Whenever someone personally criticizes me or my ideas, I do a couple of things.
I try to honestly look at how much truth there is to what they are saying. I will decide how I respond to them based upon that self assessment - and - I look at the way in which the critic(s) conducts themselve(s) and contrast that with their criticism of myself or others, if that is the case.
I try to honestly look at how much truth there is to what they are saying. I will decide how I respond to them based upon that self assessment - and - I look at the way in which the critic(s) conducts themselve(s) and contrast that with their criticism of myself or others, if that is the case.
You forgot the third thing. 3. You mute them.

However, assuming I am now unmuted, let me say that I agree with your comments about censorship. However much I dislike some of the things that have been said in these forums, preventing people from saying them seems to me to be completely wrong. I am a firm believer in self-censorship; it's a shame that it so rarely happens.