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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
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05-16-2005 12:16
*bangs head against desk*
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Wuvme Karuna
..:: Spicy Latina ::..
Join date: 6 Jun 2004
Posts: 1,669
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05-16-2005 12:16
the stalker im talking about, she came to my land when the "Ban" list had bugs, where it allowed ppl in my ban list to come...
i called lindens they did nothing.. so i had to take my shotgun out hehe u know what happens next ![]() _____________________
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Rice Cohen
The Girl Next Door
Join date: 31 Aug 2004
Posts: 143
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05-16-2005 12:16
No what I meaaaaaaaaan, is that if you have an indivudual muted, you should automatically decline ANYTHING they send you... I wasn't being bitchy, calm down She sounds pretty calm to me.. maybe you need to calm down.. no one said you were being bitchy - aside .. you cant accept or decline note cards.. i know this.. because thats how my business work.. Note cards pop up automatically.. YOU CAN DISCARD them.. and they end up in your trash. but they do POP up on your screen.. as do photographs. _____________________
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Alan Edison
Ty Zvezda
Join date: 28 Jun 2004
Posts: 420
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05-16-2005 12:17
No what I meaaaaaaaaan, is that if you have an indivudual muted, they system should automatically decline ANYTHING they send you, therefore could be a bug... I wasn't being bitchy, calm down RICKY, RICKY, RICKY!!! let's call in auntie trisha, she'll make it all better ![]() _____________________
Ty Zvezda
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Gabby Cohen
Registered User
Join date: 1 Sep 2004
Posts: 32
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I Am Unforgettable!!!!!
05-16-2005 12:18
People take things way too personally.. Some ppl like to think that EVERYTHING is always ABOUT THEM - good or bad.. *sigh* and mike.. thats what i did with jake.. and i continue to do it.. SOME DAY.. lol someday.. " If you love something - set it free.. if it comes back it was meant to be.. if not.. HUNT IT DOWN AND KILL HIM" .. aside from that.. good story Gabby .. you should be thrilled that some people think you're still worth their time LOL.. I guess you really are UNFORGETTABLE! LOL u know it girl ![]() |
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Rice Cohen
The Girl Next Door
Join date: 31 Aug 2004
Posts: 143
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05-16-2005 12:18
Alan.. dont you have kidneys waiting for you. LOL
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Gabby Cohen
Registered User
Join date: 1 Sep 2004
Posts: 32
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05-16-2005 12:19
*bangs head against desk* hmm... I think the you are the one that needs to calm down... lol... i aint the one banging my head against the desk, am i? lol |
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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
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05-16-2005 12:20
She sounds pretty calm to me.. maybe you need to calm down.. no one said you were being bitchy - aside .. you cant accept or decline note cards.. i know this.. because thats how my business work.. Note cards pop up automatically.. YOU CAN DISCARD them.. and they end up in your trash. but they do POP up on your screen.. as do photographs. Ah ok, well I am pretty damn calm, i've had the day off, i'm UBER relaxed... ANYHOO, yeah I completely forgot you have to discard them, and they don't just fook off without you clicking the discard button, MY BAD, I've never muted anyone myself, so I was just going from what other ppl had said! SOS _____________________
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Eva Virgo
Registered User
Join date: 23 Jun 2004
Posts: 76
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05-16-2005 12:20
Imagine if you will someone who is obsessed with you and won't leave you alone. Imagine someone who spreads ill rumours about you. Imagine someone who makes veiled and direct threats to you. Imagine your SL social life ruined because you never know if some new person you meet is that someone in disguise. Imagine this happening to you and maybe you'll stop laughing about stalking.
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Canimal Zephyr
Mentally Ill
Join date: 16 Sep 2004
Posts: 705
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05-16-2005 12:21
ok get over ur bs subtext the only person willow stalks is me & thats only cos im naked haf the time
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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
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05-16-2005 12:21
hmm... I think the you are the one that needs to calm down... lol... i aint the one banging my head against the desk, am i? lolTrue, told you i'm tired, maybe I need sleeping pills or maybe I just have a nice padded desk? Meh now i'm totally not making ANY sense_____________________
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Alan Edison
Ty Zvezda
Join date: 28 Jun 2004
Posts: 420
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05-16-2005 12:21
Alan.. dont you have kidneys waiting for you. LOL god damnit, yea im gettin emails from sl saying their waiting... if LL dont get their act together the damn kidneys will have fermented and turned to kidney wine damnit... oooh, i could start a business.. celebs do lingerie.. I DO KIDNEY WINE!!! _____________________
Ty Zvezda
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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
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05-16-2005 12:23
Imagine if you will someone who is obsessed with you and won't leave you alone. Imagine someone who spreads ill rumours about you. Imagine someone who makes veiled and direct threats to you. Imagine your SL social life ruined because you never know if some new person you meet is that someone in disguise. Imagine this happening to you and maybe you'll stop laughing about stalking. Yeah, thats the one thing about being able to have alts, ppl can abuse that function SO badly, i've found out in the past ppl that have been really REALLY friendly with me are just alts of ppl that wanted to get close to ppl I hung around with, just to find out what was being said etc. Stalking isn't really funny, SL or RL, cos some ppl don't know when to draw the line, Mike's right, just never give out your personal details no matter HOW close you think you are to someone, cos it can get really really nasty. _____________________
*I'm not ready for the world outside...I keep pretending, but I just can't hide...* <3 Giddeon's <3 |
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Rice Cohen
The Girl Next Door
Join date: 31 Aug 2004
Posts: 143
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05-16-2005 12:24
Imagine if you will someone who is obsessed with you and won't leave you alone. Imagine someone who spreads ill rumours about you. Imagine someone who makes veiled and direct threats to you. Imagine your SL social life ruined because you never know if some new person you meet is that someone in disguise. Imagine this happening to you and maybe you'll stop laughing about stalking. Eva.. i do understand what you're saying. And im not making light of the very serious situations. Believe it or not - i do know people that are very paranoid in game because of certain people that wont leave them alone.. But i do refuse to sit back and be too scared to enjoy myself. This isnt just a funny poll about stalking - because stalking is very serious issue - however, this is a pole to serve notice to those who set out and make SL hell for me and my friends.. and anyone else .. a msg to the stalkers if you will - I aint scared - and i will find humor in just about any situation. Thats how i deal with whack jobs in game. Im sorry - your in game experience (im assuming from your post) im sorry its degenerated to less than fun.. but if you stop laughing now, you're never gonna be able to laugh later.. If you stop now, then THEY have won.. Do you really want that? _____________________
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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
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05-16-2005 12:24
ok get over ur bs subtext the only person willow stalks is me & thats only cos im naked haf the time Your not naked now HMPH cos I am in SL and your NOT!!!! Someone come innnnnnnnnnnnnnn. _____________________
*I'm not ready for the world outside...I keep pretending, but I just can't hide...* <3 Giddeon's <3 |
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Gabby Cohen
Registered User
Join date: 1 Sep 2004
Posts: 32
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05-16-2005 12:24
Imagine if you will someone who is obsessed with you and won't leave you alone. Imagine someone who spreads ill rumours about you. Imagine someone who makes veiled and direct threats to you. Imagine your SL social life ruined because you never know if some new person you meet is that someone in disguise. Imagine this happening to you and maybe you'll stop laughing about stalking. *sigh* Eva... i feel ur pain... 3 times i had to change my AVs name and the 3 times i was found by a "stalker"! .... Its sad how ppl just DONT give up... ![]() |
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Marilyn Murphy
Obeys Her Toaster
Join date: 23 Jul 2003
Posts: 361
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05-16-2005 12:25
back in a simpler time in sl, yes, i miss the old days and i dont care who dont like it that i do, i was stalked now and then, and it was sort of amusing. more of a pesky suitor now and then. well, after a time, this stopped, and no one stalked me for a bit, and i was jokingly complaining that nobody was stalking me any more.
so to take up the slack i hired malachi to stalk me. i must say, he did a good job at times, would show up in a trenchcoat with his hat cocked just so, would lurk nearby, he even had his own bush to lurk in. it was terribly funny and i am sure u had to be there to appreciate it, but, those of u who want a stalker, i can reccommend him. eventually i had to fire him tho, he started whining about the money i had promised to pay him or something i dunno. i mean like, stalking me wasnt joy enuff, he wanted the money i had told him i would pay him?? gasp. there thats a stalker story. and i even named names. so sayeth: marilyn _____________________
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Willow Zander
Having Blahgasms
Join date: 22 May 2004
Posts: 9,935
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05-16-2005 12:27
Eva.. i do understand what you're saying. And im not making light of the very serious situations. Believe it or not - i do know people that are very paranoid in game because of certain people that wont leave them alone.. But i do refuse to sit back and be too scared to enjoy myself. This isnt just a funny poll about stalking - because stalking is very serious issue - however, this is a pole to serve notice to those who set out and make SL hell for me and my friends.. and anyone else .. a msg to the stalkers if you will - I aint scared - and i will find humor in just about any situation. Thats how i deal with whack jobs in game. Im sorry - your in game experience (im assuming from your post) im sorry its degenerated to less than fun.. but if you stop laughing now, you're never gonna be able to laugh later.. If you stop now, then THEY have won.. Do you really want that? I agree with you here Rice, nobody should make your SL that unbearable or unenjoyable that you have to leave, cos that really is just taking things too far, not much Lindens can do about IW stalkers tho, unless they harass you constantly via IM, Chat or Notecards, being in the same area doesn't really apply. I think we have all had times where we say FUCK IT, and jump on an alt, or consider leaving, but at the end of the day, if these ppl are trying to run you outta SL by bugging you, hit the hell back and stay and piss em off , cos that'll hurt em more in the long run for sure._____________________
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Ashley Raine
Antisocial
Join date: 8 Jan 2005
Posts: 16
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05-16-2005 12:27
the stalker im talking about, she came to my land when the "Ban" list had bugs, where it allowed ppl in my ban list to come... i called lindens they did nothing.. so i had to take my shotgun out hehe u know what happens next ![]() Lindens are good for... well, nvm.. I better be good.. they get cranky when they're pretending to fix problems. And I agree with Rice.. your clothes rock! I think I own almost every outfit in your store... I'm not a stalker.... but I am a shopaholic *hangs head in shame* LOL |
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Arbel Vogel
Burstin' w/Fruit Flavor
Join date: 17 Oct 2004
Posts: 1,155
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05-16-2005 12:28
panda stalked me until he got close enough to handcuff our wrists together.
Then after a month of him not feeding me I was able to get my boney wrist out and fleeeeeeeeeee! I snuck away while he was paying attention to one of his regular escorts ![]() _____________________
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Canimal Zephyr
Mentally Ill
Join date: 16 Sep 2004
Posts: 705
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05-16-2005 12:28
Imagine if you will someone who is obsessed with you and won't leave you alone. Imagine someone who spreads ill rumours about you. Imagine someone who makes veiled and direct threats to you. Imagine your SL social life ruined because you never know if some new person you meet is that someone in disguise. Imagine this happening to you and maybe you'll stop laughing about stalking. forget someone in disguise i had a friend hide a bug in my home & broadcast my private conversations to an entire sim. ppl r sh*t. _____________________
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Rice Cohen
The Girl Next Door
Join date: 31 Aug 2004
Posts: 143
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05-16-2005 12:29
Yeh.. hence Im still here - Hence my friends are still here.. I dont allow any one to run ANY of my friends out.. Now if only THE STALKERS - would get the damn hint..
Awww well.. makes for good conversation. Stalk away _____________________
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Rice Cohen
The Girl Next Door
Join date: 31 Aug 2004
Posts: 143
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05-16-2005 12:30
Lindens are good for... well, nvm.. I better be good.. they get cranky when they're pretending to fix problems. And I agree with Rice.. your clothes rock! I think I own almost every outfit in your store... I'm not a stalker.... but I am a shopaholic *hangs head in shame* LOL you ARE a stalker.. and you only buy her clothes so you CAN stalk her *nods* _____________________
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Gabby Cohen
Registered User
Join date: 1 Sep 2004
Posts: 32
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05-16-2005 12:31
forget someone in disguise i had a friend hide a bug in my home & broadcast my private conversations to an entire sim. ppl r sh*t. OMG!!! sounds like what happened to us... this guy taking advantage of our friendship towards him, he put a snoopy device on our land to find out what we were saying!!!! why didnt i ever realize how sick ppl could be!!!! |
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Ryntha Suavage
Kitten
Join date: 4 Jul 2004
Posts: 419
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05-16-2005 12:32
I have never been stalked online/offline in any shape, way, or form. I am truly baffled by this phenomenon because I am a very honest person! I am not some freakish creature, when I am at the bus stop or on the streets people do come to me and sit and have a nice conversation with me. *shrugs* I feel sorry for those who do have to go through it, but I cannot understand it myself. Unless you collect enemies online or outright lie about how you feel about someone I really cannot see why anyone would stalk you in a scary sense. I was/am no more cautious than anyone else and I am certainly not the most intelligent woman on the planet. I haven't known a single person who was seriously stalked and this may be why I am naive about this. Everything becomes much more real when you or someone you know well experiences it. I have talked to people who say they were stalked, but most of the time it sounds to me like they are simply using it as a scapegoat so they can distance and lie about themselves. I know this probably is not the case, but it is something I question. Sometimes I wish I did have “stalkers” because it seems like every woman I have a conversation with has had a few. I question what makes me different from them and sometimes I think it may be a “bad” thing since I am not part of the normal. And that’s why I voted “STALK? I wanna be stalked!!”
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