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Age Verification - 6th Circuit says unconstitutional.

Teejay Dojoji
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10-26-2007 10:13
From: Burnman Bedlam
My child has plenty of freedom to explore, and she's happy to have me with her when she does. I explained that the internet can be dangerous for children, and that some people look there for kids to hurt. I then explained that if I am with her while she is on the internet, she will be infinitely safer than without. She is happy to have me there, and we use the time to laugh and enjoy each other's company. I don't make it about "restriction", I make it about safety and understanding.

I also understand that other people are not as interested in their kids... and it is the kids, not the parents, that suffer when the kid gets into trouble. Age verification is about helping the kids avoid some of the pitfalls. It's not foolproof... but it's something.


I'M not interested in your kids. So please keep them off SL.
Burnman Bedlam
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10-26-2007 10:22
From: Teejay Dojoji
I'M not interested in your kids. So please keep them off SL.
Are you trying to start a flame war because you disagree? Or because age verification would mean you can't access the grid anymore?

Let's keep the conversation mature, ok?
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Colette Meiji
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10-26-2007 10:29
From: Burnman Bedlam
I can understand that. But I also understand the importance of trying to keep kids away from the adult content in SL. I also would think people who are into the naughty would want to keep the kids out too (do any of you really want to poseball a minor?). And I want to keep the "World of Warcraft" mentality out of SL, as that will do NOTHING for the community.


Just because many have the opinion that its the parents responsible for what their kids see, does not mean they want children to see adult content on the grid.

They just think the responsibility for what children see belongs with the parents.

We don't stop parents from keeping alcohol in their house. And we wouldn't blame Miller if a kid got drunk. We'd blame the kid, and his parents.

You'd blame a store for selling alcohol to a kid, but on the internet the access is provided at the back of the computer. So the store keeper in this case would be the one who gives the kid access to the internet.

From: Burnman Bedlam

There isn't a law enforcement agency that meets the needs of the streets either... but we still want them around to do what they can.


However, we don't blame McDonalds if there is a car jacking in their parking lot.

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Any Age verification system that attempts to shift responsibility from the parents onto the web hosting provider is flawed.

I also don't see how keeping minors out of Second Life is going to keep them away from the content that we don't want them to see.

They can access Porn pictures and movies all over the net without any age verification / On Google images they don't even have to lie and say they are 18.

They can go to all sorts of chat rooms and talk to all sorts of people we don't want them to talk to.

Age Verification for Second Life isn't going to protect anyone except those In Second Life from exposing a minor to that content.

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I'm not against Age Verification.

I'm not even as against IDV as it is prosposed as many of you are.

I just think its red tape thats not really going to solve the real issues.
Burnman Bedlam
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10-26-2007 10:38
From: Colette Meiji
I'm not against Age Verification.

I'm not even as against IDV as it is prosposed as many of you are.

I just think its red tape thats not really going to solve the real issues.
Well, I have to say I was surprised to read this... lol

I am not looking for Linden Labs to take responsibility for other people's kids. I am looking for Linden Labs to do their part to help the overall situation, by making it more difficult for kids to access the grid.

This will help kids from getting onto the grid without their parent's knowledge, as we all know some of them do. With all of the publicity SL is getting, there will only be more kids coming to the door. And age verification will help protect people who are "naughty" in SL from being accused of things like being a sexual predator of children because they poseballed a minor without realizing it.

There is another solution too...

LL could remove the ability to have attachments with avatars, remove all mature content, and ban sexual activity. Then there is no need to check anyone's age. Would you all prefer that? :D
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Colette Meiji
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10-26-2007 10:49
From: Burnman Bedlam

There is another solution too...

LL could remove the ability to have attachments with avatars, remove all mature content, and ban sexual activity. Then there is no need to check anyone's age. Would you all prefer that? :D


Or LL could (as they did last year) tell everyone they are responsible for their own kids and only use a "over 18" check-box.

They could even go farther and not even require an email or a RL name (fake or otherwise)
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10-26-2007 10:54
From: Colette Meiji
Or LL could (as they did last year) tell everyone they are responsible for their own kids and only use a "over 18" check-box.

They could even go farther and not even require an email or a RL name (fake or otherwise)
I bet that would make the people who want easy access to children very, very happy.

Maybe IDV isn't such a bad idea afterall...
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Colette Meiji
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10-26-2007 11:03
From: Burnman Bedlam
I bet that would make the people who want easy access to children very, very happy.

Maybe IDV isn't such a bad idea afterall...


I doubt people wanting access to children concentrate on Second Life.

When they have places like MySpace with a LOT more active people, with huge number actively admitting the fact they are under 18.
Burnman Bedlam
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10-26-2007 11:08
From: Colette Meiji
I doubt people wanting access to children concentrate on Second Life.

When they have places like MySpace with a LOT more active people, with huge number actively admitting the fact they are under 18.
Oh I don't know... the issue with simulated child-rape which got LL in some hot water seems to indicate there is an interest by some.
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Colette Meiji
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10-26-2007 11:15
From: Burnman Bedlam
Oh I don't know... the issue with simulated child-rape which got LL in some hot water seems to indicate there is an interest by some.


Those people were Adults though.

54 and 27 I believe.

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Some people I used to know were into Sexual Age Play - liked to pretend to be teenage japanese school girls, both are single men in their 30's

I find sexual Age Play very distasteful and disassociated with them and the guy they were involved with.

I got a few people at Glow mad at me because i spoke out against Sexual Age Play there and banned someone for trying to find a "Auntie" at Tiger Lily's

But all the cases I heard of people being involved in that stuff everyone involved were adults in First Life.
Ciaran Laval
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10-26-2007 11:17
From: Burnman Bedlam


I am not looking for Linden Labs to take responsibility for other people's kids. I am looking for Linden Labs to do their part to help the overall situation, by making it more difficult for kids to access the grid.


Which is exactly the opposite of what they are doing. Opening the floodgates allowed kids in. A system that allows kids to verify as adults is far worse than what we have now.

From: Burnman Bedlam

There is another solution too...

LL could remove the ability to have attachments with avatars, remove all mature content, and ban sexual activity. Then there is no need to check anyone's age. Would you all prefer that? :D


That would not make a difference at all. People on Myspace aren't allowed to show naughty pics but I'd wager more adults have contact with kids there than do here.
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10-26-2007 11:21
From: Ciaran Laval

That would not make a difference at all. People on Myspace aren't allowed to show naughty pics but I'd wager more adults have contact with kids there than do here.


Yes, thats the thing.

The naughty pics and the poseballs and the avatar nudity isn't the scary part about the net.

The scary part is some creep will prey on your child. They don't need anything pornographic, virtual or otherwise, to do that.
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10-26-2007 11:23
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But all the cases I heard of people being involved in that stuff everyone involved were adults in First Life.
If they like the image of sexualized children... whether or not the person wearing the child av is an adult, there is a problem there.

People who are attracted to virtual children, and can find pleasure in exploring sexuality with virtual children, don't seem that far away from looking for a real one.
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Colette Meiji
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10-26-2007 11:32
From: Burnman Bedlam
If they like the image of sexualized children... whether or not the person wearing the child av is an adult, there is a problem there.


Problem sure, I can see that.

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However that problem is unrelated to the claim they could be using Second Life as a means to access children.

And it is unrelated to any implication that Age Verification would somehow reduce Sexual Ageplay in Second Life.

As far as anyone has been able to asses there are no Underage SL players who were ever involved in Sexual Ageplay in Secondlife before it was banned.

If anyone had data to the contrary I think it would have been a big enough deal someone would have brought it up.
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10-26-2007 11:34
From: Burnman Bedlam
IPeople who are attracted to virtual children, and can find pleasure in exploring sexuality with virtual children, don't seem that far away from looking for a real one.


What I am saying is even if you are right, they would log off SL and go to MySpace or somewhere similar.
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10-26-2007 11:40
From: Colette Meiji
What I am saying is even if you are right, they would log off SL and go to MySpace or somewhere similar.
So what is your point? That nothing should be done to keep kids off the main grid? One post, you say you are not against age verification, and the next you say its pointless...

Can you please clarify your position on the subject?
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Colette Meiji
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10-26-2007 12:34
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So what is your point? That nothing should be done to keep kids off the main grid? One post, you say you are not against age verification, and the next you say its pointless...

Can you please clarify your position on the subject?


I am not against age verifcation

And Age verification is pointless.
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10-26-2007 12:39
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I am not against age verifcation

And Age verification is pointless.
You and I are going to have to agree to disagree here and let the topic drop for now.
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Colette Meiji
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10-26-2007 12:51
From: Burnman Bedlam
You and I are going to have to agree to disagree here and let the topic drop for now.


K, which part are we agreeing to disagree on? The me not being against it part, or the pointless part?

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10-26-2007 12:59
From: Colette Meiji
K, which part are we agreeing to disagree on? The me not being against it part, or the pointless part?

:p
I disagree that age verification is pointless.
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Colette Meiji
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10-26-2007 13:11
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I disagree that age verification is pointless.


I think if it has a point then Congress should pass a law spelling out a way to do this, and require US sites or ISPs to comply.

For example one possibility:

All ISPs could require a password upon logging onto the internet. The ISP will provide a seperate password for the parents and children.

It would time out if there was no activity for 30 minutes.

Thus if the kids logged in and accessed adult content the parent must have been careless with the password.

The child version of the password would not be able to access adult material. All US sites would be required to have a rating that the ISP's software could pick up on.

the minimum age for kids to participate in unmonitored chat rooms and IM programs would be raised from 14 to 18.

Other countries would be given the information so they could voluntarily participate.

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this is just brainstorming, but if the goal is really to protect children , then its going to take something approximately this encompasing.
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10-26-2007 13:14
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I disagree that age verification is pointless.


There's no system to implement age verification and make it effective as a means to protecting children.

This process has just exemplified this, the age verification process is actually weaker than what was already in place.
Colette Meiji
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10-26-2007 13:18
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There's no system to implement age verification and make it effective as a means to protecting children.

This process has just exemplified this, the age verification process is actually weaker than what was already in place.


Exactly if the child has unrestricted access to get to www.secondlife.com in the first place, how is Linden Labs gonna "save them".
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10-26-2007 13:20
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There's no system to implement age verification and make it effective as a means to protecting children.

This process has just exemplified this, the age verification process is actually weaker than what was already in place.
And round and round we go...

I think we've pretty much established that I disagree with the idea that age verification is pointless, I've explained why I think so more times than I care to count. Numerous replies have come back explaining why people think age verification is pointless.

As of now, neither side has convinced the other of anything. I do know, that I am walking away from this conversation for now, as I am tired of repeating myself.
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10-26-2007 13:24
You know when Hitler died, they never REALLY verified his Identity
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10-26-2007 13:26
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You know when Hitler died, they never REALLY verified his Identity


I'm beginning to think they should change your last name to Godwin, hun.
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