Actually I let my avatar play with guns in SL 'cause they make really cool noises that are soothing to my avatar. I let my avatar be furry because my avatar likes the feeling of removing the furry skin after some rousing yffing. And I let my avatar play in Gorean sims because it makes him feel good to free his slaves. Even when his slaves don't want to be freed. Well OK that bothers my avatar a little bit.
The idea that anyone would suggest, based on very ambiguous pop psychology ideas, that they are in command of understanding the complexities of fantasy roleplaying with a disassociated electronic psuedo-representation in a virtual world construct is silliness bordering on delusion. Or something like that. *grin*