I'm fairly sure (but not 100%) that if I used edit linked parts to select several prims in a multi-prim object, then unlinked it used to separate the prims I'd selected to be single prim objects, but would leave the rest of the object properly linked together.
Now, if I do that the whole linked set falls apart to single prims.
If it's not just my memory I'll happily bug report it, if it's just a senior moment, sorry for wasting your time!