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We've actually got our hearts set on each of us having a new laptop. I do have a usable enough laptop for everything else when I travel, but it cacks on SL and has from day one, and so I do need a new one. When I travel, I wouldn't be diving into SL and doing *all* that I do from home (dance dance dance dance and film it.. lol), but at times I do need to check in, lest someone buys FlyDances, the grid eats the purchase and I need to send them what they bought. Also, times when I'd normally just stand at my home base and chat a bit in IM with friends
Victorria, that's almost exactly the model my sweetie was ordering from the gateway company. Unfortunately, they also wanted to load a BUNCH of other stuff we didn't need on there and some of that was (as Eli put it so nicely) malware magnets that I'd just spent time removing from our neighbor's machine, lol! The sale might still go through, if they can satisfy Eli's demands... (hmm, I doubt that, considering Eli does have some IT experience and companies flat out refuse to send the actual OS disc instead of a recovery disc, but we'll see). Frankly, it seemed a bit of bait and switch happened between the different models screen and the order confirmation email that I personally would have thrown the brakes on the sale immediately. But, that's Eli's decision to make. When it comes to mine, I'll decide.
(we'd both love a roll your own machine, but we've yet to see that on laptops, lol)
Chosen Few, we've looked at a couple of Asus machines, it's definitely on the consideration list.
Joshua, Mac is out of the question. Other considerations for my laptop is that my disabled kiddo has specialized PC software she enjoys.
Briana, (quote: "SL burns up laptops unless you get one of the special gaming laptops.)"
Precisely why I posted this (wink grin) We dont know what the current latest greatest is and I'm really glad I asked the folks who do know. Very grateful for the variety of knowledgeable replies!
Kyllie, I've been sold on nVidia for years.
Crystal, all good advice and you're the one who got this ball rolling in the first place! (we both send hugs)
Kornscope, my current laptop is an HP, and while it's good enough to fiddle with other sites and programs while we're in motels and such... it's just not adequate for SL. If it was, (if the latest model was)... I'd still not go that direction because I've personally had trouble with the HP company over the years for customer service. (geez they sent me the wrong power cord THREE times, and the doofus on the phone was telling me to plug it in anyway, even though the numbers did NOT match up. I told her she was nuts and I was not about to start a fire on my lap! I learned long before this incident, that if it's the wrong transformer, it's fire time and thankfully those $5 speakers were easy to replace, even if I didn't get the smell out of my house for over a month! That wasn't the only gaffe I'd dealt with from them over the years, but it was bad enough to affect any future purchase)
Mangosio, Dell is another on the consideration list
Chosen Few: (quote: "I only wish it were that simple with laptops. But unfortunately getting a barebones notebook along with all the parts to make it into a high end machine actually costs way more than just buying a pre-assembled one. It's just not worth it. It's a shame."

Yes, it's a shame because we're sold on that plan for desktops as well.
Amy, sounds like your Sony came better equipped than my brother's and his gf's machines did. We found the most unbelievable amount of bundled stuff on those that literally filled their C drives and made the machines pretty much unusable. (they'd both thrown up their hands, gave up and the laptops were buried in the closet)
Furthermore, someone had formatted the D drives larger, and made the C drive FAT32 and the D drive NTSF. Once the partition was removed, the whole thing on NTSF and win2000 pro installed, they now work great for what they use them for while traveling.
Talon, your Dell sounds like a good one to check out
Deira, your Rock system also sounds like a good one to check out
Thank you all for the detailed information! It can all look and sound really great on the sites, in the catalog or on the showroom floor, but the acid test for me is "can it run secondlife efficiently?". A sales person would lie through their teeth even if they didn't know, claiming it would... but, only those who use secondlife really knew that answer and I thank you all again for sharing!