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Antagonistic Protagonist

Zeta

Join date: 29 Jun 2003

Posts: 467

11-19-2003 06:23

Wow, look at all those people that listed themselves on the "have been done list".

Frankie, I dont see how you could have possibly had time to sleep with all ... (hold on let me count) .. erm, zero people.

Goes to show how much attention one should pay to rumors.

-AP

Eddie Escher

Builder of things...

Join date: 11 Jul 2003

Posts: 461

11-19-2003 07:28

Don't know you well Frankie, but you were one of the first people I met IW on my trial way back... you were very nice to me (no, not in THAT way...sheesh) and that earns a place on my 'nice people, definately not slutty' list!

Ignore the bugger, mute 'em.... hell - lemme know who they are so I can mute 'em too lol

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Briana Dawson

Attach to Mouth

Join date: 23 Sep 2003

Posts: 5,855

original post deleted by edit.

11-19-2003 07:30

I've deleted this message because it was based on a misunderstanding which was improper for me to bring out here.

Sorry for the misunderstanding Candie Apple

Briana Dawson

Skrull Money

Member

Join date: 8 Aug 2003

Posts: 40

11-19-2003 10:26

Well this is a rough issue, Shadow and Frankie are both very good friends of mine, Im going to do what i did when my parents split up, Not take sides. People say things they dont always mean when their hurt. And if everyone is just going to pick on shadow now, you need to grow up. Also im not saying frankie is wrong for being hurt, just that noone really knows what happened but the 2 people that this deals with.

This is one reason I will never have a SL Fling. My RL gielfriend is enough work, Both of us have said mean things to eachother before, but didnt get others involved.

Frankie, im sorry things didnt work out with you to, and i wish your feelings were not hurt, however, Shadow is a good person, that just like you, i value as a friend. And if there is a bandwagon ppl are jumping on to make life for shadow hard, like I said before, Grow Up. Life can suck. And yes, so can SL

Sassy Apple

Senior Member

Join date: 24 Feb 2003

Posts: 62

11-19-2003 10:48

ok So you go out with Shadow and ya'll break up so you starta thread about him because you think someone called you a slut? what place does this thread really have here than to air dirty laundry and make you look good maybe? and him look bad.. whatever happened between you and Shadow is jus that between the 2 of you and has no place being aired here , if you wanna go around bashing him because he broke up with in SL that your business.. but what is really the piont of bringing it here? that's just a lil messed up

odalisque VonLenard

3rd Lifer

Join date: 1 May 2003

Posts: 84

Rumors or cry for attention?

11-19-2003 11:08

I have sat here and watched this thread go on as long as I can without posting to it. Shadow moved his store next door to me about a week ago and has not been in SL alot since then but I have talked to him several times... I have offerred to be a sounding board and a friend as he may need, I have questioned he and Frankie breaking up and some of the things I have seen recently.... Shadows reply regarding Frankie has been and I will quote "I made a bad judgement call, I won't speak ill of Frankie, I just made a bad personal judgement call"

The first I have heard of any rumor about Frankie being a slut or otherwise has been here on this thread that she herself started, in what looks like an attempt to justify herself by making someone else look bad. These forums are not h ere for this type of thing, dirty laundry between two people should be kept there, not drug thru the mud to make it look worse. SO I would suggest that the parties directly involved place eachother on mute, delete eachothers cards and move on with your secondlives. I ask all of you who replied to this post that if you haven't heard the rumor from anyone but here on this thread or as result of this thread that you take it at face value and forget it, if you did hear the rumor in world, just don't take participation in spreading it, rumors die pretty quickly without anything to fueling it.

As for Shadow and Frankie, I don't know Frankie personally so have no personal comments or issues with her. Shadow on the other hand has been a friend way back to Beta days, I think most people who know Shadow personally in world and has known him for any real length of time knows him to be a person of integrity.

I look forward to a very long and happy secondlife, please keep the dirty laundry in place

Laugh, smile, move on and have fun

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"You better lose yourself in the music, the moment
You own it, you better never let it go
You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow
This opportunity comes once in a lifetime yo." Eminem

Devlin Gallant

Thought Police

Join date: 18 Jun 2003

Posts: 5,948

11-19-2003 11:53

From: someone

Well.. It's just like when you go some place in SL for the first time, and do not know what the place is you discovered, and you see the owner there.. You greet the owner: "Hi! Can you please tell me what this place is for?" and that person responds "Why?" and then never speaks another word to you and then of course you learn on your own later that it's the Bingo Boardwalk. I didnt understand this.. Perhaps that may not be considered cruel by some.. But it definetly is not friendly, and doesn't make a person feel wanted or liked at all. It's so easy to be mean and callous and far harder to be nice. It's very different to see a person be nice and acting caring to others, and then for some unknown reason, be mean or rude to others for know known reason. Briana Dawson

Briana, you should never assume that when this happens a person is deliberately being rude to you. There are far too many legitimate reasons why this could happen. Person may have had to leave the comp quickley to answer the phone, door, or take care of some small RL emergancy. They may be having computer issues and are unable to respond, or can no longer see you, or your typing. I myself have struck up conversations with people, talk to them for a few minutes, and finally realized the reason they aren't tlaking is because it's a ghost. Some folks may be in IM hell. Some folks when scripting or building have so many screens up they can't see you. They simply may be AFK. Trust me, I have been on both sides of this issue, and I can't recall any incident when the person was deliberately being rude.

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Frankie Beach

Beatch

Join date: 4 Jul 2003

Posts: 27

get the point

11-19-2003 14:52

hello... i never trashed shadow nor said what went on between us for all u know we could still be together duhhhhh
all i said is i was "deemed a slut"

Where did i say shadow called me slut??? *glasses ppl*

jeeshus and oda i dunno u but heard enuf i dun want to either
"bad judgement call" lmao
cute tho i like it!

skrull u are right he is a great person and moral and righteous hope i grow up like him someday

ok skip to next drama drop this jeesh was a joke!

Skrull Money

Member

Join date: 8 Aug 2003

Posts: 40

11-19-2003 15:15

Frankie called me a slut! pfffft! well, actually...

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Antagonistic Protagonist Zeta Join date: 29 Jun 2003 Posts: 467	11-19-2003 06:23 Wow, look at all those people that listed themselves on the "have been done list". Frankie, I dont see how you could have possibly had time to sleep with all ... (hold on let me count) .. erm, zero people. Goes to show how much attention one should pay to rumors. -AP
Eddie Escher Builder of things... Join date: 11 Jul 2003 Posts: 461	11-19-2003 07:28 Don't know you well Frankie, but you were one of the first people I met IW on my trial way back... you were very nice to me (no, not in THAT way...sheesh) and that earns a place on my 'nice people, definately not slutty' list! Ignore the bugger, mute 'em.... hell - lemme know who they are so I can mute 'em too lol _____________________ Eddie Escher ...apparently 3 out of 4 people make up 75% of the population here... Eddie Escher Gadgets & Skins: Hotei and Seacliff
Briana Dawson Attach to Mouth Join date: 23 Sep 2003 Posts: 5,855	original post deleted by edit. 11-19-2003 07:30 I've deleted this message because it was based on a misunderstanding which was improper for me to bring out here. Sorry for the misunderstanding Candie Apple Briana Dawson
Skrull Money Member Join date: 8 Aug 2003 Posts: 40	11-19-2003 10:26 Well this is a rough issue, Shadow and Frankie are both very good friends of mine, Im going to do what i did when my parents split up, Not take sides. People say things they dont always mean when their hurt. And if everyone is just going to pick on shadow now, you need to grow up. Also im not saying frankie is wrong for being hurt, just that noone really knows what happened but the 2 people that this deals with. This is one reason I will never have a SL Fling. My RL gielfriend is enough work, Both of us have said mean things to eachother before, but didnt get others involved. Frankie, im sorry things didnt work out with you to, and i wish your feelings were not hurt, however, Shadow is a good person, that just like you, i value as a friend. And if there is a bandwagon ppl are jumping on to make life for shadow hard, like I said before, Grow Up. Life can suck. And yes, so can SL
Sassy Apple Senior Member Join date: 24 Feb 2003 Posts: 62	11-19-2003 10:48 ok So you go out with Shadow and ya'll break up so you starta thread about him because you think someone called you a slut? what place does this thread really have here than to air dirty laundry and make you look good maybe? and him look bad.. whatever happened between you and Shadow is jus that between the 2 of you and has no place being aired here , if you wanna go around bashing him because he broke up with in SL that your business.. but what is really the piont of bringing it here? that's just a lil messed up
odalisque VonLenard 3rd Lifer Join date: 1 May 2003 Posts: 84	Rumors or cry for attention? 11-19-2003 11:08 I have sat here and watched this thread go on as long as I can without posting to it. Shadow moved his store next door to me about a week ago and has not been in SL alot since then but I have talked to him several times... I have offerred to be a sounding board and a friend as he may need, I have questioned he and Frankie breaking up and some of the things I have seen recently.... Shadows reply regarding Frankie has been and I will quote "I made a bad judgement call, I won't speak ill of Frankie, I just made a bad personal judgement call" The first I have heard of any rumor about Frankie being a slut or otherwise has been here on this thread that she herself started, in what looks like an attempt to justify herself by making someone else look bad. These forums are not h ere for this type of thing, dirty laundry between two people should be kept there, not drug thru the mud to make it look worse. SO I would suggest that the parties directly involved place eachother on mute, delete eachothers cards and move on with your secondlives. I ask all of you who replied to this post that if you haven't heard the rumor from anyone but here on this thread or as result of this thread that you take it at face value and forget it, if you did hear the rumor in world, just don't take participation in spreading it, rumors die pretty quickly without anything to fueling it. As for Shadow and Frankie, I don't know Frankie personally so have no personal comments or issues with her. Shadow on the other hand has been a friend way back to Beta days, I think most people who know Shadow personally in world and has known him for any real length of time knows him to be a person of integrity. I look forward to a very long and happy secondlife, please keep the dirty laundry in place Laugh, smile, move on and have fun _____________________ Life is short, so get a second one, I did! "You better lose yourself in the music, the moment You own it, you better never let it go You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow This opportunity comes once in a lifetime yo." Eminem
Devlin Gallant Thought Police Join date: 18 Jun 2003 Posts: 5,948	11-19-2003 11:53 From: someone Well.. It's just like when you go some place in SL for the first time, and do not know what the place is you discovered, and you see the owner there.. You greet the owner: "Hi! Can you please tell me what this place is for?" and that person responds "Why?" and then never speaks another word to you and then of course you learn on your own later that it's the Bingo Boardwalk. I didnt understand this.. Perhaps that may not be considered cruel by some.. But it definetly is not friendly, and doesn't make a person feel wanted or liked at all. It's so easy to be mean and callous and far harder to be nice. It's very different to see a person be nice and acting caring to others, and then for some unknown reason, be mean or rude to others for know known reason. Briana Dawson Briana, you should never assume that when this happens a person is deliberately being rude to you. There are far too many legitimate reasons why this could happen. Person may have had to leave the comp quickley to answer the phone, door, or take care of some small RL emergancy. They may be having computer issues and are unable to respond, or can no longer see you, or your typing. I myself have struck up conversations with people, talk to them for a few minutes, and finally realized the reason they aren't tlaking is because it's a ghost. Some folks may be in IM hell. Some folks when scripting or building have so many screens up they can't see you. They simply may be AFK. Trust me, I have been on both sides of this issue, and I can't recall any incident when the person was deliberately being rude. _____________________ I LIKE children, I've just never been able to finish a whole one.
Frankie Beach Beatch Join date: 4 Jul 2003 Posts: 27	get the point 11-19-2003 14:52 hello... i never trashed shadow nor said what went on between us for all u know we could still be together duhhhhh all i said is i was "deemed a slut" Where did i say shadow called me slut??? glasses ppl jeeshus and oda i dunno u but heard enuf i dun want to either "bad judgement call" lmao cute tho i like it! skrull u are right he is a great person and moral and righteous hope i grow up like him someday ok skip to next drama drop this jeesh was a joke!
Skrull Money Member Join date: 8 Aug 2003 Posts: 40	11-19-2003 15:15 Frankie called me a slut! pfffft! well, actually...

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