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Methods of maintaining civil discussion

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11-26-2004 11:17
1. Don't assume the motives of someone you are in a discussion with.
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Merwan Marker
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11-26-2004 11:18
And be civil.


:cool:
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11-26-2004 11:19
2. Don't take a disagreement personal.
Nolan Nash
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11-26-2004 11:20
From: Sensual Casanova
2. Don't take a disagreement personal.


LMFAO!
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11-26-2004 11:22
From: Nolan Nash
LMFAO!


3. Don't be immature.
Tito Gomez
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11-26-2004 11:23
From: someone
Don't assume the motives of someone you are in a discussion with.


Hey great idea! First rule is totally true. Keep it going!

The forums are great, but many of us need help on keeping certain discussions civilized and trying to keep personal emotions on check.

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Darwin Appleby
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11-26-2004 11:23
4. Don't quote me.
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Touche.
Tito Gomez
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11-26-2004 11:24
From: someone
Don't take a disagreement personal.


I totally disagree!

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Nolan Nash
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11-26-2004 11:25
From: Sensual Casanova
3. Don't be immature.


Double LMFAO!

I can't hear you kettle, could you speak a little clearer?
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Catherine Cotton
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11-26-2004 11:28
4. If you start looking the debate do not insult, belittle or start false rumors about those who are winning the debate.

5. Do not use your friends to gang up on someone trying to make point. Just because it may interfer with your agenda/ and or sales.

6. remember no one has any real power in SL except the Lindens :)

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11-26-2004 11:33
From: Catherine Cotton
6. remember no one has any real power in SL except the Lindens :)


So far. :eek:
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11-26-2004 11:59
All great ideas -- here's another to keep it going!

7. If you are offended by something, be mindful of the opposition and others engaged in the discussion -- the temptation of ignorance is it's simple and self-indulgent nature.
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11-26-2004 12:22
browse elsewhere for half-an-hour before posting a reply
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punk in drublic
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11-26-2004 12:54
From: Khamon Fate
browse elsewhere for half-an-hour before posting a reply


It's a well known fact that people can be mean and just post flagrant replies, so a posting such as this seems to be rather obvious and counter-productive to this thread.

So I have to ask, are you trying to be constructive?
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Devlin Gallant
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11-26-2004 12:59
From: Darwin Appleby
4. Don't quote me.



pwned!
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Madiera Westerburg
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11-26-2004 13:07
bring coffee and donuts....nobody hates the donut guy at meetings, so wouldnt that work here?
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Paolo Portocarrero
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11-26-2004 17:42
From: Madiera Westerburg
bring coffee and donuts....nobody hates the donut guy at meetings, so wouldnt that work here?


Evil carbo junkies! Run! Run!

The Seven Habits guy had a great idea: Seek first to understand, then to be understood.
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Tito Gomez
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11-26-2004 20:46
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Best practical suggestion so far!

Nothing written, no regrets!


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11-26-2004 20:49
8. Always remember what happens here has no real bearing on your 1st Life :)
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Torley Linden
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11-26-2004 21:09
9. Use emoticons where appropriate to help convey additional context, such as humor :)
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11-26-2004 21:13
10. When in doubt, plead the 5th.
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Chip Midnight
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11-26-2004 21:21
11. Try not to annoy Nolan.

12. When disagreeing with someone's position do them the courtesy of showing you understand what their position is.
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Nolan Nash
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11-26-2004 21:29
From: Chip Midnight
11. Try not to annoy Nolan.

:D

Woof Woof!!

13. Don't tell people how to behave if you got some work to do yourself.

(No, not you Chip) :)
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11-26-2004 22:54
Golden Rule, Treat people as you'd want them to treat you.
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Korg Stygian
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11-26-2004 23:28
14. Remember that respondents (other readers) of the forums are neither your psychiatrists, patsies nor personal abuse toys. They have the right to respond, ignore or agree with anything you say - hopefully in an intelligent fashion - but that is not a requirement, even for cicvil discussion.
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