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Grrr... Some People... RL RANT ALERT...

Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
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12-02-2004 02:04
Ok,

So here is the crack, I have just had my evaluation at work, and apparently I am the model employee, fast learner, good at my job blah blah blah, EXCEPT...

Because I sit in my office all day and DO my fugging work (which despite being on here I do actually get done), It is deemed that I lack enthusiasm, and do not participate in group discussions...

We have ONE fucking meeting a week, which I can never make it to, because I am on call and am usually fixing some tard's pc or video player, no fucker says anything ANYWAY in those meetings... and HOW can I be deemed not to take part, I dressed up for Children In Fugging Need... GRR


I am SO mad right now I think I might just punch something, or if I find out who the shit stirrer is I might just punch them...

Why the HELL do people have to be so goddam annoying, you try and get along and its deemed your not actually gettting along, oh and btw there is this one idiot here that does NOTHING, yet she gets away with it... Ok now i'm winding myself up...

/rant off...
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Kris Ritter
paradoxical embolism
Join date: 31 Oct 2003
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12-02-2004 02:21
*hugs*

Don't worry. I'm the same. I am apparently 'not a team player' because I don't sit gossiping all day with the rest of 'em.

Or it could be cuz I'm always telling them to stfu and leave me alone, and that people suck.
Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
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12-02-2004 02:30
What the fuck is up with these people, you get moaned at for doing you work, you get moaned at if you don't do your work... DO THEY WANT BLOOD! cos they are gunna get some... their's streaming out of every orafice...

GAH.. now I am in a SUPER bad mood, and I can see my day deteriorating before my eyes...

:mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
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Azreal Rubio
PrimHead
Join date: 29 Jan 2004
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12-02-2004 02:35
Ooooh can I rant too....

"Nothing like an appraisal / evaluation to motivate the work force, I had one the other day and now I think it is time to move on. 'Does work to a sufficiant standard but could do better' hence no payrise ... AGAIN, not like they pay me anywhere near enough to live comfortably in the southeast of england. :mad: "

My sympathies to you willow.
Kris Ritter
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12-02-2004 02:37
From: Willow Zander
What the fuck is up with these people, you get moaned at for doing you work, you get moaned at if you don't do your work... DO THEY WANT BLOOD! cos they are gunna get some... their's streaming out of every orafice...

GAH.. now I am in a SUPER bad mood, and I can see my day deteriorating before my eyes...

:mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:


Aww. Don't let yourself get too mad and upset about it hon. For one thing, if they're anything like my place, they prolly won't give you a perfect assessment anyway - they HAVE to find some area of improvement otherwise they think you're going to sit back with a smug grin on your face for the next year saying 'I'm perfect, I am. No room for improvement here!'.

Oh. And managers are fucktards. Thats the other reason.
Selador Cellardoor
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12-02-2004 02:37
Willow,

Surely you have some means by which you can dispute that part of your evaluation? Mind you, I have found that office politics is a murky business. So long as you are satisfied yourself that you are doing your best at work, that's really all that counts in the long run.
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Kris Ritter
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12-02-2004 02:40
From: Selador Cellardoor
Surely you have some means by which you can dispute that part of your evaluation? Mind you, I have found that office politics is a murky business. So long as you are satisfied yourself that you are doing your best at work, that's really all that counts in the long run.


This is true! If yours are like ours, you have to sign to say you agree. Simply dont! Tell them you think that what they've said is unreasonable.

Never, ever be afraid to stand up to management. After all, they're just people, only they get paid more and have browner noses and tongues.
Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
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12-02-2004 02:42
Oh my evaluator (my boss) was fine about it, he said he see's no problems with me and that i'm just getting on with my work, working on my initiative etc, which he wishes more ppl would do, but he said he is just re-iterating what others have said to him.

So I have decided I am going to make problems up, I am going to ask irritating questions and act like a complete dumbass just to make ppl happy, THEN see what my next evaluation is like...
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Hiro Pendragon
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12-02-2004 02:48
I work 11pm - 7am.

i win.
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Kris Ritter
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12-02-2004 02:54
From: Hiro Pendragon
I work 11pm - 7am.

i win.


Hello Hiro. Are you in the right thread? How is this relevant? What is the point you're making? And how and what do you win?
Hiro Pendragon
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12-02-2004 03:02
From: Kris Ritter
Hello Hiro. Are you in the right thread? How is this relevant? What is the point you're making? And how and what do you win?

I WIN! I WIN!!! *hops up and down*
I WIN!!!! WOOOOO!!

Just that employers generally suck. Mine makes up stupid excuses for every legitimate problem I bring to him. *shrugs*

Willow *hugs* just put the good things on your resume ;)
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Dee Firefly
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12-02-2004 03:05
Aww, don't let 'em get under your skin Willow *hug*

I used to get the same stuff at a big company I used to work for, yeah 'not vocal enough', 'lacking enthusiasm' and 'not a team player' spring to mind - only really because I didn't play the politics game, shoot my mouth off at every available opportunity like some of the jerks who just shouted loudest in order to get on, or be just the next numbered employee in line playing it by the numbers.

Didn't care. I guess pride in my own individuality was more important to me than playing their game.

Kris is right; even if you're a perfect employee, they always have to search for something to dig at just so they can feel they can push you harder. Don't take it to heart.

Be yourself, and whatever you do don't let the ba***rds grind you down !
Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
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12-02-2004 03:07
Everyone I have talked to agree's with me that its complete shite..

I mean how can you say to someone.. ok your a star employee, work on your own initiative, learn very quickly, get your work done blah blah blah, then turn round and say that sometimes it is perceived that you lack commitment and enthusiasm cos you don't get involved in group activities when i HAVE been involved in ALL group actitivites since starting this damn job... GRRRRRRR

BTW my bro made me laff, he works with me at the Uni, and put this on the bottom of his last email..

Am I going to have to pull you away from someone by the end of the day?
"Leave it, they're not worth it?
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Hiro Pendragon
bye bye f0rums!
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12-02-2004 03:13
another thing - sometimes managers are required to come up with something for each employee to "grow" with. My previous manager at my previous job told me outright that he had to do that. My last manager at my current job told me basically the same thing.

Honestly, don't sweat it. The compliments show well on you, and unless the words "disciplinary" or "affecting your salary" come up, don't worry too much. :)
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Willow Zander
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12-02-2004 03:15
They can all bite me... and i will tell them so :)

Most ppl here I love, but I work in a University Library as a Learning Resources Assistant, I think you can perhaps imagine the stuffiness that lives within my workplace...

BLAH... I need beer... lots of beer.. and maybe peanuts... oh and some knuckledusters.. :rolleyes:
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Kris Ritter
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12-02-2004 03:17
From: Willow Zander
...cos you don't get involved in group activities when i HAVE been involved in ALL group actitivites since starting this damn job


Heh. I never, ever, ever get involved in group anythings. Not social events, not even training days if it's some stupid pissy team building away day that has nothing to do with the job I do. Like, how in fucknation is getting across a rope bridge over a swamp with my colleagues going to help me write code? I just refuse point blank. So in that respect, I'm not a team player.

They're doing all the rounds now on christmas meals, drinkies, nights out and all that. And I'm just like 'nope. nope. nope. why are you even asking?! you know I don't like any of you!'. And in a way, it's true. I have about as much choice of who I work with as I do over who my family are. Why should I be forced to bond with them and become friends? It's not a requirement for my job, and I can still interact perfectly well when it's necessary to do so on the job, which I do very well, when there is actually work to be done.
Willow Zander
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12-02-2004 03:26
Let's set up a rehabilitation centre for tards.. we can smack them about till they get it :)
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rinaz bijoux
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12-02-2004 03:40
I'm sorry youre having a bad day willow, I dont really have a suggestion to help you, but I hope you feel better soon. You could have my voodoo doll if you want :)
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Zuzi Martinez
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12-02-2004 04:43
you got my sympathy Willow. employee evals are always always B to the S anyway. worse than report cards. they're the times the boss says "word gets back to me that you..." fill in the blank with a problem. those mysterious words that no one ever knows who said them.

don't tell them to bite you. bite them! :D
Garoad Kuroda
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12-02-2004 05:57
From: rinaz bijoux
You could have my voodoo doll if you want :)



Where did that come from? lol!
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WTF is C3PO supposed to be USEFUL for anyway, besides whining? Stupid piece of scrap metal would be more useful recycled as a toaster. But even that would suck, because who would want to listen to a whining wussy toaster? Is he gold plated? If that's the case he should just be melted down into gold ingots. Help the economy some, and stop being so damn useless you stupid bucket of bolts! R2 is 1,000 times more useful than your tin man ass, and he's shaped like a salt and pepper shaker FFS!
rinaz bijoux
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12-02-2004 06:00
From: Garoad Kuroda
Where did that come from? lol!


Had it custom made from a swahili friend :)
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Kris Ritter
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12-02-2004 06:01
From: Garoad Kuroda
Where did that come from? lol!


I have a voodoo doll too. Unfortunately it doesnt work when evoking to represent the spirit of an avatar in Second Life, and doesn't work if you don't know the person behind the avatar. If it did, that bitch would be done for. Yeah, you know who I'm talking about. Uhuh.
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Trinity Serpentine
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12-02-2004 06:46
*hugs Willow and punches the shitstirrer*
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Madiera Westerburg
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12-02-2004 07:22
sends lots of love an soothin mummy comfort to willowwwwww
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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
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12-02-2004 07:23
aww thanks guys.. my eye has now stopped twitching, my fists are unclenched and in 8 mins its HOME TIME... but by GUM some ppl have been TWATS on here today... good job I ain't in a sharing mood or I would have told them so :p
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