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So what's the deal with romance?

Kitty Colville
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Join date: 1 Aug 2006
Posts: 10
08-01-2006 08:00
Hey,

I'm new to the forum and I want to know if anyone has ever dated or met the love of their life on Second Life? Do characters fall in love? I'm really fascinated to know since I heard something about a couple actually marrying through the site. Has anyone got their own story of 'romance'? I'm intrigued!

Kitty x
Willow Zander
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Join date: 22 May 2004
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08-01-2006 08:01
I think you'll find your answers here
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Lupus Delacroix
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Join date: 3 May 2006
Posts: 695
08-01-2006 08:06
the average hit to miss ratio on SL is fairly high, kinda like highschool.

I think the average SL relationship probably lasts a month or two. Now for those that last, I know of a LOT of those that moved into RL.
Kitty Colville
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Join date: 1 Aug 2006
Posts: 10
08-01-2006 08:20
From: Lupus Delacroix
the average hit to miss ratio on SL is fairly high, kinda like highschool.

I think the average SL relationship probably lasts a month or two. Now for those that last, I know of a LOT of those that moved into RL.


Hey Lupus,

Thanks for your reply. Am intrigued about all those relationships that moved into RL... sounds like it's a pretty common thing. Do they actually meet?

Sorry to sound such a dunce. So new to all this...
Duntroon Donburi
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Join date: 16 Jun 2006
Posts: 129
08-01-2006 08:36
there are LOTS of examples of romances starting from online games and SL. I can say I am one of those people I guess :) . I have met a wonderfull person through online gaming, and over the years we have progressed from game to game falling for each other more and more. Not exactly what you are asking as we didnt meet in SL, we met in Ultima Online in '98 :)
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ArchTx Edo
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Join date: 13 Feb 2005
Posts: 1,993
08-01-2006 08:45
See these articles on Sex and Romance in SL

http://nwn.blogs.com/nwn/sex_and_romance/index.html
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Devlin Gallant
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08-02-2006 08:21
Garth and Pituca met in SL, got married in SL, and are now married in RL.
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Savonah Madonna
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Join date: 21 Sep 2005
Posts: 168
08-02-2006 08:28
Romance is dead. Some griefers came and killed it last night =(

Damn Linden Lab and their FREE accounts!

*laughs histerically*

Seriously, Romance is alive and well in Second Life. The question is, what do you want out of Second Life? Do you hope to find the person of your dreams here and hope to eventually take it into real life? If this is the case it's not easy. Many people don't want anything in second life to carry over into real life, but there are exceptoins.

I'd recommend you simply just try to make friends. Perhaps someone will become more to you and you will develope a more intimate relationship. You will need to talk to the person and let them know your expectations and hopes, and tell them if you are looking to take the relationship beyond the online world into real life.

It is not easy to find such a relationship. but I wish you the best if it is what you desire.
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Pol Tabla
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Join date: 18 Dec 2003
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08-02-2006 08:31
Love is for sissies.
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reddish Tigereye
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Join date: 12 Nov 2003
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08-02-2006 08:33
i met omerna bunderfeld in another online game in january of 1997(the realm, ewwwwww), he flew across the country and we got married in november of that year. we have been married in real life ever since, and we have lived in many online worlds, but this i believe is where we will be stayng now.
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Dismay Wilde
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Join date: 12 Aug 2004
Posts: 1,771
08-02-2006 09:15
I fell inlove on SL and met my hunny in RL and fell inlove there too!
Best of both worlds <3
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