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bargain Walcott
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Join date: 31 Oct 2005
Posts: 248
11-28-2005 12:08
It's only been a month and I love it here. Over all, I have not met a bad person yet. I can do with out the bush signs everywhere and on top of me but even that has not effected the enjoyment I get here from all of you and SL.

Unfortunately that seems to be changing real fast. I have acquired my first stalker. It's an obnoxious person who has taken it upon themselves to harass me. They keep coming around shouting obscenities at me and harassing my friends, going into there houses uninvited and today I signed in to find several objects placed by them on my property.

I have taken the basic steps of banning them and all of that but I'm sure they will find a way to get at me regardless. So my question is what can I do about it?

Thank you in advance.
Dr Tardis
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Join date: 3 Nov 2005
Posts: 426
11-28-2005 12:14
From: bargain Walcott
It's only been a month and I love it here. Over all, I have not met a bad person yet. I can do with out the bush signs everywhere and on top of me but even that has not effected the enjoyment I get here from all of you and SL.

Unfortunately that seems to be changing real fast. I have ran acquired my first stalker. It's an obnoxious person who had taken it upon themselves to harass me. They keep coming around shouting obscenities at me and harassing my friends, going into there houses uninvited and today I signed in to find several objects placed by them on my property.

I have taken the basic steps of banning them and all of that but I'm sure they will find a way to get at me regardless. So my question is what can I do about it?

Thank you in advance.


The next time they come around and harrass you, file an abuse report. It's in the Help menu, if I recall.
Nolan Nash
Frischer Frosch
Join date: 15 May 2003
Posts: 7,141
11-28-2005 12:15
Copy the text of what they are saying to you, snap some pics, and use the Report Abuse function under the Help menu. Make sure to include copied text and a pic of them near you.

If you don't seem to get a timely response from LL, call their 1-800 number.
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bargain Walcott
Registered User
Join date: 31 Oct 2005
Posts: 248
11-28-2005 12:19
Thank you. I found the neat little abuse option. I will use it. Question is, how many times will I need to do this before SL takes any action?

PS
Do you think I should unban them so I can catch them in the act on my property?
Aimee Weber
The one on the right
Join date: 30 Jan 2004
Posts: 4,286
11-28-2005 12:24
You should bring all the relevant information (chat logs, abuse reports, etc.) to the Lindens so they can investigate and immediately determine if this stalker should be written up in national news and magazine sources as a representative of Second Life.
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Merwan Marker
Booring...
Join date: 28 Jan 2004
Posts: 4,706
11-28-2005 12:26
What Aimee said.

Do it now!


:cool:
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bargain Walcott
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Join date: 31 Oct 2005
Posts: 248
11-28-2005 12:31
I'm not quite sure what Aimee is saying?

And until you folks gave me advice, I had not recorded anything to submit so now I must wait until they strike again!

Also, is this a common problem here or am I just lucky?
bargain Walcott
Registered User
Join date: 31 Oct 2005
Posts: 248
11-28-2005 12:43
Thanks Aimee, I got your PM. I will do what you suggest and I'm gonna pass the same along to my friends.

Thanks so much, you folks made me feel a little better and I see some hope here :)
Issarlk Chatnoir
Cross L. apologist.
Join date: 3 Oct 2004
Posts: 424
11-29-2005 03:59
From: bargain Walcott
I'm not quite sure what Aimee is saying?

And until you folks gave me advice, I had not recorded anything to submit so now I must wait until they strike again!

I suggest a prehenptive strike against them, go tease them on their usual dweling. Use of the nyahnyah emote should do it.

From: someone

Also, is this a common problem here or am I just lucky?


You are lucky, my secondlife is uterlly boring in comparison. Stalkers, woo ; I'd pay to have stalkers!
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Cristiano Midnight
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Join date: 17 May 2003
Posts: 8,616
11-29-2005 06:10
From: Aimee Weber
You should bring all the relevant information (chat logs, abuse reports, etc.) to the Lindens so they can investigate and immediately determine if this stalker should be written up in national news and magazine sources as a representative of Second Life.


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Hank Ramos
Lifetime Scripter
Join date: 15 Nov 2003
Posts: 2,328
11-29-2005 06:13
From: Issarlk Chatnoir
You are lucky, my secondlife is uterlly boring in comparison. Stalkers, woo ; I'd pay to have stalkers!

I want a stalker of my own too! :D
Burke Prefect
Cafe Owner, Superhero
Join date: 29 Oct 2004
Posts: 2,785
11-29-2005 06:37
Get a security orb, put their names in the banlist, get the roster of their groups, and put those in the list too. Set it to offline their asses.

This is probably the reason we don't have the ability to detect individual groups.
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Issarlk Chatnoir
Cross L. apologist.
Join date: 3 Oct 2004
Posts: 424
11-29-2005 06:44
From: Hank Ramos
I want a stalker of my own too! :D


Maybe we can stalk each-other ?
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Burke Prefect
Cafe Owner, Superhero
Join date: 29 Oct 2004
Posts: 2,785
11-29-2005 07:05
I usually get short-term stalkers when I leave stuff out in a sandbox.... Of coruse, They're left their because I was disconnected or blown into then next hub code.
But I'lll occassionally get some noob begging me for some vehicle I left out. I tell them it's unfinished, they still want one, so I give them one, and the start bitching that it's nomod no copy. So... I'll just start tellingthem that untested betas are not L$1k.

But... I'm really just bored, so if anyone wants a stalker, let me know.
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bargain Walcott
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Join date: 31 Oct 2005
Posts: 248
11-29-2005 08:26
You folks are funny. I can't believe you have me laughing over this rather then worrying. I appreciate it. It doesn't seem so bad anymore.

I just wanted to add that maybe "stalker" was not the best way to describe this jerk. A harasser would be more descriptive, or maybe a fruit cake! Let me give you an example of this persons little games they like to play with me. Yesterday I was flying this new helicopter a friend gave me. I went to land it on my land but it would not lower down. After trying several time I figured I was doing something wrong so I jumped out and tried to use the edit tools to bring it down to the ground. That didn't work either. Well I flew up to it to take a closer look and found this moron sitting on the tail of the heli. Because I had them on my ban list, and they were attached to the heli, I was prevented from landing the heli so I had to eject this nut first!

You tell me what to call em?
Taco Rubio
also quite creepy
Join date: 15 Feb 2004
Posts: 3,349
11-29-2005 08:28
From: bargain Walcott
You folks are funny. I can't believe you have me laughing over this rather then worrying. I appreciate it. It doesn't seem so bad anymore.

I just wanted to add that maybe "stalker" was not the best way to describe this jerk. A harasser would be more descriptive, or maybe a fruit cake! Let me give you an example of this persons little games they like to play with me. Yesterday I was flying this new helicopter a friend gave me. I went to land it on my land but it would not lower down. After trying several time I figured I was doing something wrong so I jumped out and tried to use the edit tools to bring it down to the ground. That didn't work either. Well I flew up to it to take a closer look and found this moron sitting on the tail of the heli. Because I had them on my ban list, and they were attached to the heli, I was prevented from landing the heli so I had to eject this nut first!

You tell me what to call em?


hilarious?
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Forseti Svarog
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Join date: 2 Nov 2004
Posts: 1,730
11-29-2005 08:34
From: Aimee Weber
You should bring all the relevant information (chat logs, abuse reports, etc.) to the Lindens so they can investigate and immediately determine if this stalker should be written up in national news and magazine sources as a representative of Second Life.


yeah clever PR isn't it? :rolleyes:
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Cocoanut Koala
Coco's Cottages
Join date: 7 Feb 2005
Posts: 7,903
11-29-2005 09:50
Aimee, you actually made me worry, and have to go into the game to make sure you weren't meaning that Prok was the person doing this to Bargain.

Another waste of time.

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Aimee Weber
The one on the right
Join date: 30 Jan 2004
Posts: 4,286
11-29-2005 09:59
From: Cocoanut Koala
Aimee, you actually made me worry, and have to go into the game to make sure you weren't meaning that Prok was the person doing this to Bargain.

Another waste of time.

coco


:confused:
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Enabran Templar
Capitalist Pig
Join date: 26 Aug 2004
Posts: 4,506
11-29-2005 09:59
From: Aimee Weber
You should bring all the relevant information (chat logs, abuse reports, etc.) to the Lindens so they can investigate and immediately determine if this stalker should be written up in national news and magazine sources as a representative of Second Life.


Slam. Dunk.
Katja Marlowe
Registered User
Join date: 15 Apr 2005
Posts: 421
11-29-2005 10:13
From: bargain Walcott
You folks are funny. I can't believe you have me laughing over this rather then worrying. I appreciate it. It doesn't seem so bad anymore.

I just wanted to add that maybe "stalker" was not the best way to describe this jerk. A harasser would be more descriptive, or maybe a fruit cake! Let me give you an example of this persons little games they like to play with me. Yesterday I was flying this new helicopter a friend gave me. I went to land it on my land but it would not lower down. After trying several time I figured I was doing something wrong so I jumped out and tried to use the edit tools to bring it down to the ground. That didn't work either. Well I flew up to it to take a closer look and found this moron sitting on the tail of the heli. Because I had them on my ban list, and they were attached to the heli, I was prevented from landing the heli so I had to eject this nut first!

You tell me what to call em?


Griefer is the term used a lot :)
Krazzora Zaftig
Do you have my marbles?
Join date: 20 Aug 2005
Posts: 649
11-29-2005 12:25
From: Katja Marlowe
Griefer is the term used a lot :)


I prefer reallyannoyingpersonI'dratherhandofgodintothenextworldinsteadoftalklingtocausetheywerefunnyforthefirsttwominutesbutnowtheyareannoying.

*PS yes I am bored*
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Sera Cela
A little bit of crazy
Join date: 15 Sep 2005
Posts: 197
11-29-2005 12:31
Have someone script up for you a "Restraining Order" :p

Whenever the guy gets within 96m of you he gets immediatly superpushed :p
Katja Marlowe
Registered User
Join date: 15 Apr 2005
Posts: 421
11-29-2005 12:52
From: Krazzora Zaftig
I prefer reallyannoyingpersonI'dratherhandofgodintothenextworldinsteadoftalklingtocausetheywerefunnyforthefirsttwominutesbutnowtheyareannoying.

*PS yes I am bored*


well yes i was too tired to come up with a string, so griefer worked well :P lmmaoo
Liv Karuna
Registered User
Join date: 12 Jun 2004
Posts: 82
The only solution...
11-29-2005 12:55
is to report, report, report. It happened to me....stalking... and after numerous reports the issue was resolved and the perpetrator permanently banned. It is time consuming and stressful, but ultimately it does work. Good luck.
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