A little plea from the heart =)

Guys, I just wanted to say a quick something about Willow Zander and the problems she's been having with her new sim (slootsville).

You all know how much it costs to run a sim, and how much effort, and she allowed certain people to stay on it as a personal favour to the previous owner. That they then had problems with the new occupants - people who Willow had chosen as her friends and SL family to live on the land she now owns - is NOT her fault.

Please give her a break - she's not done a thing wrong, she's not set out to upset anyone and she certainly didn't say an unpleasant word to or about a soul over the matter. Please extend her the same courtesy - she deserves it. This is upsetting her a lot and I don't like seeing my sis upset - you're not gonna meet a better person anywhere on the grid, she deserves better than to be persecuted for other people's issues

^_^

I'm Nora Belvedere and I approve this message

anybody named willow and zander has to be okay in my book.

In fact, she thinks it's awesome.

Anyone who thinks Willow Z is a "bad" person and does not care are just talking out of there As*! Willow Z is a great person and I for one am very happy to know my fellow sl00t. Willow Z hun, I'll make it a point to come and visit Friday asap and we will talk (you can give me a tour of your place too) or just Yahoo me baby if ya like. Lately my RL and SL schedule have been keeping me booked quite a bit. Have'nt had time to even shop as much as I would like to lately. Keep the faith my dear lady, as I and a lot of us have faith in you....... HUGGERS

P.S: Thank You Willow C for posting this. Much apreciated..........


On Working Hard:
"Do television evengelists do more than lay people?" - Stanley Ralph Ross

It would kind of help if there weren't so many condescending know-alls ready to try and bully people into having the content THEY want to build and see on YOUR new sim.

I was over at Slootsville with Willow the other day, and I tell ya, if some of those asshats had behaved the way they did to her on my sim they'd have been booted and banned.

Some friends some of them are!

Bottom line: It's her sim. She pays for it. She can do whatever the hell she likes with it. She's letting you do stuff on it out of the kindness of her heart because she's that kinda person. So STFU and be grateful instead of whining about it, you leeches!

You can always go somewhere else, you know? I'm sure there will be another private island along any minute now you can go suck up to the owner of to get something for nothing?

LOLOLOL

OMG Now that was a perfect responce Kris..... Well done.......... *Applause*


"Fall is my favorite season in Los Angeles, watching the birds change color and fall from the trees." - david Letterman

Hey Guys,

Thanks for all your kind words, It means alot to me to know I am not entirely hated by the community

It's a shame that we can't all get along n sh*t, but well c'est la vie I guess, I am hoping soon my sim will a lovely christmas wonderland, prolly in time for easter

Love you guys

*hugs*

Awwr! *hugs*

Willow, you're really NOT hated by the community. We wuvs ya!

If you need any help cutting asshat leeching morons down to size, gimme a shout. Don't let people bully you and belittle your plans and stuff in your own sim! Those kind of people are not your friends, because your friends would support you. Boot their asses out, and put them on the ban list! Along with anyone else that gives you trouble. You have no obligation to anyone to put up with asshattery, especially when you're doing people a favour.

Awww ty Kris,

I guess at the end of the day my family and friends, the people I really care about will stick by me and not freak out on me cos of things, so pfft, I have a wedding to deal with before I worry about the sim..

BTW Kris, pop over and see what Joshua's done with his mountain/volcanoey thing, its freaking awesome

Miss you Willow Caldera

Hey Willow (Z), I didn't know you had a new sim all of your very own, I'll come by and say Hi

**Congratulations*** on your new home : enjoy it, love it, do whatever you want with it !

I don't know the background of what the problems are you've been having, it sounds like you've just got caught in the crossfire. Don't let it get to you...

*huggs* from me

HUGGERS

Kris is absolutly right hun. Your TRUE friends will watch your back and support you, especially through trying times. I am sure Kris, myself, and others would be very happy to visit these folks and teach em what the word RESPECT means. A person who craps in another persons home on purpose IS crap in my opinion, and deserve no less then to wiped up like the crap they appear to be.

Just say the word hun, and we'll tie them all to trees and let you shoot arrowas into there as*es (or anywhere elce you want to aim for lol). You are not hated by the community at all! We love you hun and it pains us to see you suffer needlessly on your OWN sim no less.


"This is my house and my rules! If you don't like it, don't let the door hit ya where God split ya!" - My father speaking to my Sister on a very bad day......

Most of them are being ok, I actually feel for them, Realities End was their home, but now it's Slootsville, and I have to think of my own SL family and friends, before considering someone elses.

Realities End was a indeed a beautiful, wonderful place, and I adored it as it was, BUT, it was Ark's dream, I have all the furry av's and think they are kyoot as the next person, but I am not a furry, I be SLOOT , as do my family, we are all about the fun, I don't think the name, terrain change, and new tenants went down well, but as stated I did pay for the sim, I now pay the monthly fees, and I have every right to do as I wish, it's just a shame I cannot please everybody

Ark is a great guy, we did each other a favour by the sim transfer to me, and he is happy to live with us and be a furry sloot!

I had a long chat with one particular person last night, and she was very upset, as was I, I didn't want anyone to leave, but alas, sh*te happens...

I hope the people that left find their place, and live very happily, and have very happy holidays

*hugs to all*

You've moved into Realities End, Willow ?

I had no idea that sim was even up for transfer, I can see why it must be a difficult situation as that was a beautiful place which seemed to have a strong community when I visited.

Hoping it all works out well for all of you....

Yes Dee,

Ark needed rid, I wanted a sim, we were both happy bunny's with the transaction.

And yes it was a very strong community, but then so is my family and friend's

I could have left it all the way it was, and some features still stand, but it wouldn't have been *my* home...

I just don't feel I can win whatever I do, it truly has become one big nightmare, owning a sim is not what it's cracked up to be

Willow,

The trick is to not let people make it a nightmare for you! You hafta lay down the law, and anyone who doesn't like your way can go play somewhere else. And If their friends dont like that, they can all play somewhere else too!

You don't pay all that money so people can try and bully you into banning your own friends, so that the old community can fight with the new community of your own friends, and so that people can start spreading drahma and being petty.

It's your sim. If they can't respect that, respect your wishes and respect your friends, then they don't deserve your kindness.

Don't stand for it. Really... because one of the BEST things about having a private island is that you can lock yourself away on it and forget about the asshats once you've banished them for all eternity. Mwahahaha.

But for your own sake, hon, do NOT let them make you miserable.

</pep talk>

Change is hard, it will pass, and things will settle down again.

I went through some land transfer drama a while ago which left a very bad taste in my mouth - but things moved on.....I now have my own little island and love it dearly and am happy again.

I'm really saddened to hear of the demise of Realities End as I loved it and met some lovely people there and they know who they are, but...

I really feel for you as I wouldn't like to be caught up in the dilemma of what you are going through, because at the end of the day as I said before, having bought it, it is your home to do with as you please and you must make it as such.

I can sense that you care for the people concerned and are taking it to heart, but it's a sad fact that "You can never please everybody all of the time".

It'll be OK in the end, you'll see.

Be Happy Willow

*hugs*

Willow,

You've been given very good advice already, so I have nothing constructive to add, other than to wish you all the best, and hope that in time you will really enjoy your new sim.

Take care, and don't let them get to you.

Selador

I endorse this thread ! Hugz Willow, I'll be around soon to see your new queendom! Take Kris' advice, if they are donning the asshat repeatedly or even just once in vigor, ban their asses. It is your sim, and pass me their names too so the previous Willowtown can wear their names in the list as well

*hugs to all*

BIG GROUP HUGS!!

Can ya feel da wub!! Da wub is all ya need!!!



<3 <3 <3 you guys <3 <3 <3

Hugs Willow! Ya know I love you girl.

Hang in there, do what makes you feel good. It's your land, you need to enjoy it.

Bah! Them's crazy words!!

*HUGS* Willow!! I don't know the whole situation, but I know I have always liked you. Chin up and smile that beautiful smile!

Willow (z) I have only known you to be kind and supportive!! What are these folks thinking? Just remind them gently that you are the Slootsville Goddess and they should really be nicer to you seeing as how they are living there!! Send them over here to the forum if they bother you - or - better yet, have the next forum event at Slootsville and invite them too. I have a few 'furry' avs that I like to wear - we may win them over yet!

So if i don a say.. ear 'muff' will I be furry ??