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Griefer Motivations

Lo Jacobs
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06-04-2005 12:56
From: Mojo Bliss
Griefer's motivated by ignorance.

eh?


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StoneSelf Karuna
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06-04-2005 13:02
From: Michi Lumin
I think it's a personality type. Some have it. Some don't.
maybe more a degree of personality type... and some people have more or less... and some people learn to inhibit more or less.
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Mojo Bliss
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06-04-2005 13:26
From: StoneSelf Karuna
have you ever disturbed an anthill just to see the ants scurry about?

I have it's great fun. Ants can be ignorant too.
Raudf Fox
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06-05-2005 21:00
From: Alexa Hope
I don't know why but I always automatically assume they are minors. I just can't imagine a rational adult behaving in that way. Unfortunately I think I'm wrong. Maybe they lacked attention as a child and crave it now? Whatever the reason, I would prefer them not to be here.

Alexa


Actually, many of them aren't minors of any sort. Immature, yes, but actual age, no. I've known 90 year olds that can't act mature.

Actually, I like being griefed on MMORPGS (I don't count SL as one, sorry.. that's like comparing a universe to a box... and the box WILL lose,) or at least the ones that allow "PKing" because there is nothing funnier than having an idiot taking a swipe at a higher level character or stealing their kills and then finding themselves dead from it, specially after being asked nicely to stop. That one always cracks me up!

But in SL, it's actually a much worse issue, because we can't just "KILL" the other person, and banning them is like trying to put water into a bucket full of holes. What we need is something that allows landowners to ban them from the IP point of view, even if the owner doesn't know the IP. I mean, it's sooo easy to just make alts, so IP banning will at least help slow 'em down a bit. Type the name, and you ban all the alts too.
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Torley Linden
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06-05-2005 21:05
Sometimes the damn funniest thing is to turn the tables on a greefer kin.

Once time, me and a couple of wise cyberpunk allies (I'll just use that term as a positive generalization) were standin' around, talkin' 'bout the future, and some lameav comes up spewing racist trash nonsense quite deliberately. The shorter-in-stature of the two (yet no shorter in spirit) pulls out a magical creation from his inventory, and gives it a good swing.

Greef-kin goes THWACK, KERPLONK -- KABIZZLE FO SHIZZLE and freezes in the middle of the air, his legs wriggling like a dead frog havin' volts of electricity shot up his backside, and his ass twitching around like a bear took a nice chunk out of it after it'd been honey dipped.

Now, the racism, that wasn't funny, and but the sheer absurdity of the situation made me laugh. It wasn't even "self-defense"... gosh, this was something else.

I've seen some other situations where some fool tried to repeatedly blow away others in a sandbox but the gun was poorly made and he ended knocking himself away and falling flat on his face. Yet he kept firing at others and cursing -- my gosh, don't be an embarassment, you ain't no Abbott, ain't no Costello, but you might as well be on Jackass!

It's funny how sitting on a block can frustrate the ingloriously destructive too.

Oh yes, abuse reports were filed.
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Susie Boffin
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06-05-2005 21:11
Many griefers have what is called personality disorders. In other words they are totally involved in their own self satisfaction without regard to others. There is no cure for this condition.

Go to the welcome area to see some in action. This is a great place to study them.
Nikolaii Uritsky
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06-05-2005 21:17
From: Susie Boffin
Many griefers have what is called personality disorders. In other words they are totally involved in their own self satisfaction without regard to others. There is no cure for this condition.


:\ Not really very funny. Or factual.

But I'll agree that a lot of griefers do have some pretty deep-seated issues.
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Susie Boffin
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06-05-2005 21:22
From: Nikolaii Uritsky
:\ Not really very funny. Or factual.

But I'll agree that a lot of griefers do have some pretty deep-seated issues.


It wasn't meant to be funny but it was meant to be factual.
Raudf Fox
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06-05-2005 21:35
From: Susie Boffin
Many griefers have what is called personality disorders. In other words they are totally involved in their own self satisfaction without regard to others. There is no cure for this condition.


And to think my Significant Other just said this as I was reading parts of the paper to 'em. But it is true. There are some that are just a bit psychotic and it plays out in RL too. They don't CARE about anyone but themselves and their own satisfaction. Now this is actually a slim majority, not all of them. I've spoken with several.. and walked away with chills.
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Nikolaii Uritsky
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06-06-2005 00:46
From: Susie Boffin
It wasn't meant to be funny but it was meant to be factual.


I don't want to be a pest, and I don't want to hijack the thread, but I just really dislike it when people say that any person with a personality disorder is a raging hedonistic asshole with no regard for anyone but themselves.. :) I, personally, have both Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder and Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (Yes, they're different!), and I'm no harm to anyone but myself. :D

I think what you're looking for is Antisocial Personality Disorder or Sadistic Personality Disorder, specifically. :)

Antisocial Personality Disorder is assumed from evidence of three or more of the following:

From: someone
# failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors as indicated by repeatedly performing acts that are grounds for arrest;

# deceitfulness, as indicated by repeated lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure;

# impulsivity or failure to plan ahead;

# irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assaults;

# reckless disregard for safety of self or others; .

# consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations;

# lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another.


Sadistic Personality Disorder is assumed from evidence of four or more of the following:

From: someone

# has used physical cruelty or violence for the purpose of establishing dominance in a relationship (not merely to achieve some noninterpersonal goal, such as striking someone in order to rob him or her);

# humiliates or demeans people in the presence of others;

# has treated or disciplined someone under his or her control unusually harshly, e.g., a child, student, prisoner, or patient;

# is amused by, or takes pleasure in, the psychological or physical suffering of others (including animals)[Furries? ._.;];

# has lied for the purpose of harming or inflicting pain on others (not merely to achieve some other goal);

# gets other people to do what her or she wants by frightening them (through intimidation or even terror);

# restricts the autonomy of people with whom he or she has a close relationship, e.g., will not let spouse leave the house unaccompanied or permit teen-age daughter to attend social functions;

# is fascinated by violence, weapons, martial arts, injury, or torture.


Now, maybe I'm just weird, but compared to that, indications of OCPD, such as "shows perfectionism that interferes with task completion (e.g., is unable to complete a project because his or her own overly strict standards are not met)" and "adopts a miserly spending style toward both self and others; money is viewed as something to be hoarded for future catastrophes" don't exactly strike fear into my heart. :D

Anyway. I'm not condescending you, I just wanted to clarify a little. :)

(Oh, and it -is- possible to "cure" personality disorders, but it's very tricky and there's always the chance of a relapse. To quote the Encyclopedia Britannica, "A personality disorder is a deeply ingrained, long-enduring, maladaptive, and inflexible pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaving that either significantly impairs an individual's social or occupational functioning or causes him subjective distress. Personality disorders are not illnesses but rather are pronounced accentuations or variations of personality in one or more of its traits." -- That is, it's not a chemical thing, it's just REALLY REALLY REALLY tenacious habits and traits that are SO unrestricted and persistent as to be detrimental. :))

On the flip side, there are a lot of griefers with no personality disorders at all! They're just assholes! :D
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Cocoanut Koala
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06-06-2005 09:37
<----loves Nikolaii's post

coco
Nikolaii Uritsky
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06-06-2005 12:06
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eltee Statosky
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06-10-2005 09:34
From: Nikolaii Uritsky
I don't want to be a pest, and I don't want to hijack the thread, but I just really dislike it when people say that any person with a personality disorder is a raging hedonistic asshole with no regard for anyone but themselves.. :)


logical fallacy...

just because someone says griefers are people who predominantly have persoanlity disorders does not mean that they are saying people who have personality disorders are griefers...

they know full well theres plenty who don't..

its like sayin all dogs are animals.. that doesn mean that all animals are dogs

it just means theres a certain small subset of them that quite possibly are
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Nikolaii Uritsky
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06-10-2005 13:01
From: eltee Statosky
logical fallacy...

just because someone says griefers are people who predominantly have persoanlity disorders does not mean that they are saying people who have personality disorders are griefers...

they know full well theres plenty who don't..

its like sayin all dogs are animals.. that doesn mean that all animals are dogs

it just means theres a certain small subset of them that quite possibly are


The original quote was:

From: Susie Boffin
Many griefers have what is called personality disorders. In other words they are totally involved in their own self satisfaction without regard to others.


That's what I was referring to. :) Maybe I'm just reading too far into syntax, but to use "In other words" there, it sounds like Susie was saying:

From: Susie Boffin
Many griefers have what is called personality disorders. And by "personality disorders", I mean they're total assholes, because that's the same thing in different words.


Even if she wasn't saying that, it sort of sounded like it, and I just wanted to make the point more clear so that other people wouldn't -think- that's what was being said.

Anyway, sorry about making a big deal about it, I just get a little touchy about that subject and I'm really anal about precision (And those things are related!). :)
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Susie Boffin
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06-10-2005 13:36
Please don't be offended by my statement. I am referring to griefers and not people with personality disorders.
Dianne Mechanique
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06-10-2005 13:59
From: Stinky Queso
I actually really enjoy being griefed. I think its hilarious that people go so much out of their way to do things like this, I always find it fun and entertaining to see what ideas people think up to disrupt events and things. To me, if you grief an event and make me laugh in the process, its all fair game. Though this second life thing isnt about comedy for everyone, I'm here to enjoy it!
I dont know Stinky, each of the three times I have seen you in world, you were:

a) rude for no reason
b) wrecked my build (hopefully unintentionaly)

or

c) both of the above.

A happy-go-lucky soul who is just out for enjoyment is that last thing I would have taken you for.
I would have reached for words like ... dour, or maybe ... morose.

:)

That being said, I do find some of the greifing stuff pretty funny as well, and have shed most of the incredibly thin skin I had when I arrived.

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Cindy Claveau
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06-10-2005 14:20
From: Nikolaii Uritsky
I don't want to be a pest, and I don't want to hijack the thread, but I just really dislike it when people say that any person with a personality disorder is a raging hedonistic asshole with no regard for anyone but themselves.. :) I, personally, have both Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder and Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (Yes, they're different!), and I'm no harm to anyone but myself. :D

I think what you're looking for is Antisocial Personality Disorder or Sadistic Personality Disorder, specifically.

Nikolaii makes a good point, but let's be clear here: from personal experience I can assure you that *some* (not all) of online griefers are, indeed, suffering from APD or worse. And Sociopaths suffer from a more highly intense form of APD. APDs may be a danger to themselves, mainly, but sociopaths are a danger to everyone.

Some of them are classical Sociopaths and our prisons are full of them. Their recidivism rate is extremely high -- ergo, if there is a cure, it's not a very consistent one. In most cases these criminals die uncured.

From: someone
People who cannot contain their urges to harm (or kill) people repeatedly for no apparent reason are assumed to suffer from some mental illness. However, they may be more cruel than crazy, they may be choosing not to control their urges, they know right from wrong, they know exactly what they're doing, and they are definitely NOT insane, at least according to the consensus of most scholars (Samenow 2004). In such cases, they usually fall into one of three types that are typically considered aggravating circumstances in addition to their legal guilt -- antisocial personality disorder (APD), sociopath, or psychopath -- none of which are the same as insanity or psychosis. APD is the most common type, afflicting about 4% of the general population. Sociopaths are the second most common type, with the American Psychiatric Association estimating that 3% of all males in our society are sociopaths. Psychopaths are rare, found in perhaps 1% of the population.


List of Antisocial Personality Disorder Traits

Sense of entitlement; Unremorseful; Apathetic to others; Unconscionable behavior; Blameful of others; Manipulative and conning; Affectively cold; Disparate understanding; Socially irresponsible; Disregardful of obligations; Nonconforming to norms; Irresponsible
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Nikolaii Uritsky
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06-10-2005 14:50
From: Susie Boffin
Please don't be offended by my statement. I am referring to griefers and not people with personality disorders.


Aah, I was a little offended at first, but I'm better now that I've gotten a chance to explain a little. :)

From: Cindy Claveau
Nikolaii makes a good point, but let's be clear here: from personal experience I can assure you that *some* (not all) of online griefers are, indeed, suffering from APD or worse. And Sociopaths suffer from a more highly intense form of APD. APDs may be a danger to themselves, mainly, but sociopaths are a danger to everyone.

Some of them are classical Sociopaths and our prisons are full of them. Their recidivism rate is extremely high -- ergo, if there is a cure, it's not a very consistent one. In most cases these criminals die uncured.


Thank you for bringing up Sociopaths and whatnot! I honestly don't know much about some of the more outwardly-destructive mental disorders. At this point, I've only done extensive research into Personality Disorders and a handful of other things that affect me directly. :)

Eventually I'm going to have to get my learn on, but I don't understand violence or sadism at all, so I've been avoiding reading more about such things. :\
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