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April Chung
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04-01-2005 10:35
If a female is involved in two relationships at once and she is sleeping with both guys, should she be consider a whore?


And no its not me that the question is asking.
Kris Ritter
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04-01-2005 10:36
From: April Chung
If a female is involved in two relationships at once and she is sleeping with both guys, should she be consider a whore?


And no its not me that the question is asking.


She should be considered pressed for time, I should think :p
April Chung
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04-01-2005 10:39
From: Kris Ritter
She should be considered pressed for time, I should think :p


Hell yeah she would be press for time
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04-01-2005 10:44
a whore has sex for money by definition, so since you said 'relationships' the answer is NO.
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04-01-2005 10:49
From: April Chung
If a female is involved in two relationships at once and she is sleeping with both guys, should she be consider a whore?


And no its not me that the question is asking.


Sleeping with them seperately = a busy girl

Sleeping with them together = hmmm, some might qualify that as slut but I'd just consider it adventureous. :D


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Liona Clio
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04-01-2005 11:03
Well, if:

A: A whore is a girl who has sex for money
B: The girl is pressed for time between two lovers
C: Time is money

Then I guess she's a whore. :P Although I think the proper SL term is "Escort". ;)
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April Chung
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04-01-2005 11:23
I guess you look at it either way.
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04-01-2005 11:26
From: April Chung
If a female is involved in two relationships at once and she is sleeping with both guys, should she be consider a whore?



Can I have her phone number?
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04-01-2005 11:32
From: April Chung
If a female is involved in two relationships at once and she is sleeping with both guys, should she be consider a whore?


And no its not me that the question is asking.



No..but is she being honest? Do the two men know about one another?

As long as the relationships are all up front and honest..more power to her!
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Juro Kothari
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04-01-2005 11:38
From: April Chung
If a female is involved in two relationships at once and she is sleeping with both guys, should she be consider a whore?


And no its not me that the question is asking.

I would say no. Whore is such a nasty little label that I feel is used to chastize someone's sexual lifestyle and activities because someone objects to it. Basically, it's being judgemental.
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April Chung
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04-01-2005 11:39
From: David Valentino
No..but is she being honest? Do the two men know about one another?

As long as the relationships are all up front and honest..more power to her!


I dont have a clue if the men know each other. I was reading a article in a teen magazine. And the girl that was asking the question is only 15 years old.

Just comes to show you that we need talk to our kid more.
Aimee Weber
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04-01-2005 11:46
Juro said it best for me. Why is it important to find the right label for this girl? She need to be filed in the proper folder?

If she is claiming to be faithful to one or both of these guys then I would say she is a liar and a cheat. That is about the only term I can think up about her. But if she is being open and honest about her intensions and a good time is being had by all...then I would save my wrathful judgement for the person that deems it necessary to call her a whore.
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04-01-2005 11:48
From: April Chung
If a female is involved in two relationships at once and she is sleeping with both guys, should she be consider a whore?
And no its not me that the question is asking.

No April but she better damn well practice safe sex - and full disclosure.

Let the Phonemes flow!

:D
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April Chung
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04-01-2005 16:17
From: Merwan Marker
No April but she better damn well practice safe sex - and full disclosure.

Let the Phonemes flow!

:D

Thats is so true but you have parents out there that dont talk to there kids about having safe sex.
Juro Kothari
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04-01-2005 16:37
From: April Chung
Thats is so true but you have parents out there that dont talk to there kids about having safe sex.

SHAME on those parents!

Hear this all current and future parents: You OWE it to talk to your children about sex. Don't be one-sided about it and don't think it will not manifest in your little angel if you don't talk about it. Talk about responsibility, STD's, contraception, abstinence, etc. Don't be selective.. just lay it all out there.

As a someday-to-be-parent, I would MUCH rather talk about sex topics than have my child end up in a worst case scenario and *know* I could've done more to help prevent the outcome.
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04-01-2005 16:51
She is a multitasker and clearly pretty damn good at it.
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Juro Kothari
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04-01-2005 16:52
From: Aimee Weber
Why is it important to find the right label for this girl?

Aimee brings up a really good topic. Why is it that we have this label? We don't have one for men. A man who sleeps around is considered lucky, not a whore. I think its a little sexist and not warranted.

I don't have any issues if someone enjoys having sex. More power to them. I have problems with those that lie and cheat, but a little (or a lot) of nookie?? pffft, I say.
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Lo Jacobs
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04-01-2005 17:09
Listen, not to be mean or nasty about things, but is anyone else getting a "minor" vibe here? Like a big red siren alarm?
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Kasandra Morgan
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04-01-2005 18:04
No
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04-01-2005 18:09
From: Kasandra Morgan
No


Mmmkay 'cause I'm definitely getting it.
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04-01-2005 18:10
There's some 'inner core' happenin there - but is it feted?
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04-02-2005 08:51
From: Lo Jacobs
Listen, not to be mean or nasty about things, but is anyone else getting a "minor" vibe here? Like a big red siren alarm?



yes
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04-02-2005 08:57
From: Lo Jacobs
Listen, not to be mean or nasty about things, but is anyone else getting a "minor" vibe here? Like a big red siren alarm?


Lo I anin't no minor!

:cool:
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04-02-2005 16:02
Slut: (n) someone who's getting more sex than you are. :D

Not much to add, here. As long as things are open, honest, and safe, I don't see the problem. Going behind others' backs, however, is something that just ends up hurting everyone involved.

From: someone
And the girl that was asking the question is only 15 years old.


That could be why someone's minor-sense is tingling. :)
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04-03-2005 12:20
From: April Chung
If a female is involved in two relationships at once and she is sleeping with both guys, should she be consider a whore?


And no its not me that the question is asking.


Only if a guy sleeping with two people can be called a HE-whore. :p
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