Looking for a way to customise Xcite or tear off style messages for my own items

I have just started making a line of harem girl outfits, and like the option to have others able to click and remove the veils. I am just wondering if anyone has any insights into ways of doing the text for this, so that a person can, for example, write a line on a notecard with variables for owners name and actors name and have the script read the notecard and replace the variables with the actual owner and actor. It would be easier i know to have set messages but I know i never like the set messages on these products and would prefer to write my own, so I assume others might tool. My attempts so far have been buggy and seem to have hit a wall, so i am hoping to be pointed in a new direction. Thankyou

Rewrite the sentence that's sent out. So instead of
"X removes the veil from Y's face"
say
"Y's veil is ripped from her face by X"
Now all you need to do is rename the item sending out the message to "Y's veil", and it'll show as a smooth running line without annoying breaks. Also looks more logical in an RP sense. The object maybe isn't talking, but it is the thing ripped off. Otherwise you'd get something like:
"Object Z: X removes the veil from Y's face"
or
"Object Z: Y's veil is ripped from her face by X"

So use the name of the item that speaks the whole sentense, it's seriously what looks best, that's why the guys at Xcite picked that solution as well.

Or you could change it around so that the object is renamed as the riper and use the /me syntax

X removes Y's veil carefully