LOL - life can be hard - even
Second Life.
I'll come at it from the other angle and suggest a few groups. NB - I'm not in-world at the mo so I may get the name slightly wrong, but close enough for you to find them in search.
If you want to learn building, scripting, etc, you could join Basic Building, Academy of Second Life (ASL), TeaZer Edu VIP and others.
You mentioned Zen in one of your posts - not sure whether you were just using that as an example of how
over-helpful search can be, but there's Buddhists of SL. There are also Jewish, Christian, and Islamic groups.
The Ethics Group has regular in-world discussions - their off-world forum is
here.
There is a book club - Assembly Ground Book Discussion, and some writers' groups - SL Writers (Writers of SL??) is one.
Don't know where you're from, but various nationalities/languages have groups too, eg, Brits of SL.
Oh, and if like me you are one of that misunderstood and neglected elite, a Mac user, check out Macintosh Users Group.
Here's a tip for when you're in-world: when you click someone's profile, check out their groups and see if anything catches your eye then pull it up in search. That's how I found some of my groups. You're welcome to look at my list.
