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01-07-2006 13:48
From: Ulrika Zugzwang
Or so the mythology goes ... ;)

~Ulrika~


Which reminds me...


From: someone
Did Jesus exist? Italian court to decide

ROME (Reuters) - Forget the U.S. debate over intelligent design versus evolution.

An Italian court is tackling Jesus -- and whether the Roman Catholic Church may be breaking the law by teaching that he existed 2,000 years ago.

The case pits against each other two men in their 70s, who are from the same central Italian town and even went to the same seminary school in their teenage years.

The defendant, Enrico Righi, went on to become a priest writing for the parish newspaper. The plaintiff, Luigi Cascioli, became a vocal atheist who, after years of legal wrangling, is set to get his day in court later this month.

"I started this lawsuit because I wanted to deal the final blow against the Church, the bearer of obscurantism and regression," Cascioli told Reuters.

Cascioli says Righi, and by extension the whole Church, broke two Italian laws. The first is "Abuso di Credulita Popolare" (Abuse of Popular Belief) meant to protect people against being swindled or conned. The second crime, he says, is "Sostituzione di Persona", or impersonation.

"The Church constructed Christ upon the personality of John of Gamala," Cascioli claimed, referring to the 1st century Jew who fought against the Roman army.

A court in Viterbo will hear from Righi, who has yet to be indicted, at a January 27 preliminary hearing meant to determine whether the case has enough merit to go forward.

"In my book, The Fable of Christ, I present proof Jesus did not exist as a historic figure. He must now refute this by showing proof of Christ's existence," Cascioli said.

Speaking to Reuters, Righi, 76, sounded frustrated by the case and baffled as to why Cascioli -- who, like him, came from the town of Bagnoregio -- singled him out in his crusade against the Church.

"We're both from Bagnoregio, both of us. We were in seminary together. Then he took a different path and we didn't see each other anymore," Righi said.

"Since I'm a priest, and I write in the parish newspaper, he is now suing me because I 'trick' the people."

Righi claims there is plenty of evidence to support the existence of Jesus, including historical texts.

He also claims that justice is on his side. The judge presiding over the hearing has tried, repeatedly, to dismiss the case -- prompting appeals from Cascioli.

"Cascioli says he didn't exist. And I said that he did," he said. "The judge will to decide if Christ exists or not."

Even Cascioli admits that the odds are against him, especially in Roman Catholic Italy.

"It would take a miracle to win," he joked.


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Ulrika Zugzwang
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01-07-2006 13:53
From: Joy Honey
Which reminds me...
Wow. That takes courage. :)

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chaunsey Crash
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01-07-2006 14:13
I think most people can hold their own on this issue and either ignore it or debate it, ingame I dont think its a big deal.
It is kinda annoying to see stupid crap put up ingame though, even within view of your land or even because its in view of your land.

On the forums its more of an issue though and most people I know just stay away from em, more frustration then its worth kinda thing, also the polar differences between people means that there usually just isn't much interestin discussion for som people's interests.

It does turn off some people if they're new and happen to be exposed to alot of it at once for some reason and then they think its always like that. For me having been around so long though its only an issue every once in awhile, but then i also rarely leave my land/sim.
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01-07-2006 14:18
From: Introvert Petunia
Oh, and to address the core of Eggy's point, the political spectrum seems to be cleaving along educational levels, in part I think, because Bush and crew explicitly pandered to that civil divide. As the SL playerbase is self-selectedly intelligent / creative / educated, what you are observing are attributes that tend to correlate highly with the modal SL player.

Not true. It is not true that people who have political views of one side or the other, or who have religious views of one side or the other, are more educated, intelligent, creative, etc.

I would say it is true, however, that those with certain political views/religious views dominate these forums, and aren't shy about it. So that you are less likely to hear from those who either don't share those views here, or don't care really to discuss religion and politics on the SL boards.

So it is not that those who join SL tend to be smarter, more educated, etc., and thus share the views that dominate these forums. It's pretty arrogant to think that, Malachi.

Moreover, we have that poll I pointed to above - which everyone wants to forget about, apparently - that showed there are more republicans populating these boards than you think. Fifty percent, in that poll.

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01-07-2006 14:22
From: Chip Midnight
Coco, I think the way your beliefs formed from the kind of melting pot you describe comes through a lot in the way you argue in various topics. You're stubborn about what you think but you tend to go out of your way to demonstrate to those that you're arguing with that you understand what they're trying to express, even if you don't agree. I think that's great. It goes back to what I said about people caring more deeply about being understood than agreed with. I think if more people took the extra step of trying to show the other side of a debate that they at least understand the other point of view, it would go a long way towards diffusing vitriol and helping discussions stay more productive. It's something I'm not sure I'm particularly good at and could use work on. It's often hard for stubborn people to do :)

Thank you, Chip! You are absolutely right, that I want to be understood more than agree with, and I want to UNDERSTAND as well.

However, it's also true that I am pig-headed. Rather astoundingly pig-headed. It takes quite a bit to get me to see and understand the other view sometimes, in case you hadn't noticed. Sometimes people talk and talk and talk forever on these forums at me, about anything, before I finally see what they are getting at and where they are coming from, and then it's Oh! I see what you're saying.

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01-07-2006 14:23
From: Introvert Petunia
Careful, the last guy to try to espouse that belief got nailed to a cross. :p


I can't think of many things that go against my grain more than martyrdom. ;) Once someone abadons their autonomy for the greater good they've become simply a tool to be used in service to someone else's agenda. Empathy that's not balanced by staunch individualism is too easily manipulated.
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01-07-2006 14:25
From: Cocoanut Koala
Thank you, Chip! You are absolutely right, that I want to be understood more than agree with, and I want to UNDERSTAND as well.

However, it's also true that I am pig-headed. Rather astoundingly pig-headed. It takes quite a bit to get me to see and understand the other view sometimes, in case you hadn't noticed. Sometimes people talk and talk and talk forever on these forums at me, about anything, before I finally see what they are getting at and where they are coming from, and then it's Oh! I see what you're saying.


hehe, don't worry Coco. You're definitely not the only one :)
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01-07-2006 14:46
Just noticed its been over a year since I last posted in this forum.
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01-07-2006 20:39
From: Ulrika Zugzwang
Or so the mythology goes ... ;)

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So, why was this 'dig' even necessary, especially for a tongue-in-cheek remark? In the context of a discussion about tolerance, you again show no tolerance for persons of faith, and further, mock them in no uncertain terms. These tactics are campy and vulgar. What elevates you to a position of judgment, anyway? Why is your standard of 'logic' the de facto standard by which to determine whether or not to grant another human being due dignity?
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01-07-2006 21:03
From: Paolo Portocarrero
So, why was this 'dig' even necessary, especially for a tongue-in-cheek remark?
Take a valium. Drink a beer. Hug a puppy. Sleep in tomorrow. Pet a kitten. Get tickled. Have some cake. When you're done, reread the thread title, reread my sentence, and then pause on the smiley.

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01-07-2006 21:39
From: Ulrika Zugzwang
Take a valium. Drink a beer. Hug a puppy. Sleep in tomorrow. Pet a kitten. Get tickled. Have some cake. When you're done, reread the thread title, reread my sentence, and then pause on the smiley.

~Ulrika~

My point was valid. But alas, this is your modus operandi when someone makes a valid point against you. Make them look stoopid, or better yet, ignore it, altogether. Smiley aside, wouldn't the tolerant act have been to just let it go? In a very real way, I see your tactics as the opposite side of the Stankleberry coin. Or, maybe it's just the Madison Avenue in you: Repeat often == brand recognition.

Another point. This is a casual, conversational forum. Nobody expects to come here prepared with reams of research ready to back up every claim. If that were the case, we'd all be hanging out at the Mensa forums. We come here with our general impressions, our varying educational backgrounds, our individual cultures and our unique familial histories (among other factors). I certainly realize that there are points when idealogical debates go overboard, and lose their relevance in a forum like this. Even so, aren't we more like ambassadors than lobbyists? And, aren't we all free moral agents? Who said we all have to believe the same things? Why does it matter to you, other than from a public policy perspective, the way someone else believes?

Ulrika, you can't have your cake and eat it to. You can't both set the terms for the argument and then dictate how your opponent can react to it. If anyone needs a valium, it isn't me. How about I hand you a mirror so that you can come to terms with the fact that you, too, are a mere mortal human?
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01-07-2006 21:41
From: Paolo Portocarrero
My point was valid. But alas, this is your modus operandi when someone makes a valid point against you. Make them look stoopid, or better yet, ignore it, altogether. Smiley aside, wouldn't the tolerant act have been to just let it go? In a very real way, I see your tactics as the opposite side of the Stankleberry coin. Or, maybe it's just the Madison Avenue in you: Repeat often == brand recognition.

Another point. This is a casual, conversational forum. Nobody expects to come here prepared with reams of research ready to back up every claim. If that were the case, we'd all be hanging out at the Mensa forums. We come here with our general impressions, our varying educational backgrounds, our individual cultures and our unique familial histories (among other factors). I certainly realize that there are points when idealogical debates go overboard, and lose their relevance in a forum like this. Even so, aren't we more like ambassadors than lobbyists? And, aren't we all free moral agents? Who said we all have to believe the same things? Why does it matter to you, other than from a public policy perspective, the way someone else believes?

Ulrika, you can't have your cake and eat it to. You can't both set the terms for the argument and then dictate how your opponent can react to it. If anyone needs a valium, it isn't me. How about I hand you a mirror so that you can come to terms with the fact that you, too, are a mere mortal human?
This used to say, "Oh, snap!" but I thought I'd edit it because you don't seem like you're in the mood.

You're a well-established SLer and someone who I know to be a relatively nice fellow. If I'm upsetting you this much, maybe you should contact me by PM or email. I'm usually a little more reasonable there. I'm sure we can find some common ground.

It's Saturday night, mon. It's too weekendy for me to get all riled. ;)

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01-07-2006 22:56
Chip, I am only trying to inject some hardcore realism (and political incorrectness, which is always fun) into this discussion. Yes, a lot can be gained (and has been gained) from discussion in which both parties adhere to principles of logic--as Ulrika mentioned--and humanism. Actually, a lot has been gained from discussion [period]. And it's not just increased understanding of the opposing party's position. In many cases, downright agreement with the opposing party has been achieved too.

You seem to stop at this point: discussion leads to greater awareness and that's a good thing. Yes, but a greater thing would be if this awareness yields some concrete results. What use is it for the disaffected individual if the opposing party has become aware of her disaffections and perhaps has even developed some empathy for them? She wants to see some action. She wants change.

Change can be achieved through discourse. But--here comes the realistic part--some change requires relentless discourse (most of the time talking about the same things over and over and over again until no one can ignore your nagging), ample time to carry on with the looooong conversation, and perhaps a little bit of aggression (or threat of aggression)--physical, political, economic, whatever may be appropriate and justifies the ends sought--thrown in to seal the deal. Point being, discussion alone may not be enough to get to where you want. Pleeeenty of discussion, time, and enough force to tip the balance of power may be needed too.

Ideas are potential precursors to action. Ideas that you hate are potential precursors to acts that you may hate. To love someone--even a rational, humanistic one--and still hate their ideas is to love someone whom you may need to use force against to keep them from performing the acts that you disagree with. And what if these acts are quite detrimental to your well-being or your children's well-being and the force required to stop them from being performed is quite serious? Even rational, humanistic thought can get you into such entanglements. Is it still a love-hate relationship or a hate-hate one?

Well, you're talking mostly about the benefits of discourse. And I agree with you. I just questioned whether tolerance can really be upheld from discourse through to obtaining the desired results. And for some cases, I do not think it can.
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01-08-2006 08:28
From: Rick Deckard
here comes the realistic part--some change requires relentless discourse (most of the time talking about the same things over and over and over again until no one can ignore your nagging), ample time to carry on with the looooong conversation, and perhaps a little bit of aggression (or threat of aggression)--physical, political, economic, whatever may be appropriate and justifies the ends sought--thrown in to seal the deal. Point being, discussion alone may not be enough to get to where you want. Pleeeenty of discussion, time, and enough force to tip the balance of power may be needed too.


I agree with much of what you said, but I have to disagree with what I quoted... at least in the context we're talking about. Threat is rarely appropriate in discourse and never in an online forum. Since I consider myself a pacifist, I'll go so far as to say that it's almost never appropriate in any situation. Believing everyone can be brought around to your way of thinking is rather naive, and threat rarely accomplished anything except to make people dig into their trenches. The only rational over-arching goal for anyone with respect to the rest of the people they share the planet with is to live and let live. The only people I'm truly intolerant of are those who are incapable of that and who feel that everyone else must be brought around to their way of thinking or else. People who feel that way have let their humanity become slave to their ideology. It's fundamentalism.
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01-08-2006 08:45
Aggression brought Germany and Japan around America's way of thinking. But then again, those theaters of conflict were not quite the same as online forums :P
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01-08-2006 08:50
From: Paolo Portocarrero
So, why was this 'dig' even necessary, especially for a tongue-in-cheek remark? In the context of a discussion about tolerance, you again show no tolerance for persons of faith, and further, mock them in no uncertain terms. These tactics are campy and vulgar.


Actually, Paolo, you're really the one being intolerant in this particular instance. No offense. Ulrika's comment wasn't aimed at any individual. It wasn't a personal insult against anyone. It was an expression of her belief that the crucifiction is a myth. I happen to share that belief. You often choose to take any expression of belief that differs from your own as a personal insult when it's not. You choose to play the victim. You're not being victimized.

I'll say it again... ideas are not people. You are not your belief. What you're asking for is for Ulrika to silence her beliefs in order to appease you and others who believe as you do. That is the very definition of intolerance and it's one of the most dangerous and insidious aspects of religious belief... the tendency to see those who do not share it as an enemy and their dissent as something that negates their humanity. You're using political correctness as a weapon.
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01-08-2006 08:58
From: Chip Midnight
Actually, Paolo, you're really the one being intolerant in this particular instance. No offense. Ulrika's comment wasn't aimed at any individual. It wasn't a personal insult against anyone. It was an expression of her belief that the crucifiction is a myth. I happen to share that belief. You often choose to take any expression of belief that differs from your own as a personal insult when it's not. You choose to play the victim. You're not being victimized.

I'll say it again... ideas are not people. You are not your belief. What you're asking for is for Ulrika to silence her beliefs in order to appease you and others who believe as you do. That is the very definition of intolerance and it's one of the most dangerous and insidious aspects of religious belief... the tendency to see those who do not share it as an enemy and their dissent as something that negates their humanity. You're using political correctness as a weapon.


Since she stated only a few posts back that she had "no respect for" beliefs that (reading between the lines, admitedly) could not support themselves with fact, and that she suggested that religious people were either indoctrinated (Not a word with particularly good connotations) or "poorly educated", I can see where Paolo is comming from.

It's one thing to profess an idea contrary to someone elses, and no one is asking Ulrika to silence herself (As if that could ever happen :p ), but the constant little sniping at the opposition isn't needed, nor would I define it as "tolerant". You can disagree with the idea without insulting the people who hold the opposing viewpoint.
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01-08-2006 09:19
From: Reitsuki Kojima
You can disagree with the idea without insulting the people who hold the opposing viewpoint.


I don't disagree with your points, but unfortunately the above is simply untrue. You can't choose for someone else whether or not they'll take insult. Only they can do that. You can try and reduce the chances of it by trying to be diplomatic, but the post Paolo chose to take personally was benign and in no way personal. I find playing the victim, especially with such a benign comment, to be the more intolerant view. It strikes me as being rather calculated and somewhat disingenuous. Maybe it comes down to different ideas about what constitutes tolerance. I think expecting someone else to candy coat their beliefs to appease your personal sensibilities is not a demonstration of tolerance but rather shows a lack of it.
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01-08-2006 09:31
From: Chip Midnight
I don't disagree with your points, but unfortunately the above is simply untrue. You can't choose for someone else whether or not they'll take insult.


Now that's missing my point, totaly.

Yes, /some/ people will always find /something/ to take offense at. But it doesn't take a person with particularly thin skin to get annoyed at being called "poorly educated" or similar.

Saying "I don't believe in god", or "I don't think there is sufficient evidence to believe in god" or something, that's one thing.

Saying "I don't believe in god, and anyone who does is stupid" or "I don't believe in god, and if you do, you've been brainwashed", that's something else.
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01-08-2006 09:40
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Saying "I don't believe in god", or "I don't think there is sufficient evidence to believe in god" or something, that's one thing.

Saying "I don't believe in god, and anyone who does is stupid" or "I don't believe in god, and if you do, you've been brainwashed", that's something else.


If it's aimed directly at you and specifically says "you" are uneducated and brainwashed, you'd have a point. If it's not then you're taking someone's personal opinion and choosing to take it personally and be insulted. Ulrika's comment isn't a fair generalization because it obviously doesn't apply to all believers, but it is true of many believers. Why do you think the vast majority of religious people are members of the same religion they were born into? It's because they were indoctrinated. Further, young earth creationists and anti-evolutionists are very often poorly educated and lack any real understanding of the scientific method or the evidence supporting evolution as is so often demonstrated in debates on the subject. You can choose to take offense at that but Ulrika can't make that choice for you except to eliminate any chance of it by remaining silent. To quote Paolo, you can't have your cake and eat it too.
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01-08-2006 09:47
From: Chip Midnight
You can choose to take offense at that but Ulrika can't make that choice for you except to eliminate any chance of it by remaining silent. To quote Paolo, you can't have your cake and eat it too.


My point is, you don't have to be silent to be diplomatic, or, if you prefer, tollerant. Theres a line in conversation where you cross over from stating your opinion to being offense... It's not just completely random. (Some people will take offense at completely random things, but I'm adressing the majority, not the extremists.) You can express your views on a subject without denegrating the opposition in most cases. If you choose to cross that line and include barbs, even if they aren't specificly aimed at one person (But, really, if someone says that group X is stupid, and you belong to group X, it's kinda aimed at you, even if not directly), then you do have to accept at least some of the blame for the offense. You could have easily not included the insults and still got your view across.

*using "you" in a non-targeted fashion here, of course.
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01-08-2006 09:58
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My point is, you don't have to be silent to be diplomatic, or, if you prefer, tollerant. Theres a line in conversation where you cross over from stating your opinion to being offense... It's not just completely random. (Some people will take offense at completely random things, but I'm adressing the majority, not the extremists.) You can express your views on a subject without denegrating the opposition in most cases.


I think Ulrika is overly snarky sometimes, but I also think that when it comes to expressing views counter to religion it is often (and I'd go so far as to say usually) impossible to avoid having people take offense. I could not give a full an honest accounting of my opinions on religion without offending anyone. It would be completely impossible. You'll rarely see an atheist play the victim. Religious people do it with alarming regularity. It's often the result of emotional rather than logical argument and it's a learned behavior aimed at silencing dissent by painting the dissenter as mean spirited and inhumane. It's often inhumane to the dissenter. That's why I believe constructive debate on such topics absolutely requires people to separate ideas from the people who hold them.
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01-08-2006 09:58
My 2 cents... we are all different people. We all behave differently. We all get offended over different things. It is nearly IMPOSSIBLE to not "offend" another person, no matter how hard we try not to. We could all sit here and nitpick semantics to death. It isn't going to change how people react to certain stimuli.

I agree that there are diplomatic ways to deal with most subjects - but this is a public forum. No one says you have to be diplomatic. Just don't be abusive. You would probably not find many of the people who post on here in positions that require diplomacy. That's why we have ambassadors ;)
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01-08-2006 10:09
From: Chip Midnight
I could not give a full an honest accounting of my opinions on religion without offending anyone. It would be completely impossible.


Sure. Like I say, /someone/ will take offense at /anything/. There are, however, things that radicly increase the likelyhood that someone will take offense. Ulrika peppers her posts with these as a matter of course. That's what I'm refering to.

From: Chip Midnight
You'll rarely see an atheist play the victim.


As an aside, that has rarely been my observation, but I suppose we run with different crowds.

From: Chip Midnight
It's often the result of emotional rather than logical argument ... That's why I believe constructive debate on such topics absolutely requires people to separate ideas from the people who hold them.


Which makes a bit of self-control when it comes to lacing posts with needlessly inflamitory language is needed. Sure, you can't make a post that /nobody/ will be offended by... Some people will get offended if someone even says they don't believe in god. But, I repeat, there is no reason to deliberatly antagonize, which seems to be some poster's style.

Or, to quote... Well, really to make up a quote, so far as I know, but I'm sure someone has said something like this, and I heard it, because I'm not normally so quoteable:

"Sometimes the assurance of failure isn't enough of a reason to not try. Even if you fail, in the long run you win, because you tried to do what was right."
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01-08-2006 10:21
From: Reitsuki Kojima
Some people will get offended if someone even says they don't believe in god. But, I repeat, there is no reason to deliberatly antagonize, which seems to be some poster's style.


I think we're pretty much saying the same thing but in different ways. I just think the responsibility goes both ways and the post that Paolo took issue with really wasn't in any way antagonistic. Ulrika might often be that way, but if you take issue with her as a matter of course even when she's being benign then aren't you (the figurative you) doing exactly the same thing being complained about?
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