beetle on Lexington Avenue at 2 pm - whether you're on a virtual desert island or not.

If that's what you like, go for it. If you don't want a crowd standing around making comments, find another venue. In a situation like the one described by the OP, no one possessed common sense.

And that's just common sense.
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