Are There Any Good Men In Second Life?

I'm up for scripting!

oh wait, slave? nvm

O come on!

You are young and in love this week... I will let you have it BUT I still think I have the best man...
DO NOT disagree with a Mom too often, right Trinnie?

*Trinnie keeps mouth shut and doesn't touch the subject matter with Nala's 10 foot... dragon tail*

Love you, mom!

Nala, don't argue with mom.

Btw, I'm a GIRL!

yes

Lets take a head count on how many good men are in Second Life. And lets match them up with some good women.

I think theres a dating service out there (not sure though).

There is a dating service. Look up the luv connection. That is how I met Madelyna and we have been going for 6 months so far. So I consider myself lucky in finding the right woman for me.

I have two heads you can count, so do I get two women?

hehe.. I was just about to point that out!

*bonks Nala upside the head*

David, don't be greedy... remember that some of us good women are also looking for good women...

Besides, you have all those sheep...

*stands up and applaudes wildly*

Love are you sure you can handle two women if I allow it?

Back off!! He's mine! My... Precious...

I can honestly say I've never read a 13 page post from front to back, thanks guys/gals! This is hilarious

I'm a good guy, but I have this undeniable need to be with this lady I'm seeing

Yay for undeniable needs being satisfied!

Careful what you ask for, David. See that commercial with Cedric the entertainer and two women on his deserted island? *shiver*

Since the thread is revisited I can now add my input:

April,

1) April I almost thought I found a good man for you until I discovered he was also a female friend of mine! Yes, he was in my life as a male and female and I didnt know. l I caught him when he got sloppy and began mixing them up. Now I am not sure if he is a guy pretending to be a female lesbian, or a female pretending to be a guy...and it seems he is not sure either!! So he is out of consideration because he/she is definitely NOT one of the good ones.

2) David is HOT DAMN SEXY but he is probably taken.. and taken...and taken.

3) Jake is a MAJOR CONTENDER...smart and rolling in dough too.

4) Panda is definitely ALL MAN! (incredibly sexy voice too)

5) I have a good man and you cant have him. (hi baby XXXXXX)

6) Sooooo...there are your choices...David, Jake & Panda...who will it be?

Ah! The fictional 'good man'! I love this myth!

To be honest, there are bad companions out there. I won't get into the problems of these poor and broken souls who destroy others through their relationships, as the list is a long one, and serves no real help in this case.

But the 'good mate'? The mythical perfect conuterpart that will work for anyone they attach to?

Never happened.

What you want is a companion that's good for YOU. Nothing wrong with this, but it makes it just about impossible for others to help out other than sending another random chance at you and seeing if 'this one takes'. Sad but true.

I've met lots of couples in my year, let me give a few examples.

I once met a couple that were so co-dependent on each other that it was frightening. Any normal person would have avoided it like the plague, seeing either of them as the potential stalker they were...
But they were perfect for each other. Really. They were HAPPY. Scary, but happy. I can only hope they die together somehow, because if one goes before the other... It would not be pretty.
In this case, they were both needy personalitys that were desperate for attention. This kind of person drives most people up the wall, but what if you're another 'needy person'?

Another couple I met were even stranger: They were a trio. Yup, the classic 2 girls and a guy. Funny thing is, I never saw the pecking order problem start up. They had a perfect fix for it. They each had an aspect of the household they ruled: I think (hard to remember) one did finances and budget, one maintained the house, and one held primary breadwinner job. Funny thing is, they all were a family, and got along like one. And yes, that meant the occasional fights. But god, let an outsider come in and make trouble... I wonder if they ever got the stains off the walls from that?..
To be honest, most people who say they don't mind sharing would never be able to handle the reality. In this case, they DID share everything. They were more like best friend's and roomies than lovers, which was great for them. I remember the guy being laid back quite a bit, and one of the girls being on a sugar-rush hyper-hyper high, but the memory fades. None of them seemed 'special' in any real way, but they clicked like pizzle pieces.

the point I'm trying to make is this: You don't need a perfect man, you need a person who's perfect for you. What would that be? You probably won't know yourself until you meet them. Life and love are both funny that way.

But I wish you good hunting!



...My... I did ramble a bit... Better get more caffeen in me...

My first post - just to say good luck.

I had one once, and through a stupid mistake I made the relationship ended - sometime last year.

I thought I was on the path again very recently but it seems I was yet again mistaken so..

I'm about to give up and bury myself in work lol.. so tired of being hurt and well, feeling not good enough lol

So anyway, really.. good luck to ALL the single ladies looking for a good man. If you find one and he has a good brother in game send him my way

Panda is a man? Oh, I thought he was a chick, sorry Panda.

Wow Panda...what did you do to piss her off!?!?

Wow, crazy!

I don't think I could ever do that.

I wonder if the girls do things like ... shopping together?

Were the girls interested in each other, or just the guy?

Some people have said that they can do this. They can control the basic jealousy that one might feel. Skeptics say they were abused when they were younger, which makes them feel devalued, supporters say they are open and giving people. I'm not sure what I think, I just know that I'd ... I'd never be able to do that. Not in a million years.

Honestly, they seemed to be a full trio. I don't know what happened to them, and was only a casual friend, so I can't say I knew any of thier mindframes fully. I was just mentioning them because their little group seemed to be outlasting most marrages around the same time.

And as to the skeptics, I can only say they always have a way to tear anything down. I'm not saying they're wrong, just that they're not always right.

Anyway, they seemed happy enough. That's all I can say from.

Then again, just because it worked for them does not it will work for someone else.....

I am going to make a sign and wear it above my head

*GOOD MAN REQUIRED - APPLY WITHIN*

Disclaimer:

Need not be insane, a nutjob, wacky, liar, cheat, demeneted or just plain stupid. Must enjoy boinging, fun and be able to withstand flirting to the maximum.