Feedback on new idea requested from BDSM/swinging community

(CAUTION: This is a post for adults, concerning an adult subject, even though the language has been kept to PG.)

Hello; my name is Miller Copeland, a brand-new citizen of SL. I'm just learning my way around the interface these days, but in RL have already been hosting private sexual get-togethers for years, featuring select, very intelligent, very attractive (in a SuicideGirls-type way) participants, in the Chicago urban area.

It's my understanding that there is a large community in SL already existing, interested in either the BDSM lifestyle or casual swinging (via chat/IM/audio), or both; I am requesting feedback specifically from you, and are assuming that you're already okay with talking about adult subjects in an explicit way (**not here at the forums**, of course, but by sending me a **private email**).

I am seriously thinking of building a sex club in SL, one that would provide the benefits of a RL service like AdultFriendFinder.com (real-time group and individual chat cybersex, that is), but all the filtering of a place like Nerve Personals (where you only end up with young, cool, intelligent people, who put a lot of work into their avatars, and are social/sexual creatures...and who listen to the same bands as you). It would combine a fantastic minimalist architectural style, a rigorous invitation process to select only great participants, as well as famous DJs spinning live at the club via Shoutcast audio stream.

I've put together a detailed walkthrough of the club as I envision it; it's being hosted by my RL counterpart at his personal website:

http://www.jasonpettus.com/archives/000532.html

Unlike this post, THAT entry does contain adult language. I would like to please beg anyone involved with "the lifestyle," who is already an SL veteran, to perhaps go read that if they have time, and email me [ilikejason at gmail dot com] with your thoughts, further suggestions, opinion if you would join or not.

This is just a rumor for me at this point, of course, but I hear that there is a real lack of communal organization for adult activities on the mainland right now; which I think is such a shame, since it hasn't been that hard for me to throw good ones even in RL here in Chicago. I would love to know more about whether this is true, where good places are to visit if it's not true, and what you as an interested adult citizen would be most interested in with a place like this, to make it worth your time. And again, I apologize to those at these forums who are not interested in discussing adult subjects; I've tried as much as possible to make this a PG posting, and I hope responders will do the same.

UPDATE: Torley and I are speaking via private message right now, trying to figure out where in the Forums this message should appropriately appear. Thanks much to the Linden staff, for helping us who are interested in this subject to find an appropriate way to talk about it, while still leaving the general forums friendly for everyone.

Hello Miller, and a warm welcome to SL! Did you want a Linden perspective on this, or did you want this moved somewhere else for discussion amongst fellow Resis? Unfortunately the SL Answers forum doesn't allow for that. PM me on here or IM me inworld if you do, I look forward to communicating further.