What does the teen grid matter now anyway?
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Einsman Schlegel
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06-27-2006 16:51
What does the teen grid matter now anyway?
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06-27-2006 16:51
Why not just say it plainly:
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The problem with age verification
06-27-2006 17:40
Recently Visa and Mastercard has decided that they do not want their cards used as "age verification" methods, as per their website and Merchant Rules document:
There is NO way they are going to be reliably be able to keep teens out of the adult grid or vice versa. _____________________
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Io Zeno
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06-27-2006 17:54
Recently Visa and Mastercard has decided that they do not want their cards used as "age verification" methods, as per their website and Merchant Rules document:
There is NO way they are going to be reliably be able to keep teens out of the adult grid or vice versa. I'm kind of tired of repeating this, so this is the last time I will say it. A CC# is an ID. An ID means that if you are an adult on the teen grid, SL knows who you are and can even notify authorities if you are stalking minors, and they can certainly make sure that you don't get back on the TG (unless you have unlimitted credit cards.) Same goes for kids on the adult grid. This is a simple matter of some, any kind of verifiable personal identification versus none at all, and unlimitted alts which make "banning" anyone a joke. _____________________
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06-27-2006 17:59
IF your premise is:
Credit cards aren't foolproof in indicating that the person using one is over 18 AND you point out that the credit card companies themselves say that credit cards aren't 100% foolproof in indicating the age of the user THEN what is a reasonable approach? a. Use credit cards since they are better than nothing, and likely quite a bit better than nothing. b. Use credit cards AND instill yet another level of verification. c. Don't use credit cards since they aren't foolproof. Have nothing at all. coco P.S. And what Io said. _____________________
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Einsman Schlegel
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06-27-2006 18:04
Hmm.. one sure fire way: Use your SSN.
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06-27-2006 18:10
IF your premise is: Credit cards aren't foolproof in indicating that the person using one is over 18 AND you point out that the credit card companies themselves say that credit cards aren't 100% foolproof in indicating the age of the user THEN what is a reasonable approach? a. Use credit cards since they are better than nothing, and likely quite a bit better than nothing. b. Use credit cards AND instill yet another level of verification. c. Don't use credit cards since they aren't foolproof. Have nothing at all. coco P.S. And what Io said. And do you know how easy it is for someone to walk into any store that sells "throwaway" credit cards to buy one, load it, and use it? Anyone who has cash can get one, no age check required. CC# is not a valid ID. Throwaway cards are easy to fraud with. The only "foolproof" way of age verification is social security number, but that would exclude the international market, and not to mention now the law won't allow you to ask for it because of identity theft. _____________________
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Cocoanut Cookie
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06-27-2006 18:32
And do you know how easy it is for someone to walk into any store that sells "throwaway" credit cards to buy one, load it, and use it? Anyone who has cash can get one, no age check required. CC# is not a valid ID. Throwaway cards are easy to fraud with. There only "foolproof" way of age verification is social security number, but that would exclude the international market, and not to mention now the law won't allow you to ask for it. I don't know how to make this concept any clearer. But I will try this analogy: I have a home, and I want to keep people I don't know from walking into it. Or taking things out of it. Or coming in and harming me or my family. I put a deadbolt locks on my doors. The windows have locks, too. I keep them locked. I keep the bushes around my house clear, and take all the other advice for making your house a poor target for buglary. When someone rings the bell and I don't know the person, I talk through the door - I don't open it to them. If I live on the first floor or on a fire escape in a large city, I bar those windows. (Which I have in fact done.) I lock the door when I leave the house. Now, is this foolproof against crime? Of course not. I was burgled even when conscientiously taking all the above steps. Does it mean I might as well not bother? Of course not. It would be irrational of me to stop bothering the lock the doors, or to look at people ringing the bell before letting them in, and so on and so forth - just because I know these steps aren't 100% foolproof in preventing the things I'm trying to prevent. That would be called, "throwing the baby out with the bathwater." The world is not a case of 0/1. Of yes/no. Of, "If not all, then none." Because I bother, my house isn't a particularly easy mark, and suffers less crime than other, easier houses. Moreover, it can never be said that I haven't taken reasonable steps to prevent being burglarized or worse. It might even be assumed that I have prevented a certain amount of crime from happening to myself, my family, and my property by taking those precautions. I know these precautions are not foolproof, and that I could still be burgled again someday (or worse), by a particularly intent and tenacious criminal. Most, though, will search for easier pickins. Reasonable precautions. That's all anyone can do. It is all the law expects people to do. Not to take reasonable precautions in certain situations is called criminal negligance, and prosecuted as such. And the above isn't even talking about the foolhardiness of inviting hundreds of thousands of strangers into a place of adult entertainment and not bothering to card them at the door. And it says nothing of allowing everyone in with no means of ever tracing who they were, should something bad happen to another resident. All I can think is that LL plans to get rid of the "over 18" designation of SL. Perhaps they intend to rely instead on M and PG designations of game areas, and on this notion that we, as parcel-holders, are "websites" on LL's "internet", and as such, LL would hope, any litigation would involve us, not them. coco _____________________
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06-27-2006 18:49
I'm kind of tired of repeating this, so this is the last time I will say it. A CC# is an ID. An ID means that if you are an adult on the teen grid, SL knows who you are and can even notify authorities if you are stalking minors, and they can certainly make sure that you don't get back on the TG (unless you have unlimitted credit cards.) Same goes for kids on the adult grid. This is a simple matter of some, any kind of verifiable personal identification versus none at all, and unlimitted alts which make "banning" anyone a joke. Io, they can only use that CC as ID in the first place if they CHARGE the card. Perhaps you didn't get it the first time. Visa/Mastercard will not allow merchants to use their cards as age verification any longer, which means you can't just "validate" a card any more unless you plan to place a charge on it. Therefore, in order to use a CC as a form of ID, they would have to get rid of the free accounts. _____________________
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06-27-2006 18:52
I don't know how to make this concept any clearer. But I will try this analogy: I have a home, and I want to keep people I don't know from walking into it. Or taking things out of it. Or coming in and harming me or my family. I put a deadbolt locks on my doors. The windows have locks, too. I keep them locked. I keep the bushes around my house clear, and take all the other advice for making your house a poor target for buglary. When someone rings the bell and I don't know the person, I talk through the door - I don't open it to them. If I live on the first floor or on a fire escape in a large city, I bar those windows. (Which I have in fact done.) I lock the door when I leave the house. Now, is this foolproof against crime? Of course not. I was burgled even when conscientiously taking all the above steps. Does it mean I might as well not bother? Of course not. It would be irrational of me to stop bothering the lock the doors, or to look at people ringing the bell before letting them in, and so on and so forth - just because I know these steps aren't 100% foolproof in preventing the things I'm trying to prevent. That would be called, "throwing the baby out with the bathwater." The world is not a case of 0/1. Of yes/no. Of, "If not all, then none." Because I bother, my house isn't a particularly easy mark, and suffers less crime than other, easier houses. Moreover, it can never be said that I haven't taken reasonable steps to prevent being burglarized or worse. It might even be assumed that I have prevented a certain amount of crime from happening to myself, my family, and my property by taking those precautions. I know these precautions are not foolproof, and that I could still be burgled again someday (or worse), by a particularly intent and tenacious criminal. Most, though, will search for easier pickins. Reasonable precautions. That's all anyone can do. It is all the law expects people to do. Not to take reasonable precautions in certain situations is called criminal negligance, and prosecuted as such. And the above isn't even talking about the foolhardiness of inviting hundreds of thousands of strangers into a place of adult entertainment and not bothering to card them at the door. And it says nothing of allowing everyone in with no means of ever tracing who they were, should something bad happen to another resident. All I can think is that LL plans to get rid of the "over 18" designation of SL. Perhaps they intend to rely instead on M and PG designations of game areas, and on this notion that we, as parcel-holders, are "websites" on LL's "internet", and as such, LL would hope, any litigation would involve us, not them. coco Oh give me a break. Comparing locking down a private residence with "age proofing" a largely publically available service is laughable. Ok, so, how about this then. LL requires all signups to send them proof of age, photocopied, signed, and notarized, BEFORE they allow a new resident in? That would be the ultimate security, and analgous to your house lockdown....Don't let anyone in you don't "recognize". _____________________
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06-27-2006 19:42
Well . . . I think this conversation isn't worth pursuing.
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06-27-2006 20:20
So, identity is now a free and disposable thing.
The only counter to that is 'by-invitation-only' areas. If you can't blacklist someone for their behavior... Then create whitelists to allow only specific people in. Welcome to the gated sims/communities of SecondLife. -- Now... about your last violation of the home owners association code... |
Io Zeno
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06-27-2006 20:46
Io, they can only use that CC as ID in the first place if they CHARGE the card. Perhaps you didn't get it the first time. Visa/Mastercard will not allow merchants to use their cards as age verification any longer, which means you can't just "validate" a card any more unless you plan to place a charge on it. Therefore, in order to use a CC as a form of ID, they would have to get rid of the free accounts. Ah, I see. But weren't they doing a thingie where they charged and then immediately refunded? Or am I remembering wrong? ![]() _____________________
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06-27-2006 21:07
Io, they can only use that CC as ID in the first place if they CHARGE the card. Perhaps you didn't get it the first time. Visa/Mastercard will not allow merchants to use their cards as age verification any longer, which means you can't just "validate" a card any more unless you plan to place a charge on it. Therefore, in order to use a CC as a form of ID, they would have to get rid of the free accounts. *sigh* I'm beginning to like the idea of having them pay for new accounts. I mean, I did, my husband did and so to did a friend of ours. Why not the rest of the world? I know, I know, the numbers of people joining will decrease and deities forbid that be allowed to happen! Seriously, charging 5 dollars and go ahead and give them their 250L or even 500L to experiment with doesn't seem unreasonable to me. It's still cheaper than what many of us paid for our accounts! *mutters* There has to be a better way than this, though. Seriously, no verification at all is just a lawsuit waiting to happen, which would cost LL more than the 'possible' revenues from the free/unverified accounts! Not to mention that they'd have to work their butts off to conteract the negative publicity if someone like Jack Thompson heard about a lawsuit against a game company that knowingly removed a stumbling block for pedaphiles and allows teens to see "naughty bits in action". He'd be peeing himself in joy to finally have an example for his cause! _____________________
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06-27-2006 21:25
Ah, I see. But weren't they doing a thingie where they charged and then immediately refunded? Or am I remembering wrong? ![]() Yes, that's exactly what they were doing, and countless other verification sites, which goes against the rules of Visa/MC. They would charge $1 to your card, by doing a "validation of funds" and then let it drop without finishing the charge. Visa/MC hate that because the transaction costs them money. _____________________
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06-27-2006 21:29
*sigh* I'm beginning to like the idea of having them pay for new accounts. I mean, I did, my husband did and so to did a friend of ours. Why not the rest of the world? I know, I know, the numbers of people joining will decrease and deities forbid that be allowed to happen! Seriously, charging 5 dollars and go ahead and give them their 250L or even 500L to experiment with doesn't seem unreasonable to me. It's still cheaper than what many of us paid for our accounts! *mutters* There has to be a better way than this, though. Seriously, no verification at all is just a lawsuit waiting to happen, which would cost LL more than the 'possible' revenues from the free/unverified accounts! Not to mention that they'd have to work their butts off to conteract the negative publicity if someone like Jack Thompson heard about a lawsuit against a game company that knowingly removed a stumbling block for pedaphiles and allows teens to see "naughty bits in action". He'd be peeing himself in joy to finally have an example for his cause! I agree, this open free account thing is a major mess. Still though, even when they didn't have free accounts, having teens on the grid was still a problem. There's not an easy way to keep them out, without some major steps taken. The problem is, how do you maintain a balance between making it where people want to join to play, but still keep the teens out and also not making signing up a major hassle? _____________________
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06-27-2006 21:31
How about a group for people that signed up prior to 6/6/06 of "verified accounts"
Any new users have to prove their age by being recommending to the group, the catching being that they have to meet a memeber of the group in real life and pictures have to be taken. I heard of something similar going on for a german pornography website where their age laws pretty much require person to person validation, the site's never had a single legal issue. |
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06-27-2006 22:43
Update, they are reinstating the check for the Teen Grid:
Changes to Teen Grid Registration Anyone whose birthday indicates they are between the ages of 13 and 17 is invited into the Teen Grid. Although there is currently no perfect way to verify that someone is the age they give us, we want to make sure that the teens on Teen Second Life can be confident they are dealing with other teens, and not with adults who do not belong on the grid. Therefore we are reinstating the payment information requirement for anyone entering the teen grid. In addition, we will be posting a warning to anyone entering the teen grid who is in fact older than 18, and misrepresenting their age to us. That warning states: "Warning to adults: Teen Second Life is a service offered to minors only. If you provide false birthdate information in order to access Teen Second Life, Linden Lab may provide your personal information to any law enforcement organization or private litigant investigating your activities." http://secondlife.blogs.com/change/2006/06/update_open_reg.html#more _____________________
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06-28-2006 06:50
Update, they are reinstating the check for the Teen Grid: http://secondlife.blogs.com/change/2006/06/update_open_reg.html#more This shows that they have finally been convinced that they buggered up in removing CC verification. Do they *really* not think these things through before they implement them? ![]() Of course, now that the teen grid will require verification and the main grid won't, doesn't that just encourage teens to join the verification-free main grid rather than asking their parents for their CC? |
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06-28-2006 07:06
Update, they are reinstating the check for the Teen Grid: http://secondlife.blogs.com/change/2006/06/update_open_reg.html#more Oh good, so now there's just a very select and exclusive group of paedophiles on the teen grid from June 2006! _____________________
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brief tangent
06-28-2006 07:16
While I've nothing to add to the wisdom of LL policy changes I'd like to note that pedopihlic predation is not quite the looming threat that it is often made to be by the media.
Anecdotal proof: Do you know anyone who has been so victimized? Do you know anyone who knows any one who has? Media sensationalism is a bad way to gauge incidence of Bad Things especially those of extremely low incidence. The greatest molestaion risk by a factor of a zillion is from family members; you can't ban them by MAC address. A well instructed, well monitored child who has a strong self concept is almost immune to predation. Yes, the COPA Act does exist, but it is an attempt to get the government to be parents and I don't trust them to calculate my taxes properly. |
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06-28-2006 07:30
This shows that they have finally been convinced that they buggered up in removing CC verification. Do they *really* not think these things through before they implement them? ![]() Of course, now that the teen grid will require verification and the main grid won't, doesn't that just encourage teens to join the verification-free main grid rather than asking their parents for their CC? First question: No, they don't. They decided to go with, "We won't know what changes are needed unless we do it!" Works great, doesn't it? Second: The kiddies will try the adult end of the swimming pool just because they can. There isn't a stumbling block and folks, this has nothing to do with parents watching their kids. Example: Mommy and Daddy are both MG SLers and little Tiff wants to join SL. The 'rents approve her for a teen account, where she logs in and goes about exploring. But *gasp* this doesn't look anything like Mom and Dad's SL! Little Tiff mentions this to her best friend, who in turns says, "Come over tonight, got something to show you!" And LT's best friend shows her that Mommy and Daddy's SL doesn't require Tiff asking Mommy for a card. *bampf* Little Tiff creates the account on her best friend's comp to explore Mommy and Daddy's SL. She sees things there that make her horrified and somehow Mommy and Daddy find out. Mommy and Daddy finally wake up and realize that the Credit Card Verification would have kept Little Tiff off the main grid after all and file a lawsuit. Heck it might be with the best intentions, like making LL realize that they need to do something to keep the kiddies out of the adult swim, but chances are all they're seeing is the therapy bills pilling up. It's annoying a heck, but what's good for the Teen grid is good for us too. I love SL and want to see it open for a very long time. A lawsuit could potentially close it. _____________________
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06-28-2006 07:50
Anecdotal proof: Do you know anyone who has been so victimized? Do you know anyone who knows any one who has? Media sensationalism is a bad way to gauge incidence of Bad Things especially those of extremely low incidence. The greatest molestaion risk by a factor of a zillion is from family members; you can't ban them by MAC address. Do you know anyone who's been mauled to death by a pitbull? Know anyone who knows anyone who has? But would you put steak in your pockets and run up to one? Maybe it doesn't happen "a lot", but it will if precautions aren't taken. |
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06-28-2006 07:53
While having some information on hand to "identify" a would-be predator is nice and I feel better about it..... I'm not the type of parent uninvolved enough in my daughter's life to hold any internet service she uses responsible for her actions, or the actions of anyone else she comes in contact with.
Companies like Linden Labs are not my daughter's babysitter, it's not their job to protect my kid. That's my job, and if I fail in that responsibility then the blame sits with me. What is wrong with parents these days who feel everyone else is responsible for their children except themselves? In my opinion, the internet is like New York city. What sensible parent would let their children run around alone in New York? What sensible parent would let their kids run free on the net? It's "the world", not the backyard. It's the parents who give their kids free-for-all access on the internet who cry the loudest when something goes foul and always look to place blame. For them, I say, "Try starting with yourself." These parents need to start stepping up and take responsibillity for their own children and the places they put them in, and stop using the internet as a babysitter, and stop using lawsuits as a scapegoat from their own inadequate parenting. |
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06-28-2006 08:08
This is a mess. We've got teens on the adult grid, adults on the teen grid... Linden Lab, what are you thinking? Is there not a juried process to these decisions?
If you want to do something meaningful that shows an individual's commitment to the community without bringing credit cards into it, have a voluntary "VERIFIED IDENTITY" program...which I have suggested in the past... call me and I'll resend my resume ![]() I also do not want anything on my profile stating that my credit card is on file and has been charged... Yes obviously my group owns land and I'm a premium member so I have a credit card...but writing that out in my profile explicitly is like waving Godiva in front of a mob of starving chocoholics. Thank you. _____________________
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