when you are having sex in SL, do you ever fake orgasm?

I'm going to fake it tonight. Then get an early night. And get into bed in PJ's (or jim-jams), bed socks and a hot chocolate (it's winter where I am)
Who am I kidding?

You'll sleep better if you don't fake it.

I'm not derailing when I say that Xcite commentary is stupid, am I? If you're with someone special, you should put some extra effort into being intimate with them. SL Intimate...whatever. Just clicking on a menu shows a lack of interest in the moment. I'm totally in agreement with Lindal on this one - put some effort out, use your imagination!

Really, I never use that xcite thing. I was only teasing. When someone makes love to me in sl (as in real) I love them back. I won't fake anything as important as sex in real or in sl - it is an ultimate connection. And my lover is so witty and sexy that my pleasure is not only intense but prolonged.

I tend to crack jokes right at the "moment"

I'm so evil, I even derail orgasms.

While I was still fairly new to SL, my SL guy got me some talking parts (not Xcite) where you could replace the scripted text with your own.

A while after we got them, I replaced half of my text with bad one-liners. And other miscellaneous irrelevancies.

For example, if he touched my ass, it might say: "Sorry, I've gone to take the dog for a walk."

SURPRISE!! *grin*

I'm not a big fan of talking parts....when a guy repeatably says "click on my di*k", it kinda ruins the moment. Also some of those poseball positions make it hard to even get my mouse pointer on the weiner, I usually end up laughing trying to click on it, reminds me of the hit the gopher game at Chuck E. Cheese.

Some of the poses are just hilarious on their own.

As far as excite goes, I use it more as a flirting tool then anything else. Some people like to be able to click on you and give you a shoulder rub or spank your ass. Its less embarassing to some then typing out an emote, and the whisper is more noticable so you know your being flirted with (as does everyone else in the room)

I can't breath. I'm dying here I can't stop laughing.

LOL

I remember that original xcite if you didn't keep clicking him there, his cock would go soft on you. Was pretty annoying.

Of course he wouldn't bother to help by also clicking... guess he was busy.

Pfft, you think trying to click on the penis is hard you should try the vagina in about 90% of the positions! Thank god for the hud!

So is mine Jiggy, so is mine.
You on later?

Like many others, I laid out a lot of cash for some expensive "bits". The gadget works great (I like it better than Xcite...only one attachment covers all the erogenous zones). But, again like many others, I hardly ever use it these days. Dinalya, SLex is just like the texting you're used to, but with animations thrown in. The animations can either provide a visual supplement to what you're texting, or they can provide a new direction for you to play text riffs on.

The best SLex I ever had was with a noob who didn't even have a freebie member, and us with no more than a simple cuddle pose between us. Good lord, that man could WRITE!

(The beds, by the way, are another matter. I'm still exploring the options on mine. This thing is FUN.)

As for classes, I haven't come across one in cyber exactly...but I did write an article on the subject that got tucked into Lucrezia's Newbie Kit. And Ayla Curry teaches a class in "Relationships" at GQ Start on Saturday afternoons. It's completely PG rated, but she does a great job of covering the essentials.

(And no, you didn't come off sounding stuffy at all. Just, from your first post I thought you were a newish person who'd never cybered and was shy about it. Then you revealed that you DID have experience, but just not in SL...so it was me that was being the showoff know-it-all. No worries, I have lots of experience in scrubbing the taste of my toes off my tongue.)

The faker guys are missing out even more!
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/3072021.stm

I think I got so used to just text (yahoo, private messages, or out in the open in a message board lol) that it just seems like you have to take the time to be more expressive that way. I have seen the Xcite bits and assumed they had limits on how many 'expressions' they might have. Variety is gooood lol



Thats just the best to me. If someone can write and make me feel it, or very close to what they are writing, just awesome. The visual of an avi misbehaving isnt as much of a turn on as a well written expression of it.



I could just imagine me clicking the wrong thing at the wrong time and messing up the entire situation with one of those beds! LOL



I may have to peek in on some of these, for either a good giggle or for more note taking! *grabs her pen and paper*



Now that sounds like a fetish that needs to be included on those beds I had just wanted to make sure I didnt come off as a cyber pro, no such thing me thinks. Maybe its how different it seems in SL, against how it was in a message board format or in IMs. You get to have that visual (not a rl visual, but darn close in a lot of ways). 'If' I ever got to that point in SL, I would gather its more intense because of the added layers here. Most people dont get that, how intense something can be online, but those that do and can write like the guy you mentioend before...oh swoon!

I'm sure you were picturing it in your head. I did the same thing while typing it...then had to think quick when my assistant came into my office asking me what was so funny.

Would you two ladies just get it on already! And post the video or chat log for the rest of us afterwards. Thanks!

You will want the chat/IM log, not the video. Text is key. Key I say.

Sometimes its not just about the "O"

I have a friend, an old friend (SL BDate 2004) who I have been in foreplay with for 8 months! Best IMs that I get!

8 months of foreplay!!! *passes out*

I was thinking maybe they could meet in RL as well

That's one hell of a build up...

Oh . . well . . um . . yes, also the video.

Who are you telling. I would just not be the same if he and I were to ever really do the deed.

Thats the words I was thinking of, build up. Build up is good! Click click click smoke is not! 8 months is a lot of build up, build up leads to wow even if it stays as just a ton of build up, that might just be me though lol