naughty BDSM question, please dont look if easily offended
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Oxymoron Parx
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12-11-2008 06:32
I will keep this very simple & clinical so as not to offend. I need to buy a small and cheap bed. I dont have much money and I dont have much space. The bed needs bdsm restraint poses and sex poses for me & my friend. I have used search but seem to spend ages wandering around shops. Can anyone help or advise me please.
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Dekka Raymaker
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12-11-2008 06:56
I'm offended that you used the word 'search'.
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Raven Juliesse
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12-11-2008 07:12
I find it humorous that people want 'boutique' items but they always caveat it with "cheap". Words are cheap, why don't you just both sit somewhere and talk about that you are doing. If you want things that are 'speciality' and BDSM sex animations are speciality, you should be willing to pay the creators of them.
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Brenda Connolly
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12-11-2008 07:40
I'm offended that the question isn't offensive in the least. I'm extremely disappointed.
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Brenda Connolly
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12-11-2008 07:44
What you may need to do is use a regular bed with standalone poses. Look up "Francie's Furniture and Toys", Francie Pasternak is the owner. She has several furniture items that have basic poses in them. She also sell a box of standalone poses that you can use . All her items are low priced.
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Qie Niangao
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12-11-2008 07:45
Gonna remember this thread title for the next time I have a new jira issue to hype. 
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12-11-2008 07:46
From: Oxymoron Parx I will keep this very simple & clinical so as not to offend. I need to buy a small and cheap bed. I dont have much money and I dont have much space. The bed needs bdsm restraint poses and sex poses for me & my friend. I have used search but seem to spend ages wandering around shops. Can anyone help or advise me please. Oxy I have seen a lot of dirty old mattresses lying around in the back alleys of sl that might fit your bill . . . Pep (Seriously!)
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Brenda Connolly
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12-11-2008 07:54
From: Qie Niangao Gonna remember this thread title for the next time I have a new jira issue to hype.  1 user laughed. Get someone to sponsor it with you, and you will have.........................................................A CoJira. *rimshot*
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MoiselleErin Teardrop
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12-11-2008 07:54
Look, SL is little more than people trying to sell clothes, give away freebies, and sex scenes.
You don't really need to buy a bed or poseballs. You should never have to pay for anything sex-related. There are plenty of places on SL for sex... search BDSM in the places tab... I don't know that you will find EXACTLY what you are wanting to do if you have real specific needs but it is worth checking out...
Just to get you started off in the right spot, check out a SIM in SL called "Pit of soles" They have some neat stuff you can try out, and I am sure the few people that are there can point you to more stuff. Another one - The extreme fetishist.
Pit of soles ["soles" is not a misspelling] and The Extreme fetishist
Yes they sell stuff too but there is plenty of stuff to just try out, and there is an upper level to that place, the starcase is a little tricky to find though.
Or if someone falls in love with your avatar, maybe THEY will buy the bed or whatever.
The two suggestions I gave are by no means all-inclusive, it is merely to get you started. At the Extreme fetishist, in the park, they have this pair of trees that you click and sit and you will be tied all 4's, upside down.
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Brenda Connolly
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12-11-2008 07:58
From: MoiselleErin Teardrop Look, SL is little more than people trying to sell clothes, give away freebies, and sex scenes.
You don't really need to buy a bed or poseballs. You should never have to pay for anything sex-related. There are plenty of places on SL for sex... search BDSM in the places tab... I don't know that you will find EXACTLY what you are wanting to do if you have real specific needs but it is worth checking out...
Just to get you started off in the right spot, check out a SIM in SL called "Pit of soles" They have some neat stuff you can try out, and I am sure the few people that are there can point you to more stuff. Another one - The extreme fetishist.
Pit of soles ["soles" is not a misspelling] and The Extreme fetishist
Yes they sell stuff too but there is plenty of stuff to just try out, and there is an upper level to that place, the starcase is a little tricky to find though.
Or if someone falls in love with your avatar, maybe THEY will buy the bed or whatever.
The two suggestions I gave are by no means all-inclusive, it is merely to get you started. At the Extreme fetishist, in the park, they have this pair of trees that you click and sit and you will be tied all 4's, upside down. Some people wish to play in a more private setting so there definitely is a market for those toys. The owner of Pit of Soles is Francie , who I mentioned above. She had the Late Lamented "Drifter's Passage" kidnap sim, which was great. I haven't been to the Pit, but she does good work, and is a fun person if you meet her.
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Damien1 Thorne
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12-11-2008 08:00
I am sure there will be more bdsm people come in later to give you more suggestions. They are probably all tied up at the moment.
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Amaranthim Talon
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12-11-2008 08:01
/me is suddenly curious about Brenda's SL and should one look up her IP- 
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Amaranthim Talon
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12-11-2008 08:02
From: Damien1 Thorne I am sure there will be more bdsm people come in later to give you more suggestions. They are probably all tied up at the moment. I genuinely LOL'ed- am getting funny looks here...
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Ann Launay
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12-11-2008 08:03
Does the Pit of Soles have something to do with shoes? That would explain Brenda's interest. 
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Yosef Okelly
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12-11-2008 08:07
From: Damien1 Thorne I am sure there will be more bdsm people come in later to give you more suggestions. They are probably all tied up at the moment. Can we throw fruit in here? I'm not going to look up places for erotic furniture while at work. I love my job. I want to keep it.
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Damien1 Thorne
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12-11-2008 08:08
From: Yosef Okelly Can we throw fruit in here?
I'm not going to look up places for erotic furniture while at work. I love my job. I want to keep it. money would be preferable.
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Ann Launay
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12-11-2008 08:08
Riann Maltese's Deviant furniture seems to be popular with the adventurous kids. I don't know if the anims are sold separately though.
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Congratulations and shame on you! You are a bit of a slut.
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MoiselleErin Teardrop
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12-11-2008 08:09
From: Ann Launay Does the Pit of Soles have something to do with shoes? You would think but I have not noticed... the sole part might have something to do with trampling. And yes the owner of pit of soles is a cool lady. And Brenda, you are right about the private setting. at pit of soles though, it seems the regulars are not going to go up and bother people, usually it is at the sex clubs that this becomes an issue, like trying to have fun and some fresh n00b saying "I am new to SL, how can I make money/find freebies?" But then me, I am not one to need privacy while rendez-vous'ing, if I am making a scene and a dozen SL'ers are there watching, hahahah no problem.
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Brenda Connolly
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12-11-2008 08:10
From: Ann Launay Does the Pit of Soles have something to do with shoes? That would explain Brenda's interest.  EVERYTHING has to do with shoes.
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Lizz Silverstar
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12-11-2008 08:46
I will have to second Riann Maltese's Deviant line of furnature it is not only very good, but you can add your own poses to them. And compared to other beds/toys the prices are very resonable.
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Cristalle Karami
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12-11-2008 09:28
From: Raven Juliesse I find it humorous that people want 'boutique' items but they always caveat it with "cheap". Words are cheap, why don't you just both sit somewhere and talk about that you are doing. If you want things that are 'speciality' and BDSM sex animations are speciality, you should be willing to pay the creators of them. 1 user agrees.
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Love Hastings
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12-11-2008 09:28
Deviant is good, indeed, and very reasonably priced. Make sure you find the bed in the bondage furniture area - not the vanilla one.
Having said that, I never use the bondage-y options in mine. Just the hugs and cuddles. Other specialized furniture always seems to do a better job of the bdsm stuffs. Of course I may be biased as I don't really go in for those sex type animations anyway.
And having said *that*, I feel like this thread needs to be offended up a lot more!
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Cristalle Karami
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12-11-2008 09:29
Did you bother to shop on Xstreet or OnRez, as had been suggested in your other thread?
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Love Hastings
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12-11-2008 09:33
From: Cristalle Karami Did you bother to shop on Xstreet or OnRez, as had been suggested in your other thread? Oh, give the OP a break. 'Tis the holiday season. I found BDSM bed shopping to be extremely frustrating, in a vacuum. Much harder than pretty well anything else. You also can't judge the quality of the user interface or built in poses, or the restraint systems (which sucked in everything I looked at) by reading web page listings. Just saying.
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Cristalle Karami
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12-11-2008 09:40
From: Love Hastings Oh, give the OP a break. 'Tis the holiday season. I found BDSM bed shopping to be extremely frustrating, in a vacuum. Much harder than pretty well anything else. You also can't judge the quality of the user interface or built in poses, or the restraint systems (which sucked in everything I looked at) by reading web page listings. Just saying. No, but most listings tell you where the store is so you can go inworld and shop. He can filter by price and then go inworld to find the creator. I'm not saying he should have bought off the web, but used it in the process of elimination.
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