
My Partner Ariel Monde is a Live Helper. It was my understanding that if she did NOT wear the group title she would not be recieving LH IMs - for help or otherwise.
I also believe its a prime indicator that although a person may be IN the LH group, they aren't available at all times to be badgered and bothered with LH IMs/Issues/Business etc.
Especially if they are not sporting the title. That means off duty does it not? People can read here for the meetings and the business and info for the group.
Lately Ariel has been worn to a frazzle with all of this LH stuff coming at her, and she hasn't even been on duty. Not to mention with our RL schedules we rarely get a quiet moment together.
And for those of you giggling - I'm not even talking about the smoochie stuff. Ariel, Grey Mars and I collaborate on projects, keep each other caught up on our lives, and basically just enjoy those rare moments when we can hang out together in SL.
So I'm wondering is the LH IM thing broken? Or are people just making free with contacting Ariel whenever they please for whatever?
1. If its broken - please fix it. My One works hard and she loves helping out in LH, but she's THIS close to chopping out the group forever - she's stressed out!
2. If its not broken - have a care about when and how you contact those who are NOT on duty.
Perhaps write them a notecard with whatever it is you need to tell them, and send a short IM letting them know you've sent it & they can reply when its a better time for them.
All of this includes Kenny, Teeple and any other Lindies. Respect a person's schedule, and respect their Second Lives.
ty for listening