From: Farallon Greyskin
SL eats a LOT of ram, I generally instantly shoot to 600-800 meg and then drift up to over a gig. Well since the OS requres SOME memory and any other porgrams yo might be running... 1 gig just ends up being extremely tight for SL and you just get plain old fasioned HD swapping.
Now in your case your video card is ALSO sharing 300+ meg of ram with your main memory! So you may actually only have like 600 meg free to run SL.
Buy another gig and you'll be a LOT better off when running SL. If you have the money a better video card will also help as it will not then be taking up any of your main memory like your current one is.
Again: If there are more suggestions, advises, questions please post them here and talk about it. I / we just can learn from it.
Feel also free to contact me in world...just IM me

Thank you all for your advises and sugestions!!!!!!!!!! You are really great guys all!!!!
RAM is most important yes! !1 GB is not enough! 2GB should be installed at least yesl
Im going to double my RAM then!!!!
YES Farallon Greyskin!!!!! My old graphic card with shared memory (512MB shared memory, 128 MB fix) takes away the free RAM too, so I'm going to get a never and faster gc soon!
Now I have changed my settings under the graphic preferences - it works fine now as long as the cache isnt filled

Here are my new settings ( FURTHER ADVISES VERY WELCOME *******)
NETWORK SETTINGS UNDER PREFERENCES:
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Maximum bandwith: 1500 (full) I have DSL 6000kbits
Disk Cache size: set to 1000 MB
Disk Cache Location: E:
Game Program Location: C: when I install the game onto E: I get into troubles after I cleared the cache, I cannot start the program and need to resinall the whole game)
Partition E: space = 40GB, free space 9GB
GRAPHIC SETTINGS UNDER PREFERENCES:
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- Run in window mode 800x600 pixels
- Draw distance = 96meters
GRAPHIC DETAIL SETTINGS UNDER PREFERENCES:
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-NO Shaders at all!
I turned all shaders "off" and this helps a lot. I only enable the shaders when I do photos shootings (new card and more RAM is needed to be lazy yes

- Lightening Detail: Local Lightening (I cannot exist without this

- Terrain Detail : set to "low"
Detail Sliders:
Object Detail, Flexible detail, Avatar Mesh Detail = set to 100% (cannot save beauty)

Tree Mesh Detail = set to the half (50)
ADV GRAPHIC SETTINGS UNDER PREFERENCES:
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- Anisotropic Filtering is turned off (disabled)
- Open GL Vertex is turned off (disabled)
- Graphic Card memory set to 128 MB.... instead of 512 MB
(as you know I am using an graphic card with 512 MB shared memory, only 128 MB Ram is fix and the rest works with the RAM in a shared mode (372 MB)
I belive this helps me too, saving some of my avaliable RAM!
- Fog Distance = 3.8 (not sure what I should set here)
- max particle count= 256 (also not sure)
- outfit composite limed = 4
AUDIO & VIDEO SETTINGS UNDER PREFERENCES
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All the standard settings, music and video streams if needed
- default upload bitrate : set to 128kbits coz I have an availiabe upload bandwith of 820 kbits
SYSTEM SETTINGS (WINDOWS)
- I make sure there is always enough free disk space (4 GB at least, I have 9GB free)
- normally I install games onto another partition, not on C; to make sure the system runs seperately, but there is a "BUG" with SL Software when I go this way. I need to install the game on C

system, standard). However, the cache location can be anywhere else
- I make sure my disc is clean, and the files are sorted (defraged)
- I close other programs that work in the background, especially downloads and scanner!
Again: If there are more suggestions, advises, questions please post them here and talk about it. I (we) just can learn from it.
Feel free to contact me in world...just IM me

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